Dry spell. What am I doing wrong?

[evan12]

My oldest one is from 3 years ago.

3 years is a lot assuming you gained 15 LB , women do that too simply because they have the option and many guys dont mind this little surprise , but for them this is unforgettable because she was only looking for 9/10 guy and now she wasted a date with 7 guy , which she could always get it. I can say you will sense some disappointment and maybe little frustration from them, because she is thinking with her self this guy wasted my time by fake photos.

From my experience women only go to second date if what you looked on paper matched what they saw on the first date.

 

[Mr Force Kin]

1) So you are cat fishing women on the apps. You told me you have gained 15 lbs and you are using 3 year old pics. Furthermore, based on me having to call you out on your discrepancies, I can safely assume there was more weight gain and possibly older pics. Quit catfishing, if you have time to go on 4 dates a week you have plenty of time to hit the gym and better yourself. I'd go on 2 dates MAX a week from now on.

Thanks man, I really appreciate your honest feedback. I have deleted my older photos and will replace them with some newer ones. The rest of them are no older than 8 months, and I also posted a video of myself DJing at my friend's birthday a couple of weeks ago. I never posted any photos showing off my body. I do already hit the gym 4 - 6 times a week, so 15 lb seemed okay, but I will make sure to cut a couple of months to get closer to my original weight.

I will also reduce my dating frequency. I think doing it too much may have reduced my excitement and curiosity and made me obviously a little bored and seemingly desperate.

I also have autism. I think that may have something to do with my ability to communicate well, but I always had that, even when things were going more smoothly.

You know what's "funny", these past 3 months I had two girls ask me if I was gay or bi. "Yes, that's exactly why I have a secret half boner while my tongue is down your throat and why my hand is grabbing your ass". I think I may have gotten a bit softer since the deaths in my family or something. I think I need to regain my game and work on that as well.

I appreciate all of you guys!

 

[BadBoy89]

Literally nothing has changed about my approach. The only things I can think of is that I gained about 15 lbs, I got a bit older and a few more grey hair, I had surgery on my back and one on my teeth that created a slight shift of my teeth, nothing major though. I actually think I look overall healthier than before.

That will do it.

15l lbs heavier + 2 year older + surgery on teeth is brutal for the current dating market. Can’t relax in this game. Always be hustling.