Emergence of Modern-day harems?

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Written by Tyler Durden PUA

A secret society exists. Around 52% of people on this earth are a part of it.

Of that 52%, 50% are women, 2% are men.

Of that 2%, 1% of those men are gay, the other 1% are players.

What I'm talking about is the sex secret society - and you are either *IN* or *OUT*.


SOME RULES OF THE SECRET SOCIETY:

1) Don't talk about the secret society.

2) The priority of the secret society is to have perpetually good emotions in all members.

3) Create shrowds around the secret society, like "all men are dogs". Hide the truth that women are far more likely to cheat than men.

4) If you are part of the secret society, you will never be denied anything at any point.

5) If you are not part of the secret society, you will scrap and beg for everything you get.

6) Communication in the secret society is less often verbal, and more often spoken through bodylanguage subcommunications, and verbal subcommunications that would only make sense to members. Any other way, and the 48% of men would pick up on it, and it would no longer be a secret.

7) At the first sign that someone who is not part of the secret society is possibly trying to pretend that he is, barate him with both love-rhetoric, and accusations of chauvanism and nit-witted-ness.

It's OK to cheat on someone who is not a part of the secret society, so long as it is for the purpose of fulfilling the needs of someone who is, or if it to fulfill your own needs and it is with someone who is a part of the secret society. Sleeping with a rare guy from the secret society is no worse than grinding with a girlfriend at a club and making out with her. "It doesn't count".

9) Nobody judges eachother in the secret society. There is no such thing as a slut. A slut is only as slutty as people who are NOT in the secret society are aware of.

10) Secret society members COME FIRST. If someone in the society is not having fun with an interaction, it is cut off. Conversely, if a secret society male is with a non-secret-society male, and a secret society female (all females) decides she wants sex from the secret society male, the friend of the female may have sex with the non-secret-society male, because EVERYONE in the interaction must feel good. However, if the non-secret-society male is blowing himself out so badly that he makes the female member feel very bad emotions, then the secret-society-male must face the consequences of bringing negative emotions into the equation, and lose out on his privilege for sex in that interaction, until he ditches the non-secret-society male. Bear minimum requirements for non-secret-society males being grandfathered in with the male member, is that he not qualify himself or make anyone feel uncomfortable. Failing to meet those requirements, both are blown out.

WHAT IS THE SECRET SOCIETY?

Women are repressed by men, and so must look out for themselves. They will take care of:

1) Their own sexual needs.

2) The sexual needs of anyone in the secret society.

3) The sexual needs of the few males who make the secret society possible ("players").

The secret society is what allows women to appear wholesome and allows them to screen for a long term provider/emotionaltampon.

Women hold off to find the perfect boyfriend, while sleeping with a guy who is likely sleeping with all of their friends, and their friends friends.

They also **** their gay boyfriends or jerk them off or give them head. They're part of the secret society too, so they can't be left out.


EYE WITNESS ACCOUNTS FROM SECRET SOCIETY INSIDERS (based on dozens of interviews I did over the summer, with girls in London England, as well as some from my own experience as a player):

1) If you tell a girl that you're gay, and that you want to "see what it feels like to be with a girl", she'll sleep with you. She won't insist on using a condom either, unless you do. You're part of the secret society, where condoms aren't necessary because they are logical entities and not emotionally relevant.

2) If you subcommunicate that you are a part of the secret society, and tell the friend of your target "I'm really lonely. My girlfriend cheated on me, and I need to re-validate myself tonight", she'll tell her friend to **** you. Her friend will realize from this that you are a part of the secret society, and she'll **** you. Moreover, if the friend refuses, the ugly girl will offer you a ******* to help you out.

3) If you manage to verbally subcommunicate that you are a member (its still subcommunication, because the verbal ways you communicate it aren't direct at all), the secret society members will gladly tell you all about their sexual exploits and adventures. As soon as you subcommunicate that you desire romance, she will immediately retract all of her previous statements (and she'll look completely congruent doing so), and downplay them that it was something she did just one time and that she's looking for a relationship.
PUA: "I love to go out and hook up. I hate it when girls try to run my life"..
HB: "Me too.. I hooked up with guys all last year.. My boyfriend tried to control me, but I do what I want.. My girlfriends all do it too."
PUA: "Really? Cause to be honest, I've always felt like I'm a romantic guy.. And girls always cheat on me.. I want to find a girl who won't cheat."
HB: "I would never cheat. Guys are dogs. I'm always loyal."
PUA: "But didn't you say..."
HB: "No, I said nothing."
PUA: "No, you said that you don't let your boyfriend control you and you do what you want."
HB: "No, I didn't mean that. I'm not a slut. I have no idea what you're talking about, I didn't say that."

