That wasn’t your original point. You said ‘’Have you ever wondered why two guys can run the same "game" and one could come across as a creep and the other as charming? VALUE.’’
The game has NOTHING to do with VALUE. You could be a surgeon and not know how to talk to girls. You could have 15 condos to take her back to but not know how to because you have no game.
A does not mean you’ll get B. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t strive for A, but it’s not a cause and effect issue.
Yes of course. But now you are talking extremes.
I think you must be young.
Sosuave advice; Get money, money, money, money, money. Don’t learn a new craft or value your youth or improve your education or meet as many people as you can. Just get money. Because once you are in your late 30s or early 40s and are a millionaire, the hot girls will suddenly realize how awesome you are while all your friends and married with kids.
To each his own.
In my experience, it is the opposite. The more I am successful in life, the more entitled I feel with women. I don't understand how you can have 15 condos and still not feel entitled with women. Don't you have an ego? Confidence comes from worldly success. Confidence does not exist in a vacuum.
Now, there are "naturals" out there who got laid at 12 years old and somehow are able to pull no matter how broke they are. There are outliers.
It is not working on your game vs working on your career. You need both worldly success and social skills. But LMS opens doors for you.
Everyone needs social skills. But in order to get into the door, you need to have some baseline value, aka LMS.
Honestly, I am more of a looks guy than a money guy. Because looks gives you the benefit of the doubt even before the woman knows what you do. I have been approached over 100 times in my life because the girl thought I was cute. No argument in the world is going to convince me looks don't matter.
However, even though I grew up getting approached left and right, I was somewhat socially awkward. It took awhile for me to calibrate to getting seduced.
But without looks, I wouldn't even have the problem of not knowing how to handle women approaching me.