Sir_Chancealot
Master Don Juan
Ok guys,
A while back, I posted about running the "friends into lovers" pattern on a chick that I had known for a while, but hadn't asked out. (I couldn't find that specific post to update it.) She stopped me mid-pattern and basically said that she was exclusively involved with someone. I then ran a couple of "boyfriend destroyer" patterns on her. This was the weekend before Thanksgiving. She breaks up with him a few days later.
Now, I ran into her on Saturday. We chatted for a bit. Later that night, I'm picking up a pizza at my brother's restaurant. She calls my cell phone and asks what I am doing. Long story short, she asks if I want to meet her there. I said that since I am already there, I can wait there for a couple of minutes. (Had I **NOT** already been there, I would have been "too busy" to go.)
So, another long story short, we end up taking my son, her two kids, and my nephew (who hangs around with her kids) to play laser tag, and go bowling. She mentioned that the kids wanted to go, I suggested we go right then. (If nothing else, I'm getting good at seizing the moment!
)
While there, she paid for most of the games, AND more than half of my beers. We only played two games, while the kids rolled 5 or 6 games. (Got to see my 6 year old get his first strike and his first spare!
)
Ok, so I don't really consider it a "date" as such. Don't really know what she considers it (nor do I care). Haven't decided if I want to LJBF her or not. I think I will try to arrange an actual date, and see how it goes.
During the evening out (we stayed out until 1:00 a.m.), I did NOT do any of the stuff I would usually do, because her kids were there. Now, while I don't mind MY son seeing me hit on women, I don't think her sons should be privy to seeing a guy hit on their mom. I did the usual 70/30 conversation, and she mentioned several times that I hadn't really told her anything about myself. (Mystery. You gotta love it!
) But I digress....
So, the question is: Do you think the patterns were effective, or do you think that she is a "monkey-brancher"? I'm gonna rule out coincidence, because there have been just a few too many of them since I took up SS.
Now for the plan (and your guys' critique of it.)
Ok, now I know she ISN'T going to have the kids next weekend, so I have the feeling that I should set something up for then. (Yes, I know the rules are no weekend dates at first, but there are some exceptions) I plan on going out and playing some pool, (MAYBE some dancing). If I can arrange it, I will try out the blammo pattern, and I will elicit a few values, and see if I can run some "freestyle" patterns based on that.
What do you guys think?
A while back, I posted about running the "friends into lovers" pattern on a chick that I had known for a while, but hadn't asked out. (I couldn't find that specific post to update it.) She stopped me mid-pattern and basically said that she was exclusively involved with someone. I then ran a couple of "boyfriend destroyer" patterns on her. This was the weekend before Thanksgiving. She breaks up with him a few days later.
Now, I ran into her on Saturday. We chatted for a bit. Later that night, I'm picking up a pizza at my brother's restaurant. She calls my cell phone and asks what I am doing. Long story short, she asks if I want to meet her there. I said that since I am already there, I can wait there for a couple of minutes. (Had I **NOT** already been there, I would have been "too busy" to go.)
So, another long story short, we end up taking my son, her two kids, and my nephew (who hangs around with her kids) to play laser tag, and go bowling. She mentioned that the kids wanted to go, I suggested we go right then. (If nothing else, I'm getting good at seizing the moment!
While there, she paid for most of the games, AND more than half of my beers. We only played two games, while the kids rolled 5 or 6 games. (Got to see my 6 year old get his first strike and his first spare!
Ok, so I don't really consider it a "date" as such. Don't really know what she considers it (nor do I care). Haven't decided if I want to LJBF her or not. I think I will try to arrange an actual date, and see how it goes.
During the evening out (we stayed out until 1:00 a.m.), I did NOT do any of the stuff I would usually do, because her kids were there. Now, while I don't mind MY son seeing me hit on women, I don't think her sons should be privy to seeing a guy hit on their mom. I did the usual 70/30 conversation, and she mentioned several times that I hadn't really told her anything about myself. (Mystery. You gotta love it!
So, the question is: Do you think the patterns were effective, or do you think that she is a "monkey-brancher"? I'm gonna rule out coincidence, because there have been just a few too many of them since I took up SS.
Now for the plan (and your guys' critique of it.)
Ok, now I know she ISN'T going to have the kids next weekend, so I have the feeling that I should set something up for then. (Yes, I know the rules are no weekend dates at first, but there are some exceptions) I plan on going out and playing some pool, (MAYBE some dancing). If I can arrange it, I will try out the blammo pattern, and I will elicit a few values, and see if I can run some "freestyle" patterns based on that.
What do you guys think?
