Dreams, can you Learn from them?

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I think, that, because of my non-masturbatory ways plus a hard day at work, no food, that my dreams can be more powerful, like a rabbit running I dream twitching in my sleep. Well, last night was incestual with my aunt, whom I haven't seen in at least in 4-5 years. I don't understand why I dreamt about sexing her, that's Sick! even though she Was a hot executive woman at one time.

Anyway, the dream ended with her gushing my whole arm and her running away from me. CRazy.

Interpretations?

Why did I dream this crap? In the dream I just reach up into her no-panties skirt and she went with it. Very bizarre. I hope it wasn't my aunt, but some woman I met yesterday who looked like my aunt.

Can I learn from this? What did I do wrong to make her run off? Touch her while/where she was extra sensitive thereby hurting her?
 

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There are no hidden meanings in dreams. Dreams are a wild and bizarre collection of random memories all meshing into one incomprehensible mess of a "story." Nothing more. But don't tell this to the authors and publishers profiting from books on dream interpretations. Dream interpretation is as real as the last wet dream I had of banging a girl in an elevator.

(P.S. Only lucid dreams have meaning, but that's because you consciously control the dream.)
 

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Deep Dish said:
There are no hidden meanings in dreams. Dreams are a wild and bizarre collection of random memories all meshing into one incomprehensible mess of a "story." Nothing more. But don't tell this to the authors and publishers profiting from books on dream interpretations. Dream interpretation is as real as the last wet dream I had of banging a girl in an elevator.

(P.S. Only lucid dreams have meaning, but that's because you consciously control the dream.)
How can you be so certain? How does controlling a dream give it meaning? It doesnt make sense that lucid dreams have meaning, and regular dreams dont...
 

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I have the same dream every couple of months of me getting stabbed or shot and waking up with pain the in area i was injured in. I have dreams every couple of weeks of me banging some hot milf for hours and waking up with a boner. I wouldn't say dreams don't have a meaning but someone can't tell you what it means. You need to think about your own life and why you had the dream to begin with.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
How can you be so certain? How does controlling a dream give it meaning? It doesnt make sense that lucid dreams have meaning, and regular dreams dont...
In your regular dreams, your brain repeatedly accesses random memory locations which accounts for why dreams are a wild assortment of random nonsense. There's no meaning behind which neurons fire up. I said lucid dreams have meaning because you have intent and intent is meaning. You can make just about anyone or anything appear at will rather than simply the randomly selected neuron. I read somewhere dreams may be the brain's way of "defragging" every night, which would explain why people need not only enough sleep but dreams in particular to remain mentally healthy, and if that's true then there's no 'meaning.'
 

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You're odd fellow P.M. Not from this dream, just in general. I dont mean that as an insult.
 

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I can't say wheather or not dreams have meaning, but i do think it's strange that a lot of people have similar dreams

ie going to school naked.
 

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Deep Dish said:
In your regular dreams, your brain repeatedly accesses random memory locations which accounts for why dreams are a wild assortment of random nonsense. There's no meaning behind which neurons fire up. I said lucid dreams have meaning because you have intent and intent is meaning. You can make just about anyone or anything appear at will rather than simply the randomly selected neuron. I read somewhere dreams may be the brain's way of "defragging" every night, which would explain why people need not only enough sleep but dreams in particular to remain mentally healthy, and if that's true then there's no 'meaning.'
Hmmm...what about recurring dreams? I still think there is some latent meaning in dreams. I do think it may be a way for the brain to "defrag" but dreams also serve the purpose of memory consolidation and some other crap that i dont remember. What about archetypes? Maybe dreams DO have meanings for certain symbols. The collective unconscious is in everyone and i think that influences dreams. But who knows, dreams are crazy.
 

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Upside said:
I have the same dream every couple of months of me getting stabbed or shot and waking up with pain the in area i was injured in.
The dream is not causing the pain, but the pain (for whatever reason) is causing the dream to occur. How you get hurt though, is all up to your brain.
 

