ever almost rape your gf?

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by 00Kevin
sometimes i think rough sex is a good way to get out all the frustrations you have built up inside. Some girls can really get on a guys nerves and this is the best way calm down.

This is getting just about to the point where you're making me a little uncomfortable about this thread.

 

[A-Unit]

Re:

LoL.

EVERY girl I have ever spoken to or been with had some "fantasy" of rough sex with the right person.

You can do anything with the right person.

I'd prefer to err on the side of too aggressive, than too docile.




A-Unit

 

[seabreeze]

I think what women like most is assertiveness. Sexually, I think women like passion. I've had passionate sex that left me with bruises (thighs, back from being on a hard surface) for a few days, but I did not feel victimized. It wasn't angry sex and I was quite surprised to find bruises. But what I experienced in Jamaica was demoralizing and I think I just blocked the experience out of my mind because I had this wierd perception that I guy you were in a relationship with could not rape you. No woman thinks it will actually happen to her, especially at the hands of someone who says they love her. And then if the guy shows no remorse, it just clouds your perception of reality even more.

I think women like to feel sexual agression only when it is fueled by a passionate desire to make love to her, not because of anger or using her body as a masturbatory apparatus to relieve aggression or anger. Big difference, fellas.
SB

 

[Alpine]

I had a girlfriend who had two fantasies. One was to be raped and the other was the twin brother thing.

I told her they would have to stay fantasies as I was an only child and not into sharing, and I also know that women say one thing one minute and then say the complete opposite the next.

Don't get me wrong though, no harm in a bit of hairgabbing and a serious seeing too.

 

[icecreaman]

I think every chick wants to be f@#ked hard at some point in there life. I on ocasion like to have rough sex, it is a great stress reliever. As far as rape is concerned, I wouldnt go there because I considered it a violent act towards females. I dont think women want to be raped just f@#ked hard at some point(by one or many other guys). I can see how rape happens in some cases. You could be getting all hot and steamy with a chic, and then in the middle of it she wants to stop. One time I was inside a chic and she wanted to stop, WTF!!!! It was all good because while we were discussing why we should stop, I went ahead and finished anyway. Would you guys consider that rape??? I think sometimes women do this on purpose to provoke this kind of behavior from us men.

 

[Alpine]

In the eyes of UK law that is rape, however it's another thing proving it.

The law as it stands is an insult to men and women. If a women is viscously raped at knife point, the law says it is no different to your gilfriend saying no, two seconds before you shoot and you don't stop. The forensics may be support rape in both cases.

The problem with rape has always been who do you believe?

The other beef I have is annonymity for just the women. It should be both parties.

 

[MysteryWoman]

Originally posted by 00Kevin
How many guys here have ever tried to have sex with your girl to the point where if you went any further it could be considered rape?


I did this once to a girl that I was pissed at and she said it was the best she ever had.

Some how I am not suprised to hear this coming from a guy like you

 

[MysteryWoman]

mistake

 

[seabreeze]

Icecreaman,

I'm curious as to how long you two were going at it before she asked you to stop. If it had been a while then I'd say it was cruel of her to want to stop. If it was early on and if it was hurting, you should have stopped, but I wouldn't consider that rape. Maybe you could have asked her to stimulate you manually if she wanted you to pull out. I've never actually wanted to stop after things got going, and if I did, I wouldn't say anything unless it was painful or something and even then I would always finish him off another way.

A part of me can sympathize with men in SOME date rape situations. Some women play too many games. But, having forceful sex with a woman because you are angry with her is not fun or sexy. It may or may not be rape, but it is certainly not a loving act at that point.
SB

 

[00Kevin]

Re: Re: ever almost rape your gf?

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[00Kevin]

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[00Kevin]

Originally posted by icecreaman
I think every chick wants to be f@#ked hard at some point in there life. I on ocasion like to have rough sex, it is a great stress reliever. As far as rape is concerned, I wouldnt go there because I considered it a violent act towards females. I dont think women want to be raped just f@#ked hard at some point(by one or many other guys). I can see how rape happens in some cases. You could be getting all hot and steamy with a chic, and then in the middle of it she wants to stop. One time I was inside a chic and she wanted to stop, WTF!!!! It was all good because while we were discussing why we should stop, I went ahead and finished anyway. Would you guys consider that rape??? I think sometimes women do this on purpose to provoke this kind of behavior from us men.

this is basically all I'm saying as well. Maybe rape is a bad word to use. There is nothing wrong with doing a girl really hard. If she likes it then you are ok.

