If you are making good money, find ways to HIDE lots of it. Gold coins, buried in pvc pipe, at night in thickets, using passive IR night vision to scan for other people, and putting only 10% of your coins in one place is a good idea. Put the locations in a simple "1-time" book code modifcation to the gps coordinants.
You can also use your knife to slip a thin plastic case of coins under the sod at a cemetery headstone, as you put a wreath there. Nobody will see, and it's really easy to put $20,000 away like that. Just record the name on the headstone in the 1-time code, and even from jail, you can send a friend to get some bond money for you. He gets 10%. If he steals it, you have 9 more chances, get 9 more friends. You can also stash debit cards in safety deposit boxes (or hide them wherever) Give a guy power of attorney to use the cards. He buys gold with the cards, sells the gold, brings you 90% (10% is his fee) and you give him another location, repeat. So now HOW does she get ALL of your assets, hmm? Even the government cant, if you do this correctly. If you are stupid,and lazy, you DESERVE to lose everything.