email from ex-girlfriend

[San]

Fellow Don Juans, i need your help/thoughts/advice on this one.

My ex and i broke up a while ago (over a half a year).
She found herself a new lover/friend which i have peace with.

Now we spontaniously used to talk over MSN, but really smalltalk.

I heard from a friend of hers she's really in love with this guy, i'm glad for her.
So i decided i really wanted to stop contact and move on with my life so i removed and blocked her on MSN.

Then she sends me an email to probably make my jealous or something, i'll will write down the email here>>


"How pathetic you blocked me! You can play a stud to my friend Kaja (a female friend of her where i still talk to) , HAHAHA and with me you don't even have the balls to come online!

I will tell you: i now have the most fabulous sex with my friend. Kaja would never wanna **** you. And why not? because you're a typical man and therefore i don't **** well. And hell yeah, Alberto (her lover at this moment) can really **** good!! I have more orgasms then ever! We come together! plus, what is even more beautiful, we are going to make babies! and be together.
aiaiaiaiaiaia and my friends don't want you!

kiss love and Hate S"



So fellow Don juans, any thoughts on this one why she would send this.


the **** stand for lovemaking and the F word

 

[ApocalypseCow2]

Originally posted by San

So fellow Don juans, any thoughts on this one why she would send this.

No (she sounds like a beotch and isn't worth thinking about), but I am having thoughts about why you're worrying about it.

 

[San]

yeah, she's a ***** for sure or else she wouldn't write HAte!

i have peace with it, but what goes on in a womans mind to still write me this email?

 

[DJDamage]

That woman has serious issues.

I would assume from what she send you that your breakup with her did not go so smoothly. Bitter women often want to see their ex fail in life so she can feel good about herself and where she is heading in life. She was probably planning for a long time to show you how happy she is with her new relationship and how you are missing out. The fact that her plan did not come about, because you blocked her, she angrly send you an email telling you all those things in order for you to feel jealous and bad.

Your ex probably has a low self-esteem and now she is venting for the whole world "look at me now". I am willing to bet that her relationship with the new guy will end sometime in the future and he will be getting the exect same e-mail. She is immature, be glad you got rid of her.

 

[San]

thnx Dj Damage for your great response.

You took the words right out of my mouth!

I'm glad it's over.

 

[Enzo]

Dont even respond. She is waiting for a response and not doing so just makes it worse.

 

[San]

i understand, but WHY does she wrote that email? if she's with this new guy why does she wants me to react?

 

[Slickster]

Forward that email to her parents, family, and friends. Sooo much fun.

Sounds like she's jealous and bitter that you've been giving her friends attention. I wouldn't waste a second worrying "why" though. Just be happy she's someone elses problem now.

 

[octane_orphan]

WTF!! ... THis sounds like something a 16 year old would say! ... how old is she? ... stay well clear mate ... she sounds well imature!

 

[penkitten]

she does sound bitter and upset and jealous.

i would be willing to bet that this new guy dumps her butt real soon .

best revenge is to live well. so live well and go on about your life and be happy and dont respond to her.

its like she is begging for your attention by writting you that.

and thats what she wants , your attention.

dont give it to her.

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

She still wants to control you.

Its sad and pathetic, yes...From her point of view, she wants everyone to know, the WHOLE FREGGIN WORLD to know that she got the better of you.

"HOW DARE YOU TAKE ME AND BLOCK ME OFF YOUR IM LIST!"

If she was soOoOo happy with her life, and so content with everything that is going on with the new fella..why the hell does she care what you are doing? Because, she wants to know that she still owns you.

Your moving on and blocking her IMs threatens her little power trip in her head that she has over you.

Foolish little girl. She left you for another guy and has the nerve to piss in your face about it as soon as she figures you have the balls to get over her. B I T C H! F*CK her!

Be glad that she sent you this email...it shows you the type of woman you were lucky enough to AVOID.

Dont worry about retaliation or calling her back..hell...keep her off the IM list...IGNORE HER...she isn't worth the time. If friends ask, make fun of you and wonder why you aren't talking sh*t back to her...just tell them that she's not even worth the time...

The most important part is that you've made peace with it...and that takes a lot more balls to do have peace with it and do nothing..than to come to her level and act like a 2 year old..
good luck bro..

 

[San]

I thank you all for throwing some light on that case.

Exactly what i wanted to hear

 

[Dominant]

Turn it into a positive. Use it as motivation to reach your goals.

... I hope you have some goals, haha.

She wrote it because she's insecure. Bottom line. She wants to have her cake and eat it too, meaning she wants the new man and wants you to still be all over her.

Well, you weren't going to have that, so you blocked her (good move BTW).

Her insecurity comes out.

She reacted like that because she's a chick. Don't be mad.

If a dog pisses on your carpet, can you really be mad at the dog? It's a dog, you can't really get too angry at it.

Same with chicks. Most of them are insecure, and want to have their cake and eat it too. That's their nature. Just accept it. Don't worry about the why's.

Focus on your goals entirely. When you worry about this girl, you are drifting farther away from where you want to be in life. That's the real tragedy, not what she wrote that email (the dumb *****), but that it's dragging you down.

-Dominant

 

[CraigMack]

Got dam!!!! She is mad because you blocked her. She couldn't let go either it seems and when you blocked her she saw her back door closing down and lost control.

She will probably send you a appology email in a while, hopefully if she regains her senses.

She went right for the juggular in her attack on you. I do hope you don't take it to heart.

 

[MacAvoy]

Take it a step further and block her email address from your hotmail account so you don't receive anymore of her emails (temptations to get sucked back in).

 

[Wyldfire]

Quality women don't behave in that way.

You should not care what a non-quality woman has to say to you.

That is all...

 

[CGE333]

2 Things:

1. She is ond F-d up bytch, low self esteem, hateful, etc...

2. Her and this new man of hers will be broke up within a year from today unless of course he is as pathetic as her.


If she had things going so great for her right now why would she take the time to email you and try and drag you down. I can tell you still have feelings for her (at least a little) but believe me you are better off alone than with this psycho...

 

[flunky]

I think, upon reflection re my own experiences of life, the thing to do in this type of situation - whether it involves an ex love interest or not - is to simply ignore it. Sure, there are many fine, cutting responses one could make... But that would show her she somehow annoyed you. No, be a man and rise above this puerile rant, consigning it to the dustbin of history. For my own part, it takes more strength to do that than it does to retaliate.

 

[San]

Thnx all for the words spoken.

It has been a while since the break up and with each day passing i'm glad it's over.

The thing is when you're totally into a woman/girl you become blind for certain things and get tp focused or fixated.

Now this was a good lesson for me laid upon me from above.

Although i still love her i wouldn't want anything to do with her, because she's just not my type of woman.

 

[sapphire]

Believe me if she were truly happy with her situation, she would not have even bothered in contacting you and would have moved on long ago.

The fact of the matter is, the break up was a bitter experience for her and she is still trying to cope with it in her own crazy way. In fact her actions show that she probably still has feelings for you and is upset that you have moved on. Some women have inflated egos and can't believe it when a man walks away for good.

Take the advise given here and don't even respond to her e-mails or other means of communication.