I've seen way, way too many threads asking why a girl flaked, or what can be done about it. There's only one thing you can do about it: Nothing. It's completely pointless even discussing it. She wasn't interested, period. If she was, she'd meet up with you.
Yes, it's bruising to the ego and contemplating every possible thing you said and trying to figure out what you could have done different might ease the mind, but the reality is it doesn't change anything. It's over with, done, finito.
You need to take your phone and go menu --> delete. "Are you sure you want to delete this contact?" Yes.
The only person you have to blame is yourself when you go out on the weekends or run day game and stop after you get one or two numbers. And yes, that's exactly what's happening because this is the reason you get so worked up when a girl flakes. You only have a couple leads, and when they fall through you have nothing else to fall back on.
If you want to be a player (I don't like the term Don Juan), abundance needs to be your number one priority. Do you know what I do when I encounter a girl who is open, flirty, bubbly, shows interest and eagerly gives the number? I go out and talk to nine more girls. Don't be fooled into thinking she's interested just because she's in your phone. They will flake, I promise you.
I went out over the weekend (Saturday) and accumulated 10 numbers. You know how many flakes I had? 6. On the other hand, 4 girls wanted to meet up. Instead of sulking around asking why those bad apples didn't text me back, I had a different problem. I was trying to fvck 4 girls in the same night and needed to use all my brain power to work out the logistics to make it happen.
Instead of filling your mind with flaking, fill your phone with numbers.
Yes, it's bruising to the ego and contemplating every possible thing you said and trying to figure out what you could have done different might ease the mind, but the reality is it doesn't change anything. It's over with, done, finito.
You need to take your phone and go menu --> delete. "Are you sure you want to delete this contact?" Yes.
The only person you have to blame is yourself when you go out on the weekends or run day game and stop after you get one or two numbers. And yes, that's exactly what's happening because this is the reason you get so worked up when a girl flakes. You only have a couple leads, and when they fall through you have nothing else to fall back on.
If you want to be a player (I don't like the term Don Juan), abundance needs to be your number one priority. Do you know what I do when I encounter a girl who is open, flirty, bubbly, shows interest and eagerly gives the number? I go out and talk to nine more girls. Don't be fooled into thinking she's interested just because she's in your phone. They will flake, I promise you.
I went out over the weekend (Saturday) and accumulated 10 numbers. You know how many flakes I had? 6. On the other hand, 4 girls wanted to meet up. Instead of sulking around asking why those bad apples didn't text me back, I had a different problem. I was trying to fvck 4 girls in the same night and needed to use all my brain power to work out the logistics to make it happen.
Instead of filling your mind with flaking, fill your phone with numbers.