4) If you are a member, and say that you are really lonely and you need someone to snuggle and makeout with, all members of the secret society will agree to do so with you. If you are a girl, you have privilege to snuggle and kiss and sleep in the same bed as all other girls. If you are gay, you can do the same. If it escalates to sex, its an accident and does not count. If you're a player, and you make girls around you emotional, and the friends are all in good emotions about it, they sleep with you. No one is a slut in the secret society, because the secret society does not judge.

5) If a group of girls living together find a guy who is in the secret society, they will all **** him. They'll recommend him as an honourary secret society member, and enjoy him. Meanwhile they may be in relationships with non-secret society members that they've fallen in love with, however this is not an issue because nobody in the secret society judges and sex with people in the secret society does not count. If you are a secret society member now, but in the past enjoyed a romantic relationship, what you may not realize is the part that was left out of the romance novel story (due to rules no1&2 of the secret society code), which was that after you dropped her off your romantic star watching, a secret society member came by and ****ed the **** out of her without a condom and gave her the money shot all over her face.

6) If a secret society male has a non member male friend, the friend of the girl who wants sex from the male member will have sex with the non-member even if she doesn't like him. However, rules state that if if the non-member is "creepy/scary" (kinos too much, leans in too much, asks dumb questions, tries too hard to impress, overqualifies), then the male member will be expected to return either alone or with another male member. Also, the male members must remember that positive emotions are always priority, and if he is alone he must still maintain the positive emotions of the female member who will not be getting sex, secret society rules not to be breached. Number 1 rule of the secret society, outside of not talking about it, is that EVERYONE maintains GOOD emotions.

THE UNDERLYING MISUNDERSTOOD TRUTH OF THE SECRET SOCIETY:

The 49% of men who live outside of the secret society don't understand the mental model of attraction of people who are in the secret society.

Men view attraction in their MALE MENTAL MODELS. They believe that attraction is "sexual aggression". They understand attraction as having a physical urge to have sex, and then mentally deciding that you will go after it.

They try to seduce women by touching and grabbing them, and getting them very horny. They try to seduce them in the SAME WAY that a woman would do well seducing THEM. They try to seduce them as if they were seducing a GUY. This sometimes works, and the propaganda is spread - "this is how to get chicks".

Secret society members will not fill them in, due to breach of the code.

What the secret society members are not telling you, is that they understand that most sex occurs when women are not sexually AGGRESSIVE, but sexually RECEPTIVE.

They understand that for women to be ready for sex, they need not feel horny, they need only feel EMOTIONAL.

They understand that women are not logical, and that they are emotional. They understand that for women sex is not a big deal at all, and that its their LOGIC that puts the breaks on it.

They understand that most women are afraid of sex because they lack TRUST, and because their LOGIC is putting on the breaks.

They disarm logic by making the women EMOTIONAL, so that their LOGIC (which is the BREAKS of emotion) becomes disarmed, and at the same time maintain TRUST, so that the emotions generated won't be interfered with.

Then they simply have sex, because although the women are not WANTING sex, they are too EMOTIONAL to DECLINE sex. Then, once they BEGIN to have a physical interaction, the women become horny and sexually aggressive as a result, and sex begins.
 

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(NOTE: This is why girls must ****BLOCK for eachother. Because they know that clubs are emotionally charged environments, and that it wouldn't take much for a guy to use her resulting sexual receptiveness to lay her. The guy may not be a guy that the girl would lay normally, were she feeling more logical, so the girls must look out for eachother. Guys don't need to do this because firstly, they will not be judged for sleeping around (no logic), secondly, they are sexually aggressive - not receptive - so their decisions will not be regretted later usually, and thirdly, because they do not need trust because they are not usually in any physical danger).

They also understand that value + trust + attraction = sex (rough lazy model).

Value = being someone in the secret society (it can also be SO many other things, but being a member can in some cases be sufficient)

Trust = not telegraphing interest

Attraction = increasing her buying temperature by making her emotional (emotionally aroused, not necessarily physically aroused.. the former will cause her to be too illogical to prevent you from causing the latter, when she's ready)


Don't tell anyone about this. All knowledge will be denied and you will be ridiculed.

Tyler Durden

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Now granted not every woman on this planet (52 percent) is part of this secret society (UG's, plain janes, etc) but the post really does drive the point that a few men are f*cking most of the hot girls while the rest of us are apparently settling for non-exclusive LTR's with these girls.

ER!C LIVE even mentioned in one of his posts how he would get referral sex from his FB's. Him and a few other player types were all part of this network where they would basically have a harem of hot chicks to f*ck.

I really would like to see some more input and opinions on this
 

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Here is ERIC's LIVE post about referral sex

Referral Sex!
Since I became single and started dating (read: taking a girl out and fvcking her on the first nite) again, I found that some girls who are in the ‘secret club’ are cool with me fvcking their friends.

I’ve fvcked 7 girls who I met online within the past 4 months and 3 of the 7 girls have been ‘referrals’ from either male or female friends. All girls have ranged in age: 18, 19, 26, 27, 29, 35, 37.

