driving 6 hrs away for poon?

[evil_tomato]

Hey guys,
you can refer to my other thread for the full story. but basically i have been chatting to a girl (LD) for the past 3 months and everything has been going great, text every day, shes totally into me and i am for her too...but this past week she has been distant with me...not sending as many texts and is very breif when she does. So i confront her with this and she tells me she hasnt lost interest at all shes just been really tired with work and doesnt mean to be distant...

So i tell her im coming up to see her next week for a few days and she seems quite excited and offers for me to stay at hers. After reading the replies on my last thread im not going to bother getting into a relationship with her but maybe just get my lay and be done with it lol....however what i wanted to know is it worth driving 6 hours away for it? im scared ill get half way and she'll flake on me or something since her interest level seems to have stooped...Im going NC on her at the moment to see what she does but i dunno guys im caught in two minds about this one....i dont know if she really does like me and wants to see me or if shes just playing me and has met someone else?? PLEASE HELP!! i dont know what to do!

 

[BMX]

No.

 

[zinc4]

if she looks somewhat average or only slightly above average and her IL is low than no......but if she is super hot and IL is high, then why not? road trips are fun IMO...just don't get attached...

 

[evil_tomato]

shes about a 7-8....her IL was high but this past week she has been distant even though she claims nothings wrong and wants to see me...

 

[BeDJ]

I'm going to take a shot in the dark, but I think you feel she is losing interest and you must do something about it before you lose her completely. Follow your first intuition before your mind attempts to make rationalizations. She was part of evil tomato's free attention giveaway and has taken part in a better sweepstakes.

Driving 12 hours for sex is not very different from hiring an escort.

 

[evil_tomato]

I'm going to take a shot in the dark, but I think you feel she is losing interest and you must do something about it before you lose her completely. Follow your first intuition before your mind attempts to make rationalizations. She was part of evil tomato's free attention giveaway and has taken part in a better sweepstakes.

Driving 12 hours for sex is not very different from hiring an escort.

yes your right i dont want to lose her and being long distance the only way to keep attraction up is to see each other regularly right? im just scared she will flake at the last minute which if she does i will next her but im worried because her IL has dropped this past week

 

[JohnChops]

6 hours away, no. Are you that desperate that scream desperate ..... seriously.

 

[Greasy Pig]

If you're staying a couple of days it's not so bad. Just unload as much DNA as possible in, on or around her person and them drive off into the sunset, leaving her completely spent and offering to come and see you next time.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Don't.

This is exactly the type of crap that makes women today so stuck up and entitled. The fact that men will go to great lengths just for the possibility of sex. She can always flake on the sex (she never really promised it to begin with) and then you are SOL. Don't be surprised if you end up just "hanging out" and nothing happens.

This is the type of crap men need to STOP doing. We need to stop being so.. for lack of a better world.. EASY. Then women will be forced to meet us halfway.

If you were spinning plates like you should be.. this question wouldn't even come up. Only a man with no other options drives 6 hours for p*ssy. Your limit should be a 45 minute drive and even then there should be an 85% chance of p*ssy.

You're driving 6 hours for a 40% chance of p*ssy. Doesn't even make sense.

 

[Packers2010]

if she was a 10 and i was SUPER in to her.

then no. still even no.

the only thing i drive 6 hours away for is to get away.

MAYBE a poker game i KNOW there are 9 other fish and i am going to kill it.

maybe some GOOD weed. though the good weed ties into the getting away part.

i would NEVER travel that long for poon. ever! girls can flake if they don't like the colour of my shirt. so there is no point in ever driving that far. think of the trip home when you don't get it?

a girl lives an hour away on the train from me. i put her on the back burner already. maybe if SHE comes to see me. but other then that. no.

 

[muscleman]

There was 1 time, about a decade ago, where I drove 5 hours to see a girl for the first time. I was a bona fide beta back there. I got nothing. If I were you, I wouldn't do it unless she either has high interest OR you have other things to do there and you literally happen to be in the neighborhood.

A better question is why you're even wasting time texting a girl for MONTHS who's that far away? Are there no women closer to you (you live in Alaska?)?

 

[evil_tomato]

i have a couple of other plates but i dont like them as much as i like her sadly.... she seems all keen on me coming down there, again today she seemed excited but still she hasnt even text me that much like she usually does...i was lucky to get 3 messages from her today when usually shes messaging me all day...... i feel like theres someone else in the picture or she thinks were "not going to work"...but even so why be all excited and encourage me to come down? :/

 

[atree]

Tell her your car has been stolen (because its a super charged mo-fo with gold plated hub caps and all the rest) and then see if she's prepared to drive six hours to see you.

