I hate to tell ya, but.. stick a fork in it. It's done. End it before she does, that way you walk away with your dignity.
I'm in a good mood tonight, so I dug up an old DD Newsletter that I feel would helpful in your situation.
Excerpt:
IF THINGS GET BAD, BREAK UP FIRST
Now I'm going to REALLY stick my neck out.
This one is going to make the little baby
hairs stand up on the backs of necks of women
all over the world...
If you find yourself in one of these bad
situations that I mentioned above, and you
sense that the woman in your life is about to
leave, then BREAK UP WITH HER FIRST.
DO IT.
Don't hesitate.
Cut the line.
Hit the road.
No matter what your emotions tell you to
do, you have to end it FIRST.
If you want to have ANY chance of having
things work out in the LONG RUN, then you
need to TAKE CONTROL of the situation, and
BREAK UP WITH HER.
From this position, you will then be able
to see things more clearly, and she will be
about 100 times more likely to want to work
things out with you.
If you REALLY want to increase your chances
of having things work out, then you should
also start dating other women as well.
But let's not talk too much about that,
because I'm already in the danger zone here.
If you take the time to think about it,
you'll realize that breaking up with her
FIRST is the best possible thing you can do.
As you've heard me say quite a few times,
it's important to give a woman the GIFT of
MISSING YOU.
Never is it more important than in one of
THESE situations.
I know, this is a damn hard thing to do
when you're in the heat of the moment... but
if you don't do it, you'll probably wind up
with her leaving... and you feeling that
lame POWERLESS feeling that I described
earlier.
OK, so to wrap, let me talk about one
more thing...
As I mentioned before, the REAL thing that
causes women to LEAVE comes down to the man in
her life not understanding ATTRACTION and how
to make her FEEL IT for him.
And, as I mentioned, no woman is EVER going
to TELL this to you.
Instead, she's just going to LEAVE.
When I first started learning all of this
stuff about how to be successful with women and
dating, I had NO IDEA that I would wind up solving
the mystery of why women LEAVE men.
I was only looking for the answer to how to get
a woman in the first place... I never even thought
about KEEPING one once I got her...
But now I realize that this particular topic
usually winds up being the most important one,
because once you find that amazing woman, and
get something good going, you certainly don't want
to LOSE her.
And when you find yourself in the situation,
and you realize that the woman you have is about
to leave... you would basically do ANYTHING to
stop it.
Of course, at that point it's usually TOO
LATE to do anything... which sucks.
So one of the most important things you can do
RIGHT NOW in your life is to learn how and why
women feel ATTRACTION for some men... and how to
make women feel it for you.
