Embrace your sexual side.

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Most guys who don't get laid wonder how the 'players' consistently pull hot women and bed them within an "unreasonable" amount of time. So they start to kind of stalk them, they observe their behavior. They take notice on how they treat women.

They notice that they treat them "bad" and don't cater to her needs. They notice that they are very physical with them, almost "abusive." They notice that he often makes dirty, otherwise "inappropriate," remarks towards her. They notice that he basically "forces" himself on her as well.

The guy then gets the idea that the hotter women just like the jerky guys because of their self-esteem, complex PH.D psychology stuff, was beaten when was a child, blah, blah, blah, excuses on why he isn't getting laid and "explaining" why the jerky guy gets laid.

But then there is the other side of the spectrum.

The guy who doesn't get laid notices that he has friends that are the opposite of the jerky guy, but still get laid.

These guys treat the girl nice, they often buy her things for no reason, they touch her, kiss her, they tell her how beautiful she is, and they even ask for permission to do things from her! The jerky would just do as he pleased!

The guy who doesn't get laid thinks this guy is a hero! He thinks that treating a girl "right" and pampering her like a baby is the way to go! He's so nice to her and she is nice to him back! But... Behind closed doors is when the tables turn. Fights break out, random arguments, refusal of sex, degrading remarks, disobeying, and overall disrespect. The guy who doesn't get laid doesn't see this side.


But the guy who doesn't get laid fails to see the ONE thing that BOTH of those guys have in common... Can you guess what it is?

They're both in touch with their sexual masculine side.


What does this mean?

Well the jerk guy isn't afraid to make a move. He isn't afraid to touch her back, her hair, her shoulders, her hands, her stomach, her arms, her tits, her *ss, her face, and even her neck. He makes a move. He will lean in for the kiss and ask her out on a date.

The opposite guy, does the same thing but he asks permission to do so.

BUT HE IS STILL ESCALATING SEXUALLY!


The guy who doesn't get laid doesn't do that for whatever reason. He could be simply clueless, he could be an actual nice guy, or he could be possibly gay. The point is, he is not comfortable with his sexuality. He is not confident enough to make the move to score that babe!

He doesn't look the part either, he acts like a child. He dresses like a teenager from the 90's and he can't even look a pretty girl in the eyes! In order for you to believe that you are a sexual being, you have to look the part!

Now here's a game for you guys: I'm going to show you pictures from a female being comfortable sexually compared to her counterpart, the one who we all know isn't or isn't close to the latter.

The sexual female:

Now, the non sexual female:

Now compare the two. What do you notice?

One is obviously younger than the other, but her being young creates a sense of her being naive. Meaning, she's either sexually inexperienced or not yet comfortable with her sexuality at all.

Look at how the sexual girl dresses compared to the virgin girl, she is showing more skin, she's tan, she's fit, her nails are painted, her eyes-brows are done, she's wearing lip gloss, and look at how she's even standing compared to the non sexual girl- her legs are apart while her's are pushed together.

The point is, who gets laid more? The first girl or the second?

The first girl! Why!? Because she is embracing her feminine sexual side! Ever wonder why girls get jealous of that sl*tty friend or acquaintance they know? Because that sl*tty friend is more in touch with her sexual side than they are! The girl who isn't as sexual as the sl*tty girl is jealous that she is more confident in her sexuality.

Guess what? The same applies to men!

Look at this:

Guy who is in touch with his sexual side:

Guy who is not in touch with his sexual side:

http://i.ytimg.com/vi/oyUluO-1vwY/hqdefault.jpg

Again, one is younger and the other is older. The reason why I'm choosing age differences is because women are attracted to masculine behavior, including features! You can only achieve such behavior/features if you are in touch with your sexual side! It's the same for men as well! We sane men don't go around trying to hook up with 8-10 year old girls do we? Of course not! Why don't we? Because they are not in touch with their sexual side, especially compared to a 21 year old fully developed girl! They look like babies and they dress and act like kids because well, they are kids!

Most women just WANT kids, not be WITH a kid!

The first guy is obviously in shape, legs spread wide apart, nice fashion sense for his style, and even well groomed.

Now let's look at the second guy. His hair is greasy, his dress style is very boring and plane, he isn't in shape, and if you have seen the video, he is a very nerdy dude. He just gives off the vibe of the opposite of sexual.

Who gets laid more? The first one! Why? Because he looks the part. He looks like the type of guy who isn't afraid to make a move. He looks like the guy who will approach the pretty girl waiting in line at StarBucks. He looks like the guy who knows how to get into a woman's panties.

He looks like someone who is embracing their sexual side.


Realize that you want that girl. You want her for yourself. Embrace that feeling of desire and act it out before you even second guess about it. You see a pretty girl, you go get her on a date.

Simply looking the part will get your foot in the door. The rest is acting it out. It's up to you to approach her, it's up to you to get her out on a date, it's up to you to kiss her, it's up to you to drop a dirty joke, it's up to you to tell her she's pretty as you undress her, it's up to you to make her moan your name.

Do not fear if she rejects you, do not fear if you get flaked on, do not fear awkward silences, do not fear if she has a boyfriend who will jump you, do not fear anything. You see something nice and you go get it.

You don't need a fancy car, look like Ryan Gosling, have a high paying job, live on your own, be popular, you don't need any of that. That stuff certainly DOES help(get your foot in the door) but it is not a REQUIREMENT. These are all BY-STANDARDS of success. The girl who gets laid more dresses more revealing and feminine, this gathers even more attention and boosts her confidence. And the guy who gets laid more dresses and acts more masculine, resulting in him being more successful- both by-products of comfort of their sexual side!

The only thing you need is to become confident with your sexual side. Remember that homeless guy who was pulling babes off of the street and sleeping with them so he had somewhere to eat and sleep for the night? If he can get some tail like that then so can you. And most of the girls he pulled weren't fatties either, they looked like normal desirable women!

All you have to do is embrace you being straight.
 

ChalengeGuyFan

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This should be obvious, but it's not: looks (presentation) matter to everyone, whether they admit it or not.


What do you assume about the first girl ? Fun, outgoing (has friends), is a good lay.
About the second girl ? Artsy girl, maybe weird, probably a lousy (boring) lay.

What do you assume about the first guy ? Physically active, outgoing (has friends), has a girlfriend, has his sh!t together.
Second guy ? Boring, lifeless masturbator.

Would you feel threatened if the second guy approached your girl and they are sharing a laugh ? What about if the first guy did it, eh ?


And yeah, girls are MORE superficial than guys ? Don't believe me ? Go in a club and witness the approach of a good looking guy to that of a mediocre or bad looking guy. Who gets rejected rudely most often ? yeah..
 

ChalengeGuyFan

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Almost forgot: if you want to change your looks, it is mandatory to ask for feedback. Everyone of subjective when evaluating their own looks, so improvements might come small and slow.
 
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