Emulate the Sociopaths when dealing with women

[pLaYtHiNg]

I think we need to start a seperate thread to discuss Roissy... I am actually enjoying his writings, and his comments on the "Errant Wife" really illustrate what you guys where talking about women lying and cheating. Although I understood this concept before, his thoughts really drive it home, and I am in agreement with his points of view on this particular woman.

I really don't want to keep hijacking this thread, so I may create a new one to continue discussing these topics, and those who wish to educate and encourage me can do so.

Back to Roissy. (Thanks, STR8UP); Then to YouTube. Thanks KX.

ETA: Okay, so these are the basic tell-tale signs of "Histrionic Personality Disorder" ...

* Constant seeking of reassurance or approval.
* Excessive dramatics with exaggerated displays of emotions.
* Excessive sensitivity to criticism or disapproval.
* Inappropriately seductive appearance or behavior.
* Excessive concern with physical appearance.
* A need to be the center of attention (self-centeredness).
* Low tolerance for frustration or delayed gratification.
* Rapidly shifting emotional states that may appear shallow to others.
* Opinions are easily influenced by other people, but difficult to back up with details.
* Tendency to believe that relationships are more intimate than they actually are.
* Making rash decisions.
* Threatening or attempting suicide[6]

Taken from Wiki, Yes, I would have to say I am definitely not afflicted. These signs and symptoms kind of remind me of my sister though. She actually gets pissy and passive-aggressive if she doesn't get her way. She seems to make herself the center of attention if she is feeling ignored.

My head hurts.

She has a brain tumor.

LOL It's pointless and futile to try and have a conversation with her unless it's about her.

All and all, I don't think there's anything wrong with me.

Anyways, instead of adding a new post, I've decided just to keeping adding onto my original one. Participation is appreciated! Thanks, guys.

 

[penkitten]

In closing if anything this place may help you develop a thicker skin which can help out there in the world harsh as it can be at times. :rock:

ain't that the truth!
this place helped me to become a better person.
sure, you have to weed out the bad advice and steer clear of the drama of being a woman on a man's website... but all in all, this place is great.

 

[Slipper Hero]

"BTW, if you really want to find a forum similar to this that will give you the fair discussion that you want go to the Tucker Max boards but don't bother with the link that hero assh0le wants to give you.

If you had any degree of insight you'd already have guessed that Tucker Max is the link I gave her.

 

[KontrollerX]

If you had any degree of insight you'd already have guessed that Tucker Max is the link I gave her.

Since your appearance here you have acted like a feminist shame spouting douchebag rather than adding anything of substance to this community.

So forget insight my "deductive reasoning" led me to believe you sent Plaything a link to some ultra pansy ass site where you learned to be the divisive mangina you were acting like on this board.

Tucker Max boards from what I have seen spout the feminist shaming also but if you can sift through that crap you can get somewhat of a similar message as you get here but its a very anti man board only simply a little less so than Next Level Lame, Loveshack and other f@g sites especially.

 

[piranha45]

If plaything came here to learn, then she wouldn't be GIVING ADVICE. Giving advice and throwing out commentary is all I've seen her do! Reading information requires no posting input whatsoever. If she were genuine about her desire to learn, she would be listening, not talking. Inevitably she would encounter material that points out how women are the last group of people a man needs to take relationship advice from, and if she was so learning-intent then maybe she'd take it seriously. But no, she's not interested in learning at all, it seems.

So she just wants to talk... BUT:

If plaything didn't want to be an AW, she wouldnt be increasing text size and posting in pink. She wouldn't be flagrantly advertising her feminine sex. So why is she doing this? Because she wants to EXPRESS HERSELF TO US. Her official rebuttal on this matter, translated from w0manese, clearly states this.



Consequently, she's just YET ANOTHER woman who ran into the board and jumped at the chance to AW herself out. And like any AW, her natural defense upon being called out is to just deny everything, regardless of how pathetic the rebuttal might sound.

Since the board has an Ignore User feature, I really wouldn't have a problem with her or the other undesirables if it weren't for the fact that everyone feels such an overwhelming need to QUOTE THEM, which completely negates the feature. And that's the guys' fault. A lot of guys feel the need to point out how the advice is wrong so that the advice-seekers will not be mislead, but the others are still just AFC's who don't know any better and still fawn over women, and this enormous latter group is the reason AW's remain so successful here.


The logical thing in my mind would be to simply ban the women, but we've got trolls aplenty who (inexplicably) escape the moderator deletions and banishments, so the forums are just another imperfect system whose easy remedies we will have to curiously live without.

/vent

 

[ketostix]

Well said pirahna. I'm thinking plaything is here AWing and trolling for attention or maybe even trolling for a man :kick: .

 

[pLaYtHiNg]

this place helped me to become a better person... you have to weed out the bad advice and steer clear of the drama of being a woman on a man's website... but all in all, this place is great.

I am encouraged. Thanks.

If you had any degree of insight you'd already have guessed that Tucker Max is the link I gave her.

This is correct. I have not yet checked out the site, though. Still interested in what I may learn here.

