Eliminate your weakness.

xavier_2000

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Trigger warning.

The common societal narrative pushes you to be a specialist.

you heard the saying before.

focus on your strengths. Ignore your weaknesses.

Just be great at one thing and delegate it out.


Society is obsessed with labels and putting you in a freaking box.

I did engineering, I’ll always be a nerd.

I’ve always been a creative, I’m never gonna be book smart.


Freaking Labels. And by placing yourself on that box.

You will never understand your true depths.

Xavier what the hell does this gotta do with girls

IT HAS EVERYTHING TO DO WITH GAME. EVERYTHING.

What killed Achilles? HIS HEEL. (Don’t quote me on that. This is off the top of my head lmao)

Some of y’all have been blatantly lied to and misled in self development.

Focus on your strengths is the biggest BS.

Because it gets you to rely on your crutch.

In business this is the rockstar Marketer who partners with a terrible Salesman and stifled his potential to hit 1M a year because he was too scared to learn Sales and exceed his potential.

If he learned sales not only would he think from a sales perspective but he would get better as Marketer and transfer skills to cheaper employees he doesn’t have to give equity to.

Game is like that.

Y’all so jealous of the Jocks, Musicians and Actors for having a monopoly on the hoe market and forget that you could be one too.

You don’t have to be the freaking Michael Jordan. Rodman had way more fun and hoes.

Someone who is incredible at Game is someone who has mastered the art of self expression.

The casanovas, lord barons, the lady killas we look up to in history are Enigmas. (Fact checker goes here

They cannot be labelled because there are unending depths to themselves.

What is truly seductive is Mystery. Girls wanna have fun.

Anti seduction is mundane. And most of these hoes are dying to get seduced. To feel again.


So freaking know your weaknesses and attack it dammit.

Most of you are the same person you were yesterday, doing the exact same thing, eating the same thing.

Going to the same places and meeting the same hoes. And settling for the first hoes that take you.

And what hoes love boring? Broken hoes. Hoes love life and fun and excitement. A girl who doesn’t love fun has given up on her femininity. She’s a man now lol.

In your deathbed you’ll realize your potential and see through the illusion of identity.

How funny you could have been, how creative you could’ve been, how logical, how athletic ….. the crazy weird surfing experience in that beach town with that cute Australian chick. How you denied yourself cause you listened to everyone except yourself.

Easy takeaways. If your not funny go to a freaking comedy club, try stand up, if your only thing is work try an instrument, an art to discover your inner creativity, if your the guy at the club who stands at bottle service, go to the dance floor and dance dammit go to dancing classes, if your not spiritual try meditation and yoga classes.

It’s in the journey we find what we look for.

Dying without knowing your true depths. That’s the ultimate tragedy.

But the ultimate fear is our true depths. Hella ironic
 
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I have a 100 Point Warning for speaking too base.

Plenty snowflakes are over in the Protein Powder topic.
 

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It’s in the journey we find what we look for.

Dying without knowing your true depths. That’s the ultimate tragedy.

But the ultimate fear is our true depths. Hella ironic
Very interesting. Serious.
 

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I have known her friend for over 10 yrs. She never ever looked at me in any interested way. She is a hot chick that literally only dated professional atheletes. I cant get into details on how she has access to them but she does.

So i did 4 matches and lost 2. I am a fairly average BJJ player but when I won my match I saw a glint in her eye. Not only did I win my match I also had a gf/ plate cheering me on. She got a double dose of hypergamy.
I got social proof from having a gf and my hand got raised in a stadium.

I swear I never saw a girl look at me like that before. She kept her gaze on me a split second extra and I would catch her staring at me. I could not believe i
From a more recent journal that I think demonstrating:
You don’t have to be the freaking Michael Jordan. Rodman had way more fun and hoes.
 

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Great OP. Too many guys get boxed into their own identities. You can change the narrative whenever you want - it's your narrative. Plus the rest of the world either isn't paying close attention or doesn't give a fukk anyway.

This goes for career, game, hobbies, you name it.
 

xavier_2000

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Great OP. Too many guys get boxed into their own identities. You can change the narrative whenever you want - it's your narrative. Plus the rest of the world either isn't paying close attention or doesn't give a fukk anyway.

This goes for career, game, hobbies, you name it.
YUPPP
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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