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Crazy Asian said:
The dream is not causing the pain, but the pain (for whatever reason) is causing the dream to occur. How you get hurt though, is all up to your brain.
News to me. Most commonly I get hurt in the back or my legs during my dreams but have no major issues IRL.
 

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I saw a lecture once by Dr. Crick, the co discoverer of DNA. He spoke about dreams and according to his theory, the lattice structure of the brain with collocative neurons is the reason why dreams seem so detached. One neuron will fire off, and some of it's next door neighbors will fire off in kind of sympathetic resonance.

If you are having anxiety, or unresolved stress, it WILL show up in your dreams. the only way to have completely random dreams that have no meaning is if your life is completely devoid of any anxiety or excitement.

because you haven't jacked in a while, you are leaning towards sexual dreams to begin with. Because you mentioned your aunt used to be a hot executive, and you ran into a women that looked like her recently, it makes perfect sense that you would dream of railing some no pantied imposter.

Remember, some of the greatest inventions came in dreams. Benzene, the sewing machine, many of Edison's. While I seriously doubt anyone could win the lottery from dream interpretation, that aren't completely meaningless.

And if you can, you should really try lucid dreaming. It takes a while to get the hang of it, but when you do it's like you'rr living at hogwarts, and all the girls want your KOCK.
 

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I have had some funny dreams before like that before but i don't know about the aunt part. :)
 

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I got owned in a fight with some weak skinny ***** in my dream last night. He just threw me across the room. It's the second time that happened to me.
 

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Captain Harlock said:
I got owned in a fight with some weak skinny ***** in my dream last night. He just threw me across the room. It's the second time that happened to me.
Maybe you don't believe in yourself. I used to be that way, but now I never get beaten down in my dreams, though it is still one-sided. And women, in my recent years dreaming, all seem to want to fvck me. They're more than willing. Before, when I didn't love or "think highly" of myself, the woman would be elusive in my dreams.
 

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What you eat and drink can affect your dreams. Some dreams can actually mean things.

Dreammoods.com to interpurt your dreams... I've told some people about that site and asked me to look certin things up. A couple guys had dreams that predicted bad health in the future. Which, came to be true... 1 guy had to have gull bladder surgery after some re-occuring dreams. Not all the meanings are true though but, it is a cool site to check out.
 

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No I disagree with those who say dreams mean nothing. They certainly do mean something. I'm going to get a cup of green tea and come back and interpret it for you...

It's a pretty simple dream really. You are dealing with 3 things here: boundry issues, your family, your sexuality. I don't know you, but maybe you have had issues with your family judging you for you sexual lifestyle. You crossed those boundries in your dream in a very obscene way which shows your open rebellion to the limitations set on you by your family. But at the same time you suffered a loss because of your actions: your aunt ran off. You are obviously not too attached to the loss, but you didn't want to lose anything if you did not have to.
 

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Ended with your aunt gushing all over you arm??? Ahahahahaha!!! :crackup:
 

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If you want more vivid dreams, be able to remember your dreams when you wake up every morning, take vitamin B6 supplements with a B complex supplement(even more effective if taken close to bedtime). I took them for a few days - a week or so ago for a different condition. I used to never remember my dreams.

Every night since then I experience quite vivid dreams that I remember well in the morning. This has continued even since I've been off the B supplements. It's enabled me to realize some subconscious things about my self, especially buried fears and insecurities, that I never really was aware of(since dreams are an expression of the subconscious.) I guess that's sort of similar to how LSD users have revelations about themselves that largely come from subconscious awareness. Although I have never done LSD, that's just what I've heard from people who have.

The efficacy of B6 and B complex for enhancing your experience of dreams was backed up in a placebo-controlled, double-blind scientific study (Ebben et al 2002).

Although I am still having vivid dreams since I stopped using the supplement, who knows if vivid dreams would continue for yourself after halting supplementation. Every body is different.
 
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