Don't want to give my Facebook - QUICK HELP!

omega05

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I wouldn't want to add a girl I just met to my facebook either cuz what if she starts flaking and not returning his calls?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Harry Wilmington said:
This is an example of what I call "making a big deal out of nothing."

Hope that doesn't sound too rude, but really: it's NOT a big deal. I don't add any of the girls I'm dating to Facebook at all. If they ask about it, I give them one of 3 answers:

ANSWER #1: I've seen too many relationships go bad as a result of facebook post misinterpretations, so I make it a point not to add anyone I'm dating

ANSWER #2: I feel as though you (talking to the girl) have the right to keep some things private just as I do. I don't feel like whatever you're posting on your wall is my business and vice-versa.

ANSWER #3: I'm already friends with you in REAL life; no need for you to become a fake friend of mine on Facebook.

If they have a problem with any one of these answers, I could care less. Foot in the ground - she ain't gotta like it, but she'll at least respect it.
These days I don't want a girl I meet to be on my Facebook. I mean, there are things I've commented on and pictures Ive uploaded that someone who just came into your life might think wtf? I guess it's the same thing on their end. Ive added girls in the past who I just met and I go on their FB and see some sh*t that really turns me off them. I guess it's a double edged sword. You might be thankful that you found out she's a complete f*ckwit through her FB if you haven't already face to face or you could even see her friends as I have in the past - full of biker dudes and wanna be gangsters.

But also, could be a positive.

All comes down to whether you just want to pump and dump or actually get to know them.
 
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