If plaything came here to learn, then she wouldn't be GIVING ADVICE. Giving advice and throwing out commentary is all I've seen her do! ... If she were genuine about her desire to learn, she would be listening, not talking.

Just because I'm learning some ideas that are new to me doesn't also mean my personal experiences and thoughts are invalid. I am listening, and taking part in the topics here has increased my understanding, as I do not just comment, but also ask, for the purpose of gaining knowledge.

If plaything didn't want to be an AW, she wouldnt be increasing text size and posting in pink.

You're beating a dead horse.

And like any AW, her natural defense upon being called out is to just deny everything, regardless of how pathetic the rebuttal might sound.

You're correct. I do want the attention. When people pay attention to, and respond to my posts, I am rewarded with insight, and thus learn and gain experience. Why is that so terribly wrong? I AM here for same reason everyone else is.

...maybe even trolling for a man

Isn't that what dating sites are for?

 

[ketostix]

Isn't that what dating sites are for?

Yeah but women like to troll for men in unusual places. Kind of like fate, "Oh I was at the supermarket (bending over in my daisy dukes) and I magically met my prince charming", or "I was (trolling) on sosuave laughing at all those players and met this wonderful guy there.." lol

 

[WaterTiger]

"I was (trolling) on sosuave laughing at all those players and met this wonderful guy there.." lol

Hey! That only happened ONCE With PenKitten and...what's-his-name...They are married now.


Plaything:
....the large pink type face IS really annoying and hard to read if you post more than a few lines...

...just sayin'....

 

[ketostix]

"I was (trolling) on sosuave laughing at all those players and met this wonderful guy there.." lol

Hey! That only happened ONCE With PenKitten and...what's-his-name...They are married now.

I'm not talking about that. I bet you some other chicks that been on here got tagged by some guys from here. :woo:

Plaything:
....the large pink type face IS really annoying and hard to read if you post more than a few lines...

...just sayin'....

Yeah really. You could do what I do and change her font color to blue lol.

 

[Sandow]

Back to the original topic here. Has anyone seen the Rules of Atrraction? It made me think of this thread. The main character, played by James Van der Beek, is a complete sociopath. Yet he fvcks all the girls and is a total stud. Is a good person? No. Is he fing crazy? Yes. Do all the girls wanna fvck his brains out? Yes!!

 

[ketostix]

Back to the original topic here. Has anyone seen the Rules of Atrraction? It made me think of this thread. The main character, played by James Van der Beek, is a complete sociopath. Yet he fvcks all the girls and is a total stud. Is a good person? No. Is he fing crazy? Yes. Do all the girls wanna fvck his brains out? Yes!!

I think Drew Peterson is a good real life example of someone who's most likely a sociopath and it's attractive to women. This guys been married 4 or 5 times. One of his last wives, Stacey, that is missing was 17 and he was 47 when they got together. And even after he was suspected of his wife Stacey's disappearance and the murder of his wife before that, he recently got engaged 23 year old at the age of 54. I don't know too many 40-50 year olds marrying 18 year-olds outside of celebrities and the very rich. People like him and the girls that go after them give older guy/younger girl a bad rep.

Their murders are more calculated and make some kind of sense and they very literally walk among us and could be anyone's best friend and you wouldn't know it until you'd read about something horrific they did in your newspaper and even if you read it you probably wouldn't believe it their normalcy act fooled you so well.

Another example that "craigs list killer" was engaged. These soiciopaths not only atttract women but like you mentioned often obtain and hold positions of power and influence.

 

[KontrollerX]

"I think Drew Peterson is a good real life example of someone who's most likely a sociopath and it's attractive to women."

Indeed.

That scumbag is Casey Anthony with a badge basically or at least he was before he resigned.

He also reminds me of the "iceman" Richard Kuklinski as they both expressed their sociopathy in a similar joking friendly manner just before the real predator emerges.

In anycase what the general public never seems to pick up on is that sociopaths often like to hide out in positions of authority that command respect and trust.

Gacy was a clown for children and respected community leader.

Bundy was an aspiring lawyer.

Ok, ok so Dahmer worked at a chocolate factory but thats not exactly a suspicious type of employment to be a part of.

Yeah though the public always seems to mistake schizo type of murderous behavior as that of the psychopath because schizo type of murders seem to be incredibly random and nutty like say killing someone and eating their brain because the schizo had a delusion that they were a zombie and had to do this or they would completely die but really the true psychos are more like the Dexter character from the Dexter showtime series.

Their murders are more calculated and make some kind of sense and they very literally walk among us and could be anyone's best friend and you wouldn't know it until you'd read about something horrific they did in your newspaper and even if you read it you probably wouldn't believe it their normalcy act fooled you so well.

 

[acw]

Awesome....Excellent work...!

If I hadn't already bought you a beer (well you bought me one too!) I'd offer you one.

You know I have a similar take on the subject.

Despite the protests from women and less informed men, the Machiavellian model can serve a man well.

I have been saying for a long time that if guys want to be successful with women, they need to DATE LIKE WOMEN.

