Graphic details ahead: LOL it pains me to write the thread title. I'm in my late 20s. Beat it once a day usually but can only get it up with manual stimulation. I get morning wood sometimes but it doesn't last long, and I rarely ever pop spontaneous boners during the day.
Not being able to get hard easily definitely affects my confidence. Been with a few girls and I've let myself down. I have reason to suspect its a psychological thing and not physical. I also wonder if lack of performance reinforces itself due to anxiety. Could also be due to depression etc...
Anyone able to mentally "stimulate" a boner into happening? Ironically I hated getting wood when I was younger and wished it would settle down... Got my wish :-(
Greatly appreciate advice here.
Not being able to get hard easily definitely affects my confidence. Been with a few girls and I've let myself down. I have reason to suspect its a psychological thing and not physical. I also wonder if lack of performance reinforces itself due to anxiety. Could also be due to depression etc...
Anyone able to mentally "stimulate" a boner into happening? Ironically I hated getting wood when I was younger and wished it would settle down... Got my wish :-(
Greatly appreciate advice here.