Using a rating scale is tied into what you think everybody thinks of a girl. This certain girl is a 10 because guys all flock around her. You want this "10" because it will boost your lacking self confidence. I mean seriously, this is mental masterbation .. "wow that girl is a 10, i want her" ... give me a break.
All that matters is what you want.
Now you might think I am being contradictory because well you want this "10" because you think your friends will think you are the man, so by golly that is what you want. No, you are confusing the precursor. What you should want should be just for you.
So here is the new system. It is really simple. Internalize how attracted you are to a girl. Do you want to have sex with her? Do you want her to come with you to thanksgiving dinner with your parents and childhood friends?
These things change my friends, and using some set in stone number is externalizing YOUR desires.
All that matters is what you want.
Now you might think I am being contradictory because well you want this "10" because you think your friends will think you are the man, so by golly that is what you want. No, you are confusing the precursor. What you should want should be just for you.
So here is the new system. It is really simple. Internalize how attracted you are to a girl. Do you want to have sex with her? Do you want her to come with you to thanksgiving dinner with your parents and childhood friends?
These things change my friends, and using some set in stone number is externalizing YOUR desires.