Dry spell for players?

[Thebestthereeveris]

Id like to consider myself definetly above average in terms of success with women. I get stares everywhere matches on hinge with hot girls and gotten laid off both day game cold approach and night game mutiple times and through social circle. Ive been going through a 3 month dry spell.. i couldve gotten laid but with not too hot chicks. Is this normal for even what you would call a player or do i just suck now lmao

 

[zekko]

I've known some players who would take what they could get. They would take the hot girls if they could get them, but if not, they weren't above getting with some girls I would never touch. Sometimes if the girl was too nasty, they wouldn't go all the way, but just get some oral.

 

[BPH]

@Thebestthereeveris it depends on where you are, in my opinion.

A bunch of my FWBs fell off so I have to go out and meet girls. I'm having some dry spells, but they've been short; 1 was for about a month, another for 3 weeks. For me, it's more about whether I see enough attractive girls when I approach to get a success.

I probably worded that poorly...if I go out and only find 3 attractive girls at the venue, and approach all 3, a lot of things outside of my control would have to align to come away with a 33% closing rate. That would be a better closing rate than the top salesman in the country.

Conversely, if I go out and find 20 attractive girls at the venue (literally never), and approach all 20, there's a much higher chance at least 1 of them would be interested.

Basically what I'm trying to say is it's much more understandable to be going through a dry spell if you live in suburban Wilmington, DE than if you live on Brickell in Miami, FL.

 

[CornbreadFed]

No, the longest dry spell I had was 2 months, but it was completely voluntary to have a clean slate after a nasty breakup.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Id like to consider myself definetly above average in terms of success with women. I get stares everywhere matches on hinge with hot girls and gotten laid off both day game cold approach and night game mutiple times and through social circle. Ive been going through a 3 month dry spell.. i couldve gotten laid but with not too hot chicks. Is this normal for even what you would call a player or do i just suck now lmao

"In times of war, any hole is a trench" - loosely translated famous Colombian saying.

 

[zekko]

Basically what I'm trying to say is it's much more understandable to be going through a dry spell if you live in suburban Wilmington, DE than if you live on Brickell in Miami, FL.

Joe Biden, is that you?

 

[SW15]

Quality seducers will go through dry spells though 3 months would be considered a longer one for someone actively trying.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Id like to consider myself definetly above average in terms of success with women. I get stares everywhere matches on hinge with hot girls and gotten laid off both day game cold approach and night game mutiple times and through social circle. Ive been going through a 3 month dry spell.. i couldve gotten laid but with not too hot chicks. Is this normal for even what you would call a player or do i just suck now lmao

I think it's normal.

When you go through the dry spells, you wonder if you are losing your touch.

However, when you are batting .40, you are on top of the world and can't nothing stop you.

The important thing is, to stick with it.

Keep swinging.