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Ended it...and feel like shyt...PLEASE HELP

Legend

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Alright school started up and there that chick was again. Waiting for my DJ skills. Well me DL skills sucked so bad.

She was my ex from last semester and i really cared about her and liked everything about her. Monday and Tonite we hung out .

Monday everything was great, just like normal. We hooked up and she seemed like she was happy around me.

Tonight i dont know what the fvck happened. This girl did'nt even do anything wrong. I just ended everything with her. Was i out of my fvkcing mind? I just could'nt take her anymore, all her shyt she puts me through.

This i did'nt like:
She has a nextel, the phone should be smashed
-TAlks to so many other guys
-BARTENDER
-PLays games with my mind big time
-Hot and COLd
-Unstable
-makes me feel like shyt
-acts like she is to good for me and says it.

Things i liked
-Her looks

I ended things by saying i dont think we should see each other or talk anymore. You treat me like crap and take everything we have for granted. She said ok....and then said are you serious?

I just can handle this girl anymore, she has like fvcked me up so bad, i cant even think straight. It has been going on to long and i just blew it tonight. This is the first time i have ever been mean to her. I feel horrible.

I'm a pre-med student and have a really hard classes and time is something i dont have. I was tried about thinking about her instead of doing my work. I am tried of always thinking about her and what she is diong. Shes in my hand so bad and i cant get her out.....

Shes almost like the devil, she got into me and affected me bad.

I ended things once again and i cant deal with anything about her. She almost makes me sick....

I think i made the wrong move because she did nothing for me to want to stop talking to her. I dont know, i just dont have the engery to put into her. She seems like a bad investment.

I just feel like shyt because i ruined my chances of fvcking her this semester. I'm not thinking straight and lost my cool.

Do i really stop talking to this girl now? I ended it when i did'nt want it to be over.

She takes me for granted.....always had and has'nt changed since last semester, shes still like the devil, you cant say no.

I better go hit the books for my tests tomorrow......i should of kept my a$$ home.

I feel like something is wrong with me.....she makes me feel worthless.

Did i do the right thing by saying we cant talk or see eachother anymore?

PLease give me input,, i really need it
 

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This i did'nt like:
She has a nextel, the phone should be smashed
-TAlks to so many other guys
-BARTENDER
-PLays games with my mind big time
-Hot and COLd
-Unstable
-makes me feel like shyt
-acts like she is to good for me and says it.

Things i liked
-Her looks

Take a look at what you said you didn't like. Sounds like DJ tactics to me. She's DJing you! You know better than to let this shyt get to you.

However the fact that all you liked about her was her looks makes me wonder if she's worth it all any way.

Don't beat yourself up too much man. You've got a lot of work ahead of you (pre-med). You 've got your whole life ahead of you and there will be many chicks. In the big picture she is nothing.
 
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If I had a heart I would shed a tear for you Legend, but since I don't for any man who accepts this from a woman all I can give you is advice.

The reason she does:


-TAlks to so many other guys
-BARTENDER
-PLays games with my mind big time
-Hot and COLd
-Unstable
-makes me feel like shyt
-acts like she is to good for me and says it.


And:

She takes me for granted.....always had and has'nt changed since last semester,

Is because of:

she got into me and affected me bad.

I just can handle this girl anymore, she has like fvcked me up so bad, i cant even think straight.

-PLays games with my mind big time


always thinking about her

Your post makes me wanna puke...sorry I'm not trying to flame, but when I see a MAN write this kinda thing it makes me wanna heave. She should be writing this about you, and getting all the emotional highs that women are addicted to, not you.

Your the man here. The utimate player. You should be doing c&f on her ass until she can't stand it anymore. This type of playette needs a real man who will put her in her place, not some emotional symp who has to whine and get all bent outta shape.

That myth that women want a sensitive man is all crap. I have "interviewed" and I mean that...many women on this issue. They hate sensitive men. They all said they make great girl-friends but as far as f*cking or dating...uhh no.

Women want the man who can play with their heads and keep them on their toes, not some dude who get's all jealous and bent outta shape.