I think that it is just a fact that girls like it hard once and a while.

There is nothing like tossing your girl around and doing her in any that comes to mind. Do her from the front and then spin her around . .. etc. I think that as long as you know your own strength you won't hurt her.

I also think that you can't be aggressive all the way through the experience. At some point you have to remind her that you still care about her. if you think you are going to far kiss her neck etc..

I just think it feels great to let the girl feel how strong you are.

 

[seabreeze]

Now you're talking 00Kevin.
SB

 

[icecreaman]

Originally posted by seabreeze
Icecreaman,

I'm curious as to how long you two were going at it before she asked you to stop. If it had been a while then I'd say it was cruel of her to want to stop. If it was early on and if it was hurting, you should have stopped, but I wouldn't consider that rape. Maybe you could have asked her to stimulate you manually if she wanted you to pull out. I've never actually wanted to stop after things got going, and if I did, I wouldn't say anything unless it was painful or something and even then I would always finish him off another way.

A part of me can sympathize with men in SOME date rape situations. Some women play too many games. But, having forceful sex with a woman because you are angry with her is not fun or sexy. It may or may not be rape, but it is certainly not a loving act at that point.
SB

We had been going at it for about 15min when she wanted to stop. She didnt say anything about pain or discomfort, she was moaning pretty loudly. I think she was just having second thoughts cause she had a boyfriend.

 

[George Gordon]

A lot of this discussion is taken outside the frame. Put it inside the frame, and it all makes sense.

What do women want? Who cares! What do you want? That’s what’s important. Why? Because women want whatever you want. Except there’s one condition: you have to be a man!

First, your sexual relationship with a woman is a reflection of your relationship outside of the bedroom. Second, a woman is a reflection of you. Everything revolves around you!

What do I mean by a woman being a reflection of you? A woman will feel whatever you feel. So the only important thing is that you are IN TUNE WITH YOUR FEELINGS! That’s all that matters.

[For the dumba$$es out there: Of course, you have to be aware of her feelings too! You can tell if she’s following you with her feelings, can’t you? 95 times out of a 100 a woman follows my feelings, so I don’t normally have to consider this, but if she’s isn’t following, you are out of line. So stop!]

In the bedroom, your feelings lead the sex just as outside the bedroom your desires lead the plans.

Sex is about pleasure, to a degree. And all women want to please their man. For a man, he can either choose to, depending on what he feels like: Please himself through her, Let her please him, or Please her. (Or a mixture.) If the relationship is solid, these are all good. Follow your feelings in the moment; They will fall into one of these ‘categories’.

A woman feels pleasure when you please yourself through her. Women are sex objects in the bedroom. Sometimes I’ll treat my girlfriend like a sex object. I’ll hold her arms behind her back and boink her from behind, very aggressively, on the verge of violently. Or whenever she tries to grab my hips, I’ll grab her hands and pin them down and fvck her like she’s a piece of meat.

The very odd time when I’m tired, I’ll get her so turned on and then let her do what she wants to do to me. But that’s my business.

And of course, there are those times when I want to make love to her whole body, and please her. I’ll spend an hour or more covering her whole body with fingers and hands and tongues and lips and cheeks before inserting with a slow, deliberate rhythm.

Other times, I’ll change gears spontaneously midway through.

It all depends on what YOU feel like! If you feel like fvcking her brains out, do it. If you feel like getting a BJ and letting her ride you, turn her on and sit back. If you feel like making love to her, do it! Women enjoy what you enjoy.

Embrace your feelings and urges confidently; she’ll follow! Your feelings set the tempo and the mood. Don’t even think about it. Simply, be aware of what your urges tell you, and follow them.

But before you do any of this, make sure you’re a man. I’m not kidding here either.

!GEORGE GORDON!

 

[icecreaman]

George Gordon,

That an interesting way of looking at things. Anyone else agree?

 

[Hollowpoint]

nothing I haven't been doing already (to icecreaman)