I drove a long way to see a girl once, hired a car and all the rest but got all I did was made her feel self important, I felt like a fool. If you like her a lot then do so but if the only interest you have is sex then seriously that's pathetic (have some self control).

 

[backseatjuan]

Isn't this the law of attraction at play? Low IL on her part makes you running to her. Nah, don't go there, come up with something. Make her IL go up and then go see her.

It's perfectly fine to drive even to Moscow to see a girl you want to see, but not as a psychological response to lack of interest. Driving to Moscow is not AFC itself, but driving to Moscow because you afraid to loose her is AFC.

 

[evil_tomato]

i originally wanted to be in a relationship with her and i guess i still kinda do but with her playing up like this im starting to doubt whether its worth it or not....plus now shes saying she has a cold and is scared to kiss me incase she "infects me" ha....ugh

 

[Who Dares Win]

Don't do that for the simple reason that women whatever their interest toward you is, automatically lose some when they realize they have you...which is what you are proving by driving 6 hours to meet her.

You're behaving like her b1tch, dont get me wrong if she sends you naked pictures of herself and promises you that you will well repaid for your driving you can do it, or if the two of you were fvck buddies, but please man dont do it at these conditions.

Playher man made a good review of the situation as well.

Do a test yourself, tell her to meet you halfway to test her good will, something like 5 hours from you and 1 hours from her, not a big effort from her part but a good gauge of her intentions, once you pick her up you can drive for the last hour and stay at her place.

But in all honesty to me, it seems like a trap with high blue balls potential given that she doesnt flake first.
This way she gets her ego boost, something to brag about with her friends or to laught of while you get laughted at, and get a hit on your self confidence.

 

[PlayHer Man]

i have a couple of other plates but i dont like them as much as i like her sadly.... she seems all keen on me coming down there, again today she seemed excited but still she hasnt even text me that much like she usually does...i was lucky to get 3 messages from her today when usually shes messaging me all day...... i feel like theres someone else in the picture or she thinks were "not going to work"...but even so why be all excited and encourage me to come down? :/

Flake on her ass.

She is already slowly backing away from you. Why? Because she knows you are willing to drive 6 hours to see her. She knows your interest level is through the roof. Once a girl knows this.. she backs off. Her job is done. She has conquered you. Nothing left to do now but sit back and watch you dance like a clown to impress her.

Flake, flake, flake. Then.. once she adjusts her attitude, invite her to visit you for your birthday (whenever that is).

As a man you should be bringing women into your world.. not going into their world.

 

[Greasy Pig]

i originally wanted to be in a relationship with her and i guess i still kinda do but with her playing up like this im starting to doubt whether its worth it or not....plus now shes saying she has a cold and is scared to kiss me incase she "infects me" ha....ugh

Be prepared for massive flakeage. I'd say she can't actually believe you would drive six hours to see her and therefore force her into rejecting you face to face. Hence the sudden onset of `a cold' in the hope you'll cancel your plans.

If you don't want to go, just use that as your excuse. ie: "Maybe we should make it another time when you're healthy."

If you're still going to do it, I'd first push the flirtation to a level where she basically admits she'll be riding your man pole the minute you walk in the door, or she admits that she won't be.

The longest I've driven for a fvck is two hours. Once for a chick I'd boned once before who invited me over a few months later and fvcking c0ck blocked me when I made a move. ("Just because I invited you here didn't mean I wanted to fvck you" were her exact words. What a cuuuuunt).
The other one was to see a chick I had feelings for but hadn't fvcked yet. She ended up blowing me and I fvcked her a few weeks later.
I drove to the first one because I thought it was an invitation to fvck a very fine piece of arse again.
I drove to the second one out of pure curiosity to see if I could pull it off after a few weeks of building attraction.

Maybe making this trip will answer your questions and put your mind at ease once and for all. ie she'll either fvck you and you'll be happy, or she won't and you'll know she's not worth any more of your time.

 

[Groovy]

PlayHerMan "As a man you should be bringing women into your world.. not going into their world.". Is that a golden rule of yours? I tought rules were meant to be broken! In no way I question your probable superior 28 year old intelligence and experience to mines of 21, but it kinda seems strange, so sorry about that man. I just don't understand!

 

[alphamailman]

^^Then feel free to drive six hours for a girl that you are not in any sort of relationship with for a slight chance of a kiss.