Here's how I would handle this biatch. And yes she is one too. I would bust her attitude down to nothing. I would clown her every chance that came up...from the clothes she wears and the way she wears her hair, to the way she sucks my dyck...this ho' need to be shyt on. That means bought back into orbit.

She has too much self confidence. Which tells me that the DJ style doesn't work for a person who wants to be a player or you wasn't following the game plan. I am going to post a players rule book next on this thread for you to view. You don't have to apply it but if you read it and were using it this never woulda happened too you.

peace
 
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The Rules To Play By:

A Player


* keeps his emotions to himself.
* is his own best company.
* doesn't get paid for screwing. He gets his pay from always having
the right thing to say to his females.
* with sense never lets a female go who still has some trick in her.
* is really a b*tch who has reversed the game.
* should be prince charming to the females. They should think you're
GOD!!!
* should always have one thought in his head, Play Or Die!!!
* should control the whole female, be the boss of her life, even her
thoughts.
* should always be determined in any and everything.
* should always recognize and respect other Players.
* should never accept anything but his money.
* must be serious!!!
* has to be married, married to the game!!!
* could cut his d*ck off and still Play his ass off!!!
* is the lonliest person in the world.
* wants any female who can make him money.
* cannot feel like a Player with one female, raise a stable.
* loves it when his women love him.
* has to use great pressure.

Women....

* A Player with a fine female has to keep his game tight.
* Females always try to find a weakness in a Player.

* A pretty black female and a white female are alike. They will try
destroy your stable and leave you broke.
* The way you start with a female is the way you end with her. Play the Game
hard from the start.
* If you chase a female you get a weak one, if you stalk her you get
a strong one.
* Don't give a trife broke female a second chance.

* Always keep your women on mental file.
* There is nothing more important than what makes a new female tick
and why. Make her tell you her life story.
* The tougher you are, the more she will love you.
* Make her convince you, that she should be your girl.
* It's better to have no female than half of a female.
* If your women act up, put them in check quick.
* Never put two new females together, they will plot on you.
* It thrills women when their Man makes a mistake. Don't make any.
* Never let your women break your rules.
* Never let your women get loud with you.
* Never neglect your women.
* If your women gets stolen the reason why is because your game was
not tight enough.
* A female in strange surroundings is more dependent on her Man.
.
* Women think twice about leaving a rich Player, so work on your front and clout.
* For every girl that leaves you, get two.
* A Player should always tell his women something new everyday to hold
them.
* Run your women like a business.
* Keep your women well maintained.

Remember....


* there isn't a female you can't do without.
* just like drugs, don't get high off your own supply and what your
supply is, is women.
* the world is nothing but a b*tch, and you are her pimp!!!!
* earn your Player degree in Playerology.
* you are not a gentleman, you are a Player!!!
* you only get great by Playing by the rules.
* you don't have to Play, you got to Play the game.
* it's a violation of the Players laws to quit a female who is bringing
you love and attention.
* the Players game is not for kids.
* never confide in your women, keep your thoughts a secret.
* Playing isn't a sex game, it's a mind game.
* just like a company, downsize and upgrade if you have to.
* true friends mean more than any female.
* in a Player's life, yesterday means nothing, today is everything!!!
* the game of being a Player is like a chess game, you must think before you move.


Always....


* find ways to keep your women without kissing their ass.
* seek knowledge about the game.
* be positive in everything you do, especially in this game.
* take care of the little things and if the female is qualified make
her take care of the big things.
* keep your mind on your money and your own life!!!
* live by the rules you set down on your women.
* keep the Player / female relationship well defined.
* be a puzzle to your women, that's a way how to keep them.
* remember what you are, a Player!!!
* remember, the only heaven for a Big Daddy Player is one filled with women and money.
* remember a Player's wardrobe has to be neat and clean, his ride must
be eye catching.


A playa only plays for so long, then he's played out. A hustler only
hustles for so long, then he's hustled out. When it’s time to turn in your player card
Just Do It! Settle down and leave the game alone and have a happy relationship and
Live off the memories of the past!
 
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