Dumb chicks don't bother with?

[nan3109]

Alright I've been gaming up with my DJ skills and found that 90% of the time I use the skills (conversation) and ask a girl something like "how does it make you feel when you meet someone and your instantly attracted to them" or "what would you do for the rest of your life if you had to pick one thing?"

Most girls respond with really dull answers like "i dont know" or "umm... why are you asking me this?"

What's the deal with these girls? are they just stupid or is it a sign of no interest?

 

[Kaine]

Yeah some girls are just airheads.

It also helps have a deep rapport in your target or established a mood of wistfulness.

If you had some chick approach you for a pick up like this:

*(this is dramatic reconstruction)*

Her: Hi, I'm Candy Cane *bounce bounce*
Me: Hey, whassup
Her: I was wondering, what would you do for the rest of your life if you had to pick one thing?
Me: Uhhhhhh *dribble*

Just because I'm not in that mood or frame of mind. Or I'm still processing the fact I've been approached by a stranger.

Try some superficial fluff questions first. If later on in your conversation you get "Duhhhh, like I tooootally dunno..nyuk nyuk"
Then perhaps you're dealing with an airhead, or someone who isn't interested.

 

[Bilogomja]

lol yea, most women are just plain ol'stupid.

When youre talking to them dont ask questions that theyd have to put too much thought into or any really deep questions (unless youre going out with the girl). Just ask them really superficial stupid questions or something, like whats your major, or something easy to reply to but yet starts somesort of a conversation.

 

[Interpol]

I wouldn't recommend asking the first question at all.

On the other hand, if they can't answer the second question, they're a dumbass.

Also, like the other responses have said, you shouldn't be asking these questions within the first 30 minutes of meeting someone.

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by Bilogomja
lol yea, most women are just plain ol'stupid.

When youre talking to them dont ask questions that theyd have to put too much thought into or any really deep questions

I'd love to get an inside peek into your dating life, with an attitude like that...

 

[Bilogomja]

and whats your attitude when it comes to women: " women are the most intellegent creatures with the most subtle grace to set foot on the earth, they are to be respected and and treated with proper care"

ha yea right how about not....

 

[flexion_]

I'm with the airhead on those questions... umm... why would you ask such questions to someone you just met? Those are interview questions.

I think it would work better with questions like this:
1) whats your name?
2) what do you do for fun?
3) wanna come along with me.... <insert here>?

 

[Nerdy_A]

I think you're on the right track, these would be awesome questions to ask on a date *thumbs up*

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by Bilogomja
and whats your attitude when it comes to women: " women are the most intellegent creatures with the most subtle grace to set foot on the earth, they are to be respected and and treated with proper care"

No, my attitude is "Let the woman prove herself to me. If she's intelligent, then we'll have a good conversation. If she's not that articulate, then let's see if she can make up for it in other ways." I'm not going to go into a conversation or pickup thinking "women are just plain ol' stoopid and you cant ask theem questions that myght make thum think". That sort of 'thinking' is the mark of a little mind and an insecure person. Just because I don't believe in stereotyping people based on their sex alone doesn't mean I have to worship them - it's called being unbiased and not prejudiced. Of course, I'm sure that you already knew that.

 

[Bilogomja]

"women are just plain ol' stoopid and you cant ask theem questions that myght make thum think" - Diablo

Well man you said it yourself, but whatever. Call me biased, call me prejudiced. What I was mentioning to nan3109 is based on experience, not of unintellegence and insecurity. Think whatever you feel, I'm just letting it be known what works for me. If you think women are intellegent and great to have conversations with, well then that works for you. Go have some great conversations. I'd rather use up my time doing other stuff with them.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by Bilogomja
Well man you said it yourself, but whatever. Call me biased, call me prejudiced. What I was mentioning to nan3109 is based on experience, not of unintellegence and insecurity.

Where the f*ck are you picking up women? The little short yellow bus?

 

[Bilogomja]

umm, actually in college, call it at parties where the chicks are drunk, call it in bio, chem, med class where the chicks are sober. It doesn't matter, where ever. If you talk to a chick and she wants your d*ck does it matter if you have a deep philosophical, intellectual conversation with her? No, if you're attracted to her you want her p*ssy, not her psychobabble (or maybe you do want to hear her babble?), shes either going to give you what you want or not. Take it or leave it. All you have to do is establish some rapport with her, you don't have to find out what her viewpoint is on theortical quantum physics, the establishment of the economies around the world, how DNA will drastically change the structures of our lives in the next millenia, etc. Just set up rapport, if shes into you, she'll give it to you, if shes not forget her. But I guess you guys think that you have to set up some type of deep connection first. Whatever, that just slows you down I guess.

 

[nan3109]

Originally posted by Bilogomja
umm, actually in college, call it at parties where the chicks are drunk, call it in bio, chem, med class where the chicks are sober. It doesn't matter, where ever. If you talk to a chick and she wants your d*ck does it matter if you have a deep philosophical, intellectual conversation with her? No, if you're attracted to her you want her p*ssy, not her psychobabble (or maybe you do want to hear her babble?), shes either going to give you what you want or not. Take it or leave it. All you have to do is establish some rapport with her, you don't have to find out what her viewpoint is on theortical quantum physics, the establishment of the economies around the world, how DNA will drastically change the structures of our lives in the next millenia, etc. Just set up rapport, if shes into you, she'll give it to you, if shes not forget her. But I guess you guys think that you have to set up some type of deep connection first. Whatever, that just slows you down I guess.

