It’s not the girl, it’s the guy.
I can lose women, but it’s when a friend betrays trust. Only happened to me once. I was a late teenager and I caught the dude kissing a girl. She wasn’t my girlfriend but we had been dating. The dude was supposedly my best friend, had plenty of options, and still did it.
I smashed the living shyt out of him, had toget pulled off, I might have gone further.
I had other options. It was the fact he was supposed to be my friend, that’s what made me mad.
id have reacted the same if he stole from me.
a lot of the time it isn’t about the girl, it’s about the betrayal.