Hello All,
I just wanted a few tips from you guys as to what I’ve done as of now is right and what should I do further.
Well, there is this girl I liked in school. And she was in a relationship, she knew I liked her too. Finally, when she broke up, I dunno why but I tried to help a little in repatching them up, but it didn’t work out. This was about a month back
I’ve spoken with her quite a few times and she knows me pretty well. She used to ask me for hints as to who I liked, and she understood them to be her. .. but she never told me so.
Now , there were a few rumours going around. And I went and asked her, besides the rumours … by any chance do I mean anything more than a friend to you? She’s like … I know what you mean but I ….
I immediately, told her to take some time before answering.
When I got home, her best friend adds me on MSN. And she’s like … you know she’s gone through a lot after the break up and there’s one guy in class who’s been bad mouthing us about you … but I know I can’t trust him and I believe you are pretty different.
Her friend told me, there’s no doubt she likes you too. Infact, she knew it from ages you liked her … she was just waiting for you to come out and admit it.
She told me , that the girl was going to tell me a no in school as she didn’t want to go through this again. I was like oh I understand. But the friend tells me that, I told her to reconsider and tell only after she actually thought it off. I’m like, yeah that’s fine. Thanks for it.
Later, we spoke for some time and she’s like, her friend would absolutely enjoy my company. Then after a day, she tells me I asked her about her decision and she went quiet. So I said, its okay … I understand if it’s a no. She said, no … she hasn’t said anything yet. But she said I was really sweet and she really liked the talks we had.
Then today, the girl I like calls me and tells me , listen “its not a no, and its not a yes”. I’m like, wow, thats like the NAM movement, your neither with the USSR powerblock nor the US. She’s like yeah lol, but you see … I’ve gone through a lot and I don’t want to just say yes without meaning it. Could we just go on like this for a little bit more time?
I said okay. But how long would be some more time … she’s like I really don’t know.
Then later, we small talk about some stuff, school and all. She tells me you’re a really nice guy, but I just need some time. I told her, yeah I know I’m pretty nice … but don’t think I’m going to say the same to you
. She told me I knew about you since long. Then she’s like why didn’t you tell me before? I told her … that I thought 2 people just understood there was no reason to say it out. But , my friends told me that’s not the way it works … so I went ahead and told you. She’s like yea lol, I understood all the hints you gave me … but I just wanted to be sure. Her mom is our librarian .... and she tells me, my mom actually likes you. I'm like wow, there a yes from the mom then .
.... So basically, I just wanted your views at where I messed up and secondly from the above , what do I expect? When she told me about the .. I've gone through a lot I and your really sweet ... I thought it was no.
But then she tells me about her Mom, and like she was just waiting for me to tell her ... I think it might be a yes.
PS: I really like the girl and she’s no one that I can just “next”. So any ideas?
I just wanted a few tips from you guys as to what I’ve done as of now is right and what should I do further.
Well, there is this girl I liked in school. And she was in a relationship, she knew I liked her too. Finally, when she broke up, I dunno why but I tried to help a little in repatching them up, but it didn’t work out. This was about a month back
I’ve spoken with her quite a few times and she knows me pretty well. She used to ask me for hints as to who I liked, and she understood them to be her. .. but she never told me so.
Now , there were a few rumours going around. And I went and asked her, besides the rumours … by any chance do I mean anything more than a friend to you? She’s like … I know what you mean but I ….
I immediately, told her to take some time before answering.
When I got home, her best friend adds me on MSN. And she’s like … you know she’s gone through a lot after the break up and there’s one guy in class who’s been bad mouthing us about you … but I know I can’t trust him and I believe you are pretty different.
Her friend told me, there’s no doubt she likes you too. Infact, she knew it from ages you liked her … she was just waiting for you to come out and admit it.
She told me , that the girl was going to tell me a no in school as she didn’t want to go through this again. I was like oh I understand. But the friend tells me that, I told her to reconsider and tell only after she actually thought it off. I’m like, yeah that’s fine. Thanks for it.
Later, we spoke for some time and she’s like, her friend would absolutely enjoy my company. Then after a day, she tells me I asked her about her decision and she went quiet. So I said, its okay … I understand if it’s a no. She said, no … she hasn’t said anything yet. But she said I was really sweet and she really liked the talks we had.
Then today, the girl I like calls me and tells me , listen “its not a no, and its not a yes”. I’m like, wow, thats like the NAM movement, your neither with the USSR powerblock nor the US. She’s like yeah lol, but you see … I’ve gone through a lot and I don’t want to just say yes without meaning it. Could we just go on like this for a little bit more time?
I said okay. But how long would be some more time … she’s like I really don’t know.
Then later, we small talk about some stuff, school and all. She tells me you’re a really nice guy, but I just need some time. I told her, yeah I know I’m pretty nice … but don’t think I’m going to say the same to you
. She told me I knew about you since long. Then she’s like why didn’t you tell me before? I told her … that I thought 2 people just understood there was no reason to say it out. But , my friends told me that’s not the way it works … so I went ahead and told you. She’s like yea lol, I understood all the hints you gave me … but I just wanted to be sure. Her mom is our librarian .... and she tells me, my mom actually likes you. I'm like wow, there a yes from the mom then ..... So basically, I just wanted your views at where I messed up and secondly from the above , what do I expect? When she told me about the .. I've gone through a lot I and your really sweet ... I thought it was no.
But then she tells me about her Mom, and like she was just waiting for me to tell her ... I think it might be a yes.
PS: I really like the girl and she’s no one that I can just “next”. So any ideas?
