Paco
New Member
before i start i want to hear some opinions on dressing up, because i for one think that it absolutely works because women do like a guy with style.
So the past 2 years ive basically been on a low. girls have always thought i was good looking but i never really dressed up or anything. for me, it was the basic t-shirt jeans and athletic shoes. Over the last 2 years it was VERY rare that a girl would approach me or have interest in me unless of course i wasnt attracted to her and i didnt have any inhibitions to show my true personality.
So heres my experience:
I went to my brothers house this weekend who dresses pretty nice and has always been a hit w/ the ladies. That night i spilled ketchup on the regular ol' t-shirt and jeans that i usually wear so naturally im not a good dresser but im also not a slob, so i changed. i was forced to dress in half metrosexual half cool guy look like my brother.
That night i wore a nice pair of abercrombie jeans that actually fit me and a button down collar shirt that was under a red abercrombie sweater. As soon as we hit the bars girls approached me all freakin night. it was freakin amazing. they would tell me how hot i was, asking me if i had a g/f and all that. it was a HUGE confidence boost.
Anyways later that night a HB 8 approached me. and with a lil confidence boost from the other HB's i managed to get laid that night. Not only did i get laid, but it was the first time in over 2 years that i talked w/ a HB all night and she laughed at everything i said that was funny(do to little inhibition and more confidence im guessing). This was a huge confidence booster and just makes me want to improve myself and my game even more.
What made it even better was the fact that this girls looks was HB8 but matched with a great personality she would easilty be HB9 pushing 10.
I guess what im saying is the dressing up was basically a prop. Women that night thought i looked cool(style) so they approached me. And when i realised that they were no different than any other girl, i just acted myself with confidence and charisma and they ate it up. Now the dressing up was just a prop, the confidence+lowinhibition+charisma=attraction.
So this made me think, and ask youselves these questions also.
1) Where would you be if you had confidence?
2) What kind of woman would you attract if you had low inhibitions?
3) And how much more fulfilling would your life be if you had both of these and would it be worth it to WORK for it?
OH yea, i got laid the next night too, by a different HB, she was a 9(an old GF)
Now i realise that all i have to do is keep that level of confidence and step it up a notch. IT FEELS WAY TOO GOOD TO WALK INTO A BAR AND KNOW THAT EVERY1 IS GOING TO LOVE BEING AROUND ME AGAIN.
So the past 2 years ive basically been on a low. girls have always thought i was good looking but i never really dressed up or anything. for me, it was the basic t-shirt jeans and athletic shoes. Over the last 2 years it was VERY rare that a girl would approach me or have interest in me unless of course i wasnt attracted to her and i didnt have any inhibitions to show my true personality.
So heres my experience:
I went to my brothers house this weekend who dresses pretty nice and has always been a hit w/ the ladies. That night i spilled ketchup on the regular ol' t-shirt and jeans that i usually wear so naturally im not a good dresser but im also not a slob, so i changed. i was forced to dress in half metrosexual half cool guy look like my brother.
That night i wore a nice pair of abercrombie jeans that actually fit me and a button down collar shirt that was under a red abercrombie sweater. As soon as we hit the bars girls approached me all freakin night. it was freakin amazing. they would tell me how hot i was, asking me if i had a g/f and all that. it was a HUGE confidence boost.
Anyways later that night a HB 8 approached me. and with a lil confidence boost from the other HB's i managed to get laid that night. Not only did i get laid, but it was the first time in over 2 years that i talked w/ a HB all night and she laughed at everything i said that was funny(do to little inhibition and more confidence im guessing). This was a huge confidence booster and just makes me want to improve myself and my game even more.
What made it even better was the fact that this girls looks was HB8 but matched with a great personality she would easilty be HB9 pushing 10.
I guess what im saying is the dressing up was basically a prop. Women that night thought i looked cool(style) so they approached me. And when i realised that they were no different than any other girl, i just acted myself with confidence and charisma and they ate it up. Now the dressing up was just a prop, the confidence+lowinhibition+charisma=attraction.
So this made me think, and ask youselves these questions also.
1) Where would you be if you had confidence?
2) What kind of woman would you attract if you had low inhibitions?
3) And how much more fulfilling would your life be if you had both of these and would it be worth it to WORK for it?
OH yea, i got laid the next night too, by a different HB, she was a 9(an old GF)
Now i realise that all i have to do is keep that level of confidence and step it up a notch. IT FEELS WAY TOO GOOD TO WALK INTO A BAR AND KNOW THAT EVERY1 IS GOING TO LOVE BEING AROUND ME AGAIN.
