Embrace Insecurity!

[Sammo]

Huh? What drugs am i smoking now. Well my ****ers i don't care if you like what im about to tell you because it go's against everything we have taught one another. Well im sorry, i don't think this way any longer.

Destroying insecurity is the girls way out, lets pretend that there was someone on this earth that WASNT insecure (I find this hard to believe) and people oppinions of them didnt matter, well when they finally succeed and get what they want it doesnt seem so great because there's no one to show it off to (I don't care what you say, i have never met a teenager or an adult at that who is 'enlightened') but on the + side if you lose, it doesnt matter! That's why its the girls way out, you can't handle a strong emotional let down.

Right now im with a HB9.5 model who seems perfect for me, we have alot in common and she thinks she is in 'love' with me. I don't care what people say about one-itis, i am going to get hooked up over this chick because it means that while i am with her, i am having so much more fun then if i wasnt 'insecure'.

I know everyones going to object to this post, but use insecurity to your advantage because i know you are, dont tell yourself that if you could have everyone like you and every chick drooling over you that you wouldnt do it. I know you would, everyone has their price.

How do you embrace it? Let it make you angry, anger chanelled properly can be a superior motivator. Buy a book, every time someone says something that makes you feel insecure or bad about yourself, then right down their exact words and who said it. Now every time you read that book you will remember that time and you will feel the emotional response you felt when you heard it and this will help motivate you, motivate you to 'prove people wrong'.

So people tell you insecurity makes you weak hey? I say embrace it and learn to work with it, besides everyone on this earth started out insecure, and its in our nature.

 

[Smoothflow]

From my heart to you

I am in total phase with what you say sammo. Think of life as a journey through a train tunnel, a long dark train tunnel. When you enter the tunnel, it is all dark and you start to get lonely. You see a tiny dot at the end of the tunnel colored gold. In your little push tram you peddle harder and harder but it seems that the light is only running away from you and becomes further and further from your sight, you get tired. You think to yourself what has gottened you in this situation in the dark emptiness of the tunnel. Gradually your eyes adjust to the darknest and you start to see little things within the tunnel. Slime covered walls, spider webs, rats and vermins, snakes and serphents, death and everything unpleasent to the eye. You have nowhere to go but forward, you are totally emmerced in this environment, as you take it all in you grow tired of it. Tired from the darkness of life, and you start to learn how to accept it, you start to cope and deal with it. Then suddenly appeared from nowhere you have reached the end of the tunnel, which covers you with a glow. This glow permeates into your spirit and renews it. The golden glow flows through you and you adjust to the light. You see beutiful things that the depresive tunnel could not reproduce. All the senses attack you all at once, which you quite enjoy and give you a natural high, as you get used to the outside world. You see a horizon stretching for eternity, and panoramic view of the world. So much to do so to explore, you peddle on and start to experience the wonderful gift of LIFE!.

 

[Jester]

Uhh no lol.

Youre missing the principles my man.


Showing it off is equal to vanity. If you live your life to impress others, you will only be an empty shell of nothing in the end.

Everyone enjoys sharing their success with their friends, but that doesnt mean showing it off, it means sharing if you can grasp that.The difference is logic. Sharing your success with your friends is logical because they would be happy for you, and you would be happy for them if the same thing happened for them, because they are youre friends.


One-itis has nothing to do with insecurity.


If i could have everyone like me and every girl drool over me i would do it? Bullsh1t, i would absolutely not do it. I am not retarded, i would realise that taking that path would leave me only empty and unhappy in the end. Ask any hot girl or very handsome man when they cant know why it is their boyfriend/girlfriend likes them. For their character or for the way they look.


If you need anger as a motivational tool, you yourself are weak, or you are doing things for the wrong reason. Motivation should be based on logic. I want to do this because this will get me that and i like and want that. And be motivated to "prove people wrong"? Thats friggin retarded, again vanity. That will not make you happy. If you dont see it now, you will.


Smoothflow you have problems bro, whyed you write that lol.

Anyway, thats about it, insecurity is to be defeated, not embraced, vanity is to be excluded, not coveted. Your ego will defeat only you in the end.

 

[Smoothflow]

Jester my friend, I know people would not take this new kind of philosophy at heart since todays society is in my oppinion corrupt. My post is purely for my benefit, you can have your opinion about it, which made you judge me. For all I care you did not see the message in it, and frankly I do not give a dam.

The ultimate goal represents the lite at the end of the tunnel, Anyones goal can be created and put here. I am saying the tunnel is life, you gotta experience it and experience the pain and suffering involved with life, and pretending that your happy but really your not. But the main point is to push on, and absorb this life into every pore and sense in your body. Once you have reached the light at the end of the tunnel, which represents your ULTIMATE goal you are free, to the kingdom of heaven.

Learn to appreciate life, but do not dwell in the past as it will only slow you down even further. People right now think they are all that. Clever and logical in todays society, what they fail to relise is that we have a spirit, and behind this wall of being clever and logical and acting like we own the place, this spirit wants to fly into the sky. I have seen a new light, in which I know people will think that Im crazy, but you know what? Who is more happier. My spirit which soars to the sky or some little kid stuck on earth.

 

[dollashort]

id love to reply to this, but im not in touch with reality, i dunno what the **** is going on and who i am.
and you confused me bro, i thought i was meant to kill insecurity.
but yeh maybe ur right, maybe insecurity is a setting we cant remove so we just gotta embrace it.

 

[Sammo]

Originally posted by dollashort
id love to reply to this, but im not in touch with reality, i dunno what the **** is going on and who i am.
and you confused me bro, i thought i was meant to kill insecurity.
but yeh maybe ur right, maybe insecurity is a setting we cant remove so we just gotta embrace it.

Before i start, what do you mean you don't know 'who you are', im sick of this spiritual bull **** of 'looking inside yourself', what is that meant to mean anyway? Look inside myself, until someone makes a guide on how to do that then i believe its a huge waste of time.

Perhaps the title to this post was misleading for most, quite simply, you can't kill insecurity, those perfectly confident guys who are cool and collected in every new situation only exist in movies. What you can do however, is learn to work with it, why are you feeling insecure? Ask yourself that question every time you feel scared. Start embracing this insecurity, realise it is a part of who you are. It is actually there for a reason, to stop you from doing something stupid, society has just ****ed our perception of what stupid is.

The only way to destroy fear is the repetiion of the fear inducing event, so whenever you experience something new you are going to feel at least a little bit insecure, realise that and you can't do anything about it. Just adjust to it.