The dirty, disgusting truth is wrapped in a foofy package and topped with a pretty red bow as it is shoved down our throats before we truly have a chance to see it for what it is, but make no mistake- women are ruthless mercenaries at their core. Society TEMPERS these selfish adaptations, but as KX said, at the end of the day, biology trumps all and a woman is going to do what she thinks is in HER best interest, the rest of the world be damned.

I have also made the point in the past that the mating game is adversarial by nature. A man and a woman come together looking to fulfill their individual interests, and they stay together as long as those mutual interests are being met. But make no mistake, as soon as one person feels as if their interests aren't being served, it's either byebye (usually with a fukk you in the form of screwing your best friend) or the relationship turns into a miserable wreck.

Love? Ha. Another cruel joke played on all of us (women included). WE are so hung up on finding this mythical, mystical thing that nothing is ever good enough.

I could go on all fukking night, but instead let me reply to this-

I am seriously interested in knowing what these women are lying about. How many are cheating, and what exactly are they stealing? How does that saying go? "Fool me once, shame on you... Fool me twice, shame on me?"

Men are the ones that generally steal from each other, and women are the ones who lie and manipulate to gain social advantage.

ALL MEN (and women for that matter) SHOULD strive for greatness and self-improvement FOR THEMSELVES. I don't disagree with you here.

Here's the problem.

You say that everyone should strive for greatness. That's all good and fine...we all agree. However....."greatness" isn't easily defined, and like it or not, admit it or not, many, MANY women are attracted to gangstas and criminals the same as they are attracted to upstanding CEO's. With women it isn't about "greatness", it's about getting her panties wet. And there are many ways to do that, including lying through your teeth.



It's funny that you mentioned that. Obviously you are not open-minded, and are too embittered to really enjoy women to the fullest. It's unfortunate.

On another note, I don't dismiss that the majority of men here have the same, sheep mentality towards women, which in some respects, I give you the benefit of some personal experience, HOWEVER, saying 95% of American Woman are worthless for anything except sex is extreme and ignorant, in my womanly opinion, of course. It would seem as though you are walking around with eyes for women who will only disappoint you.


Typical response. If the guy speaks of anything other than the conventional beta mindset, he is shamed. He is bitter. He is closed off to "quality" women so he only gets what he sees.

B.S.

 

[acw]

Excellent observations......

I gave up on white american women this month. After years of analysis why should i keep wasting my time on women that only care about themselves? I am no longer going to date any white american woman. I am only dating asian/hispanic or other foreign women from now on. This could mean going dateless for a lot longer but I am prepared to carry on this decision in order to fight feminism and keep myself sane.

People in this forum talk about the feminazi agenda and taking our power back by not getting married etc. How about staying away from the feminist market? how about instead of going for gm crops (feminist women) you go for healthy organic (foreign women, women from traditional countries). You stop giving the feminazis attention you take away their power. Like Henry Makow of www.savethemales.ca said, we got the penis, we got the power, not the other way around.

 

[acw]

Another awesome response...

Yes...God is a Female...and she's Mad As Hell....LOL.

This reminds of a book that was required reading for me in the Honors program at FSU. The book was called The Myth of Male Power. Highly recommended reading....

Don't play dumb. Women go after the best jobs. They get affirmative action hiring for government and corporate jobs. Jobs like police, fire, and others that they are the most qualified for. This preferential treatment starts in public school. Women are treated preferentially in college. They are taking over the medical field and turning it into a girl's network. A woman graduates in engineering and she gets first dibs on the best jobs. Women get all kinds of social and societal support to go into careers that they are not naturally qualified for and push men out of them.


What?



What can men say about women that doesn't get shamed and ridiculed?




Everything male is construed as shauvanistic, creepy, predatory etc.




See this is your typical female solution to everything. Don't like how women are, go gay! Don't like that women get default child custody, don't have to prove paternity, don't like that it's a woman's sole decision to maintain a pregnancy, don't like that child support has no real cap, then don't have sex you dumb bastard!

A man supporting his children does not mean sending the woman who has custody of his children a big check every month for her to spend mostly on her self.



Well most women are so self-centered they are clueless of how men feel about the situation. Plus no man dares say anything from fear of being ostracized.




Yeah I get it. It's all about how you can benefit from this information.

 

[Nutz]

Another awesome response...

Yes...God is a Female...and she's Mad As Hell....LOL.

This reminds of a book that was required reading for me in the Honors program at FSU. The book was called The Myth of Male Power. Highly recommended reading....

FYI the author of that book is Warren Farrell and was one of the chairmen for NOW. He also wrote Why Men Earn More: The Startling Truth Behind the Pay Gap -- and What Women Can Do About It.

More of his books:
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/s...pe=ss&index=books&field-author=Warren Farrell


Unlike most feminists, which he is, he actually offers logical counterpoints for the way things really are. Funny that it takes a male feminist to bring balance to the gender debate.

 

[ketostix]

This reminds of a book that was required reading for me in the Honors program at FSU. The book was called The Myth of Male Power. Highly recommended reading....

Yeah I've read that book before. The author is as Nutz described. He was a former NOW chairman and saw feminism up close and became disenchanted with it after seeing it for what it really is. I'm surprised a university would require reading from the other viewpoint. Imagine that, a university requiring both sides of an idea being presented. Kudos on FSU.