Man I feel like an arse. Finally got an awesome chick that was crazy about me and I completely blew it. How: by being a needy little b!tch. I tried to get us into the "relationship" mode too soon instead of having fun and taking it easy. I thought after our second date after making out for half the movie that everything was gonna be easy and that I could start moving sh!t faster, well I obviously hadn't come to sosuave yet. I was the one making all the AFC moves like holding her hand and always being available and trying to set up dates, which should have been her job if I'd played my cards right. I thought showing more affection would win her over sooner but man did it do the opposite (as should have been completely expected now that I've gained a lot of sosuave knowledge).
I heard she was crazy about me, but lost interest when I held her hand for like hours at a concert that we went to. Yes, very needy.
So guys, if you get the "perfect" chick that you've been trying to catch for a few years, don't do what I did. You can SOOO easily **** up a good thing! Show that you're interested, but don't be overly affectionate (push and pull). Don't always try setting up dates (she was actually setting up the dates in the beginning), and don't always be available to do stuff with her, you've got you're own life too which will demonstrate higher value to her. Give it time and concentrate on having fun with her first and having a relationship later, because girls just wanna have fun while they're deciding if you're LTR material.
Keep on being ****y & funny, confident and fun because those are the main qualities that'll get them and keep them, NOT being all affectionate on her, remember that's her job and she's gotta work for you.
I heard she was crazy about me, but lost interest when I held her hand for like hours at a concert that we went to. Yes, very needy.
So guys, if you get the "perfect" chick that you've been trying to catch for a few years, don't do what I did. You can SOOO easily **** up a good thing! Show that you're interested, but don't be overly affectionate (push and pull). Don't always try setting up dates (she was actually setting up the dates in the beginning), and don't always be available to do stuff with her, you've got you're own life too which will demonstrate higher value to her. Give it time and concentrate on having fun with her first and having a relationship later, because girls just wanna have fun while they're deciding if you're LTR material.
Keep on being ****y & funny, confident and fun because those are the main qualities that'll get them and keep them, NOT being all affectionate on her, remember that's her job and she's gotta work for you.
