jakethasnake
Master Don Juan
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This thread probably doesn't jive at all with all the wannabe "playas" on this site who think they need to walk around with gold baubles hanging from their necks and profanity and hot air braggart comments spewing from their mouths, in order to get women. And I understand why, trust me.
The wannabe players and pimps here are always missing the details. They only think of the IMAGE they need to sell, and not the work that goes into being a good ladies man. Basically, they are not willing to work for it - they are performers, relying on their IMAGE to attract certain types of women (you know the types...).
All they dream about is the Cristal and Hummers and diamonds, and they do not focus the small details that makes one a smooth talker and a ladies man. Just being big and muscular and macho with tattoos won't always work, either. You need to learn and 'naturalize' small details such as facial expressions, simple jokes, and types of questions you ask (and as you become REALLY good, you'll realize that you won't even have to prepare anymore).
I can talk a tight fluff game too if I need. Sorry to pick you as an example again Player Supreme, but it seems like a good time to bring it up to illustrate my points. Do you guys remember the e-mails he posted before on numerous occasions - the ones the are supposedly between he and the women he were courting (er, pimping)? It was full of gibberish and stuff that would send most MEN laughing in your face. But the WOMEN enjoyed it - why? Many men found it corny and lame, but the women were eating it up. Why is that?
The REASON for that is that for women, what you say doesn't really matter - it's about HOW SHE FEELS when you say something. You could even be calling her names and spitting in her face, and as long as she is somehow feeling good at that moment she won't care (an extreme example, but I'm trying to illustrate a point). In fact, she'll love you for it. Btw, this is also why C&F sometimes works - you are subtlely insulting her for her various shortcomings, but she is feeling you because she likes the TEASE, not the subtley degrading comments you make (I mean, who LIKES to be made fun of? Exactly.)? She likes how the TEASING makes her feel, not the insults.
So it wasn't player supreme's superior writing or skill with words that got the girls to like him - it was something else, like the way he carries himself or talks (And again, you demeanor/actions only attract certain types of women. There are types of women that PS can attract like nothing, and many other types that would spray MACE in his face and run. Same goes for me, and all you guys.). All the attracting is done in the first few minutes - a woman will decide if she wants to ball you as soon as she sees you. C&F is only for fun and amusement if she won't fock you - nothing else.
I guess I digress, but the objective of this thread is to share ideas for fine-tuning the little details in your game, like conversation, for example. After you internalize this, you can take it any direction you want - you can become a smooth talking gang-banger pimp, or a smooth talking Cary Grant classy man. Anything you wanna be, boys. Like I said, don't miss the big picture by neglecting the small picture. And don't slap your dyck on girls foreheads 10 minutes after meeting them.
The wannabe players and pimps here are always missing the details. They only think of the IMAGE they need to sell, and not the work that goes into being a good ladies man. Basically, they are not willing to work for it - they are performers, relying on their IMAGE to attract certain types of women (you know the types...).
All they dream about is the Cristal and Hummers and diamonds, and they do not focus the small details that makes one a smooth talker and a ladies man. Just being big and muscular and macho with tattoos won't always work, either. You need to learn and 'naturalize' small details such as facial expressions, simple jokes, and types of questions you ask (and as you become REALLY good, you'll realize that you won't even have to prepare anymore).
I can talk a tight fluff game too if I need. Sorry to pick you as an example again Player Supreme, but it seems like a good time to bring it up to illustrate my points. Do you guys remember the e-mails he posted before on numerous occasions - the ones the are supposedly between he and the women he were courting (er, pimping)? It was full of gibberish and stuff that would send most MEN laughing in your face. But the WOMEN enjoyed it - why? Many men found it corny and lame, but the women were eating it up. Why is that?
The REASON for that is that for women, what you say doesn't really matter - it's about HOW SHE FEELS when you say something. You could even be calling her names and spitting in her face, and as long as she is somehow feeling good at that moment she won't care (an extreme example, but I'm trying to illustrate a point). In fact, she'll love you for it. Btw, this is also why C&F sometimes works - you are subtlely insulting her for her various shortcomings, but she is feeling you because she likes the TEASE, not the subtley degrading comments you make (I mean, who LIKES to be made fun of? Exactly.)? She likes how the TEASING makes her feel, not the insults.
So it wasn't player supreme's superior writing or skill with words that got the girls to like him - it was something else, like the way he carries himself or talks (And again, you demeanor/actions only attract certain types of women. There are types of women that PS can attract like nothing, and many other types that would spray MACE in his face and run. Same goes for me, and all you guys.). All the attracting is done in the first few minutes - a woman will decide if she wants to ball you as soon as she sees you. C&F is only for fun and amusement if she won't fock you - nothing else.
I guess I digress, but the objective of this thread is to share ideas for fine-tuning the little details in your game, like conversation, for example. After you internalize this, you can take it any direction you want - you can become a smooth talking gang-banger pimp, or a smooth talking Cary Grant classy man. Anything you wanna be, boys. Like I said, don't miss the big picture by neglecting the small picture. And don't slap your dyck on girls foreheads 10 minutes after meeting them.