KEEP IN MIND I AM ATTENDING COLLEGE IN EAU CLAIRE WISCONSIN SO THINGS ARE DIFFERENT HERE I BELIEVE. I AM FROM THE TWIN CITIES IN MINNEAPOLIS MINNEASOTA AND BACK HOME I COULD PICK UP A CHICK EASILY ANYWHERE ANYTIME. MAN I WANT TO MOVE BACK! THIS SUMMER IS GOING TO ROCK LIKE NO OTHER! MY GOAL IS TO GO **** 20 GIRLS AT LEAST, RIGHT NOW I AM AT AROUND 40 AND STD FREE

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by Bilogomja
"women are just plain ol' stoopid and you cant ask theem questions that myght make thum think" - Diablo

Well man you said it yourself, but whatever.

I'm guessing that you ignored the next sentence I spoke on purpse, or were you not able to detect that there was a link between the two? In case you can't find your way back up to my original post, I'll requote it for you: "women are just plain ol' stoopid and you cant ask theem questions that myght make thum think". That sort of 'thinking' is the mark of a little mind and an insecure person. "

you don't have to find out what her viewpoint is on theortical quantum physics, the establishment of the economies around the world...

If you think that this is what I was referring to by intelligent conversation, you must have it confused with conversations you'd have with classmates in classtime about projects you're working on. If you ever see someone chatting a girl up about this at a party, either you have a really fantastic social group or you're at the wrong apartment.

Go have some great conversations. I'd rather use up my time doing other stuff with them.

Sorry, but perhaps it's the difference in our age - I'm 21 - or our maturity levels, but I'm of the odd notion that you can do more than just have sex with a girl. If as you stated, you believe that girls are there for one purpose and one purpose alone - sex - then that, and you, are rather sad and childish.

But I guess you guys think that you have to set up some type of deep connection first.

I've done it all. I've had more ONS' than I'd care to admit, and I've had girlfriends for as long as 9 months (though the average is about 3 weeks..) Hell, I've even been "window-shopping" in Amsterdam, 4 times and counting! I don't bevieve you have to have some deep connection with a girl in order to have sex with her.

The point I'm trying to get across to you is that you can't just say that all women are unintelligent and that you can't have meaningful conversations with them. That's like a girl saying "men have no brains and can't think about more than 2 things at once without having to jack off". It's not only inane, but it shows that you're so closedminded you can't picture that someone of the opposite sex might just be equal or better than you in a mental capacity - just like everyone else on this board is.

 

[Bilogomja]

"If you think that this is what I was referring to by intelligent conversation, you must have it confused with conversations you'd have with classmates in classtime about projects you're working on"

Maybe you might have been able to tell I was being sarcastic maybe not. Then tell me what you classify as an intellegent conversation if it doesn't deal with sciences, politics, future, etc.

"I'm of the odd notion that you can do more than just have sex with a girl"

Honestly, when it comes to women all I care about is sex. As I said, if you'd rather have one of your "intellegent" conversations with a girl, by all means go for it, but dont get pissed when a guy like me comes up to her, steals her away, and f***s her sensless.

"you, are rather sad"

Well from your posts, you sound like your estrogen is rising, and you sound rather gay.

"I've done it all. I've had more ONS' than I'd care to admit, and I've had girlfriends for as long as 9 months (though the average is about 3 weeks..) Hell, I've even been "window-shopping" in Amsterdam, 4 times before"

Now dont be so insecure as to bother telling about how many women you've been with, because I honestly don't care. Lol you've been window shopping in Amsterdam, like in the red light district de wallen, s*** I don't even care to think about paying for chicks because I don't have to.

"The point I'm trying to get across to you is that you can't just say that all women are unintelligent and you can't have conversations with them. That's like a girl saying "men have no brains and can't think about more than 2 things at once without having to jack off".

Do you think I'd care if a girl said "men have no brains and can't think about more than 2 things at once without having to jack off?" No, because I know I'm better than that, and plus I don't give a s*** about what they think.

"It's not only inane, but it shows that you're so closedminded you can't picture that someone of the opposite sex might just be equal or better than you in a mental capacity. Like everyone else on this board is"

What are you, some type of feminist now?

 

[Desdinova]

Her: I was wondering, what would you do for the rest of your life if you had to pick one thing?

I love questions like this because I get to be a smartass.

Me: I'd eat life savers. They just taste so good!

Alright I've been gaming up with my DJ skills and found that 90% of the time I use the skills (conversation) and ask a girl something like "how does it make you feel when you meet someone and your instantly attracted to them" or "what would you do for the rest of your life if you had to pick one thing?"

This kind of stuff is great for dates, but not for a first time meeting. I'd just focus on building rapport and get the kino rolling. Talking about general subjects will work much better than deep thought provoking questions.

 

[diablo]

I've yet to get upset over anything you could write - it doesn't have any effect on me. Since apparently you're "calling me out", I'll accept. PM me with some pictures of the girls you've been rolling with, I'll trump them each time easily... as for intelligent conversation, I was stressing the fact that yes, intelligent girls do exist, whereas you were stating that all girls are stupid and unable to hold a conversation of any importance. Just because I believe that females are capable of having IQ's higher than yours, so say... 80... does not make me a feminist... This belief was commonly held in the 1800's, back along with several other antiquitated viewpoints and misconceptions.. Hopefully you aren't guilty of any of those other (racial) generalizations... Now, if you're done being sexist to an extreme I find hard to believe, I think that there's a thread that is currently awaiting more useful input.