"Enjoy being single"....HUH?

[Prodigy746]

I actually enjoy being single for the most part...

-I love my peace not having to worry if a girl is going to cause drama because i didnt call her or didnt answer my phone.

-I love being able to hit on ANY girl without feeling like i am cheating.

-I love talking to any girl without having to worry if my girl will find out and accuse me of cheating even though we are only talking.

-I love freedom, being able to hang out with who ever i want for the weekend (my best buds, my coworker, myself, etc)

-I love not having to hear the drama from her previous days something about her best friend and her getting into argument.

I could name some more but i think you get the point.

The thing is right now at 21 i am not looking for a serious relationship... i am not saying i wouldnt start one with the RIGHT girl but she would have to be good. I will start to look for my wife when i reach 25-26 years old until than i am really not looking forward to being exclusive with anyone. I am just looking to have fun and if the girl is not improving my happiness.....NEXT

 

[DonJuan11]

Ive never been in an official LTR or have dated non-exclusively for extended periods. Basically, its because ive only been on one side of the fence and have never gone passed it to experience something better or worse. Now...how do you guys out there who are in my position deal with it? Now don't tell me "go get a hobby", "work out", cuz Ive had that down for years...

If you are joining a "hobby" and "working out" but still not meeting girls, then you may have to look deeper and see whether its a personality or behavioral issue that you can't meet a quality girl for a LTR. Are you putting yourself out there to meet girls? Are you coming on too strong? Are you able to get past a 1st date? Can you show them a good time? Do you introduce them to your friends?

Even by your annoyance of your friend saying "be glad your single", I can tell you are not happy with yourself. If you were comfortable in your own skin and worried about your life, your response would be "yes, I am. And the girl who becomes my girlfriend will be even happier because I'm so exciting and interesting and I make girls forget about all their problems when they are with me"

Before you can be in LTR, you have to come to terms with who you are and it seems like you have not yet.

 

[PRMoon]

Most...check that ALL of my post highschool relationships have been less then a year. My LTR experience is limited at best. All I can say is the grass is always greener on the otherside of the fence definately doesn't apply to me. I see alot of people out here either in relationships or married but they have a TON of drama almost universally. They cheat on their spouses, they steal from them, they run and hide from them etc etc. It's ridiculouse. I speculate that this is because they are too young and living in Las Vegas, where youth plus temptation equals trouble.

Anyway, I have proven time and time again (well not to any of you becaue you all live in my computer) that I can pick up girls in my hometown from all over the world with little difficulty. With the sex portion out the way I focus more on work and managing my money...which in turn makes me even more attractive to women. It's a singly good life

 

[Scars]

When you're single you're not tied down. You can do whoever you want, whatever you want, whenever you want. I haven't had a gf in 5 months, and it's been the best 5 months of my life. I've improved my game so much since then.