DonGorgon said:
It is sad that your fear and cowardice causes you to refer to the truth as "stupid ass rhetoric".... Just cause certain aspects of devient human behavior make you uncomfortable does not mean you should ignore them and pretend that they dont exist...
Heterosexual womens sexual attraction to gay men is a very taboo subject so dont expect your friends to just fill you in on the gory details, especially if they know you are the type of wuss that would have an estrogen induced nervous breakdown at the first sound of an extremely abnormal subject matter...
NOTE: Do you really THINK CLAY AKENS WIFE DIDNOT KNOW HE WAS GAY? She had his kid and then a few months later he decides he need to official come out...LOL THere are many many more cases too...
Ok, so say - for discussion's sake at least - that women are really on occasion shacking up with their gay male friends. What is the big issue? Aren't there bigger machines to rage against? Your whole schtick seems pretty inconsequential.
The only concrete proof of this phenomenon that you've presented so far is the fact that Clay Aiken had sex with a surrogate mother so that he could father a child. That is the only example I've ever seen you provide, and calling it an example is really stretching it. Based upon the obscurity of your "proof" I'd have to assume that the number of women who are having sex with gay men is pretty small. So how is this affecting you, me or any other average male? It's clearly not the wide-spreading trend that you try to make it out to be, so it's not any sort of indication that the average woman is starting to target gay men or metrosexual males. There's no degradation of manliness involved.
This is where I think you've got the "girl's gay friend" phenomenon pegged all wrong. I think you see a girl palling around with a gay man and think that she is trying to sleep with him, maybe that she wants what she can't have. Maybe so. But what I think you'll find is that these kinds of girls befriend gay men because they have serious trust issues with guys. Maybe they've been really hurt by a boyfriend or a dad in the past, or in some cases been physically abused, and enjoy the company of a gay guy because they're guys, but they're harmless and not threatening. Or, on a much simpler level, they just like going to dance clubs with a guy who actually knows how to dance.
Gay men are also in kind of a tough spot when it comes to building friendships because they can't relate to or befriend most straight guys. I've only ever met one gay guy who I felt completely comfortable around. Not because I'm intolerant, but because I just can't relate to them. I can't talk to them about sports, hot girls or hi-def televisions. So where do gay guys turn for friendships? To these girls who are emotionally screwed up.
Regardless, I don't think me or any other guy would ever want anything to do with these kinds of girls. Generally, they have trust issues and are extremely needy. Bottom line, they are not high-quality. If you dated one or ever spent time with one, you'd find that out very quickly.
But all this is moot because my biggest issue with you isn't your viewpoints. It's that you're a broken record. You're like that Obsidian guy who used to post here. You only regurgitate the same tired lines over and over. Seldom do you give advice to guys, which leads me to believe something else about you, but we won't get into that because this will turn into a flame war.
I don't have a problem with posters who have extreme viewpoints. Last Man Standing was kind of a basket case, but I never took issue with him because he gave guys advice and provided some guidance. KontrollerX might have kind of a pessimistic view of everything, but at least he helps guys on this forum out a whole lot. The same could be said for STR8UP or some of the other guys who post on the Mature Man forum. I might have a difference of opinion with them, but I can still appreciate their contributions.
You, on the other hand, interrupted an ElStud thread to throw in a quick line about gay men sleeping with women. Where does that come from and why is it necessary? I just don't understand. In fact, I don't understand you at all. Six months ago you were asking for basic dating advice, and now you're raging against capitalism and gay men who sleep with straight women?
Something just doesn't add up.