The membership of this secret club for guys and girls is that neither party elevates the relationship past ‘fvck buddy’. If you do, then you’re out of the club. :p

It starts out like this: I meet a girl online, I bang her and she becomes my fvck buddy. After total trust is gained, she tells her friends about me and offers to hook me up with them.

I then take her friends out, fvck them, and the cycle continues. I then can hook her up with my friends and we continue to refer sex partners to each other.

Also, I’ve met other male players online who know lots of girls who vouch for me to their f-buddies, and then I get to fvck the player’s fvck buddies! I’ll then hook the player-guy up with my fvck buddies.

It’s like a fuggin network of cool peeps who love to fvck and keep it on the downlow!

It’s amazing that I’m just figuring this out…there are hot girls out there who love to fvck, want a guy who knows how to fvck, and won’t go bragging to everyone.

IT IS KEY THAT YOU DO NOT DISCUSS WITH OTHERS ‘IN THE NETWORK’ ABOUT WHO YOU’VE BEEN WITH OR WHO SOMEONE ELSE HAS BEEN WITH.

Say something like, ‘I never kiss and tell’, if you are asked about it.

So, I’ve been fvcking girls, not telling my cyber buddies about it, then the girl refers her friends to me, and I refer my friends to her.

Chat rooms and Myspace.com rule for finding girls like this.

I post this in the mature forum because this is some advanced shyt and usually the girls who participate in this are more mature..

Cheers!

Eric

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I posted this in DJ discussion but no one is replying, so I'll let you older bucks give some insight
 

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Let me get this right. 50% of the women in the world are part of this, yet it remains a secret.

"Condoms aren't necessary because they are logical entities and not emotionally relevant." OK, so they all go at it like rabbits but they don't get the pox and none of these women get knocked up. OK it's clear to me now.

I am afraid I shall need to reserve the same degree of acceptance for this theory as I keep for emails asking for my bank account details and password.
 

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He could've said "a few guys get all the girls" and been done with it.

I've heard of this Tyler Durden PUA before, but I didn't know he was into this wierd shyt:

They also **** their gay boyfriends or jerk them off or give them head. They're part of the secret society too, so they can't be left out.

If you tell a girl that you're gay, and that you want to "see what it feels like to be with a girl", she'll sleep with you.
Okay, so he pretends to be gay to get a 20 minute humping session with an FB? I've met Emo kids in San Francisco that seemed to have some kind of arrangement like this.
 

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I already said that NOT EVERY WOMAN can be a part of this secret society. So from that I know TD is exaggerating the article.

But if you look at the correlation between the core concept of that article and ER!C L!VE's networking experience, you cannot deny that there exists an informal "club" which consists of very attractive woman and a few guys.

Being emotionally unattached to the sex and a "no kiss and tell" rule are prerequisites for being a part of this "club"
 

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You guys really need psychological help. Now!
 

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I don't care if he is a "great" PUA.

He certainly knows very little about women. There is not such a thing as a "secret"...IF more than 3 women know about it.
 

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By the way...if find it VERY FUNNY how some of the posters try to "rationalize" what "Tyler Durden actually meant with the article".

We don't know what he "actually" meant (unless we are into mind reading). What we know is what he actually WROTE.
 

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psychocandy said:
Yeah I know all about this shyt, I've got my secret society ring and everything ;)

All joking aside though, this is something that shouldn't be ridiculed. Whilst tylerdurden has named it the "secret society" it's really just social convention, at least for girls. As in, people don't know that their doing it, it just happens like that.

I can think of a few examples to back it up.

My first ever lay, I'm sure that the girls I was with (from work) were trying to set me up with one of their friends who was quite hot. Needless to say her boyfriend turned up and I didn't get any from her, but I did end up laying her UG friend. It was like they had assumed I was cool enough, so didn't mind me hooking up with one of them at least. I was 100% oblivious that they were even trying to set me up with anyone at the time, but that was back in my less experienced days :)

Another example is my natural friend who always gets calls from hot girls who are in relationships, just for some fyck-buddy style sex. Looking back on various ONS I've had over the last couple of years, the same dynamics can sometimes be applied.

So obviously it's not discussed or even consciously acknowledged by the people that do it, rather that it's natural social interaction. And the figures will be skewed for the club game. It's not like all girls think like this, but I can imagine a lot might.

Good post. I've read this before on mASF but never really thought about it much until now.
No offense...but is you don't get laid in the U.K...then something is SERIOUSLY wrong with you. Very easy to get laid there.
 

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It's called the booty call. Keep it under wraps though because we don't want too many guys catching on...
 

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This is one man's opinion. As much as I like Tyler, I have to disagree with this as being good general advice.

A good looking PUA can get away with this BS.

This looks like one of Tyler's early posts.

In any case this is double posted.

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