Re:
Because I think this is a chump, I'm still compelled to write.
The law SHOULD be changed. Period. End of story. But this guy will end up being a martyr to the cause. I do agree, the law is UNbalanced, in the sense a woman's biological right prevails over the man's choice. Now IF she choices she wants the baby, and decides NOT to exercise any care in the outcome, she bears FULL responsibility for it. That should be clear and evident.
However, we all men know this should be an uphill battle because society DOES NOT WANT a bunch of welfare women. They don't want people humping and abandoning kids to either parent. Society does not want, nor can it handle, a bunch of people with laws bending its whims to whatever the sexual moors of the times are. It SHOULD be fair and equal, period. End of story. It's a touchy area because you're dealing with a woman's body, and that has HUGE repercussions in law. If you begin saying you can determine legality IN the body, where is the boundry?
Bottom line...if a man chooses NO, despite all attempts at protection, he shouldn't be forced. Moreover, if she chooses yes, and he makes attempts to be a father and involved, and the relationship does not work, and for whatever reason, she just wants his paycheck, then she should not get it.
This kid was DUMB DUMB DUMB. Double dumb.
[]He didn't use protection
[]He treated the hookup or relationship like a business; every man knows a woman has a strong biological imperative, everything out of her mouth, or on her body is made to bring that specific reaction of manifest mating.
[]He trusted her too much
[]He told her he didn't want to be a father, which likely made her bitter. "What, you can fvck me, but you can't be with me?"
Bottom line, don't go that far with a woman whom you don't want kids with or to be father with or to marry. This should be a drastic lesson to all you guys not wrapping it up, sleeping with sluts you don't want a baby with, and would never do well in a crisis mode. The worst situation is getting a psycho, illogical bytch who'd put you on payroll for 18 years.
A-Unit