drama and dances

[gdi]

to make it short and sweet do i go to prom with a girl who i know is just using me to get back at this guy but i know this and im using it to my own advatnage.

This girl is a HB9 popular all the girls wanna be her friend or they either hate her cause she stole some guy or some other drama, now when she asked me to prom the girl who thought for sure i was gonna ask her went nuts she was all over me trying to get me back. Now do i take this HB9 whos just using me but im using her to prom to create attraction with other girls.

The way i see it, girls see me with her at the dance im good enough for her then me talking to any of them is blessing. Now how should i go about this.

Any and all advice is appericated.

 

[mpimpin]

think about how good you'll feel rejecting the HB 9 and what kinda benefits that will bring.

 

[eminence]

or think how good you'll feel when your inside the HB9, when shes using you to make her ex jealous. Or if she ends up ditching you then you can call the other girl and sleep with her

 

[gdi]

yea well they know each other they're "friends" but yea i don't think its like i can pick hb9 and then if that doesn't work go to like option number 2. ya know, girls don't like being silver.

 

[Craig Reeves]

to make it short and sweet do i go to prom with a girl who i know is just using me to get back at this guy but i know this and im using it to my own advatnage.

This girl is a HB9 popular all the girls wanna be her friend or they either hate her cause she stole some guy or some other drama, now when she asked me to prom the girl who thought for sure i was gonna ask her went nuts she was all over me trying to get me back. Now do i take this HB9 whos just using me but im using her to prom to create attraction with other girls.

The way i see it, girls see me with her at the dance im good enough for her then me talking to any of them is blessing. Now how should i go about this.

Any and all advice is appericated.

You better be reeeeeeeaal careful, man!

This sounds to me like it could seriously come back and bite you in the butt!

There are plenty of what-ifs to be found here. For instance: What if she uses you coldly enough and completely DITCHES you once she gets to the prom? This could easily happen. What if she gets into some heated drama with this guy she's trying to make jealous and then ditches YOU because her plan didn't work anyway (or she just feels like taking her frustration out on you)? Again, this could easily happen as the guy could be a big enough jerk to not care which way or the other whether she's with another guy or NOT. If he's dating the hot snobby girl of the school, I imagine this could likely be the case.

Anway, the only way YOU'RE going to benefit from all this IN THE LEAST is if:

1. HER plan works. Meaning the ex-boyfriend gets jealous and wants her back.

2. The hot girls there (who are more than likely her friends, so therefore they are more than likely IN on what she's doing) start to give you looks for being with this girl.

Both are highly unlikely. I highly recommend you re-think this idea and take a girl that actually likes you back to the prom.

You need to always gain social proof on your OWN merits and not have outside sources dictating it. Especially when you know a girl is using you.

Best,
Craig

 

[The Shocker]

It's risky going with the 9 and hoping she doesn't do something stupid and unpredictable that will destroy your cred. It'll be better for your rep if you turn her down. And then you should be able to nail the girl who likes you because she'll feel so special that you chose her. Then you can chase other girls who are impressed you turned the 9 down.

Remember, only sometimes are chicks that profess to be friends, actually friends. A lot of the time these "friends" hate each other's guts.

 

[gdi]

Yea, i actully know alot more than either of them think. And her ex doesn't go to our school. I see how this girl works HB9 just by talking to her, she plays games but ive just been playing em back, this has worked out in the past, probally the hotest girl i have ever been with is a complete mind fcuk to so many guys, i knew she played games so i watched myself and played and right back and just had fun with it.

BUT both of your brought up great points and as of now im go with the one that likes me now

now my question is do i flat out deny the HB9 or do i keep the game alive alittle longer. Plus what should i do about her apart from the dance ya know? Right now im just putting on the charm and getting her peaking that intresnt, and i gotta admit its fun, she puts up just enough of a challenge but anyways thanks again guys for the soild advice, it is greatly appericated. oh and keep it coming

 

[The Shocker]

You're in a pretty good position man. What you should do is turn her down, but NICELY. Don't be a **** about it. Say that you'd really like to go with her, but you feel more strongly about someone else.

This will most likely be a complete shock to her (never been said to her) and her interest in you will increase tenfold. She may even forget her ex and begin to genuinely chase you. And then you're in an even better position.:rockon:

 

[gdi]

good looking out shocker. thanks man