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Drama in a relationship: worth it?

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Abcd z,


The best way to make yourself TRUTHFULLY answer the question of whether or not the drama-level in your relationship is TOO high is to FORCE yourself to look at it objectively.

The way you do this is by imagining that it's a friend, a son, a relative, or ANYONE else in your life that's standing in your shoes RIGHT NOW-------going through what you're going through on a daily basis.

Then, think to yourself, "What would you advise THEM to do in YOUR situation?"

Whatever answer that IMMEDIATELY comes to you WITHOUT you having to think about it first "is" the SAME advice that you should follow yourself, soldier!



Much PEACE and RESPECT to you.

V.U.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Victory: interesting analysis, but once again you didn't actually answer any of the questions I posted in the original post.
 
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