Alright, so in my school, anytime I go and talk to girls, they usually start warming up to me. Then, they meet my friend, and they usually start warming up to him. Then at some point down the road, they usually start liking him over me. This seems to be a real flaw almost. I remember this one girl I used to talk to. She gave me her number and everything, and we used to hang out alot. Then she met my friend, and now she barley even talks to me. She calls him usually, and my friend comes and tells me, not trying to make me jealous or anything, just out of spite. It escalates to a certain extent, but its still an issue. Can anyone give me some advice? I'm happy to give any more detail about this.
Envy? Jealousy? Or just lacking Skill?
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ARrocket
Master Don Juan
How close of a friend is he to you?
You have to improve your own game....competition is a part of life. But if he's a really really good friend, maybe you can have a talk with him.
You have to improve your own game....competition is a part of life. But if he's a really really good friend, maybe you can have a talk with him.
Scars
Master Don Juan
You're gonna have to improve your game, and maybe find a better set of friends that wont hit on your girl. Me and my buddys already have a set of unspoken rules, things you should just already know. If somebody has already started talking to a certain girl, then we lay low. We don't act like the girl doesn't exist or anything, we're still friendly etc.. but if we ever get the feeling they're coming on too strong we just simply say "I'm sorry, but I feel things are flowing in a direction that I don't intend to.. you're my buddies girl and I don't want to do anything that would jepordize our friendship" or just something along those lines. The girl will get the hint. It helps to have friends who already KNOW the game as well, all of my friends are my wingmen. We never c0ck block each other, ever. We root each other on, and sometimes go to great lengths just to help each other out. We never get butthurt over a stupid girl, it's all in good fun. These are some of the best friends I've ever had. Try talking to him, just explain to him that it bothers you that whenever you introduce a girl to your circle of friends you always feel like she is swooped from you.. if he's any kind of good friend and values your friendship you should see a difference in his behaivor, if not then I don't really think this guy is worth being your friend.