Don't suppress your anger.

[Darth]

Let it out.

We all get angry. What, you think you're above getting angry?

The fact is, if you never get angry, you actually do, but you're SUPPRESSING it.

So stop it.

Let your anger out. Anger is a natural reaction to being put upon. That doesn't mean go out and punch someone. It means you should consciously be feeling that emotion. If you don't, you may have some psychological hangups.

Oh and by the way, girls really dig this too. Everyone will respect you more. It's part of standing up for yourself.

 

[PlayHer Man]

I have no problem smacking a woman in the face. But society wants us men to control our anger (MOSTLY if caused by a woman) or else be thrown behind bars.

Anger caused by men --> React or you're a faggot

Anger caused by women --> React and you're the scum of the earth.

Bottomline: Most men today suppress their anger out of fear of the consequences that may come as a result of it. SOCIETY has created the man who suppresses his emotions.

Another unfortunate outcome of men suppressing their emotions is it has allowed women to use men as dumping grounds for all THEIR anger and frustration. The man can't fight back.. so he is an easy person to abuse with no fear of retribution.

 

[Jumpking94]

The truth right her folks, minus the smacking of the womenfolk across the face. Maybe metaphorically though.

 

[SamTheHobit]

I have no problem smacking a woman in the face. But society wants us men to control our anger (MOSTLY if caused by a woman) or else be thrown behind bars.

Anger caused be men --> React or you're a faggot

Anger caused by women --> React and you're the scum of the earth.

Bottomline: Most men today suppress their anger out of fear of the consequences that may come as a result of it. SOCIETY has created the man who suppresses his emotions.

Another unfortunate outcome of men suppressing their emotions is it has allowed women to use men as dumping grounds for all THEIR anger and frustration. The man can't fight back.. so he is an easy person to abuse with no fear of retribution.

This was great!

 

[skinnyguy]

A bunch of men express their anger violently without any repercussions. Think about the number of guys who rape, abuse, and torment women. Most of these guys get off scot free because the woman won't testify. A lot of the times, she'll say "but I love him..." and he'll just do it again. Look at Chris Brown.

What bothers me is that if you're angry about someone at work, it's unacceptable to vent about it. If your coworker is a lazy, gossipping, annoying douchebag, you can't say anything about it because if you do, you'll get blamed for it. This is why so many people feel the need to "blow off some steam" after work by drinking 5 shots of tequila.

 

[TheGambino]

Don't get angry, just loose interest by quit contacting her when she makes a mistake. I just never get mad the last months and i love it and i know they hate it, whatever they do can't affect you. When they REALLY go to far lie lieying, manupilating its something else, but small things like flaking, just replie with indifference and ignore, works great! they can't influence your mood

 

[adam225]

The truth right her folks, minus the smacking of the womenfolk across the face. Maybe metaphorically though.

Why ? Like I always say - If she can throw a dig, she can take a dig. In a verbal confrontation, by all means, DO NOT escalate it physically - stay in control and get your point across. But if she starts throwing digs at you, then throw them back. Don't just stand there. She needs to learn not to lash out violently.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Don't get angry, just loose interest by quit contacting her when she makes a mistake. I just never get mad the last months and i love it and i know they hate it, whatever they do can't affect you. When they REALLY go to far lie lieying, manupilating its something else, but small things like flaking, just replie with indifference and ignore, works great! they can't influence your mood

A lot of people like to push indifference. YES.. you should be indifferent to any female behavior that doesn't directly affect you.

At the same time --> Indifference can be mistaken for approval.

When a child or dog is too loud or messy.. you don't respond with indifference. Indifference will come off as "this sh!t is ok and I can do it again".

There are certain times when you need to tell a woman her behavior is unacceptable and if she continues with it.. the relationship's days are numbered.

 

[TheGambino]

How do you do that playherman when she stood up to you, every time she did I just quit contact for weeks and she tried to get my attention back. Next time call her out like: dont wast my time otherwise im out?

 

[PlayHer Man]

How do you do that playherman when she stood up to you, every time she did I just quit contact for weeks and she tried to get my attention back. Next time call her out like: dont wast my time otherwise im out?

Simply say: "Stop doing that" or "I don't like that" or "That's very rude/careless".

A woman who values the relationship will stop the bad behavior. A rebellious c*nt will ignore you and continue the behavior. This is when you NEXT her.

A woman who won't submit to a man will usually expect submission FROM a man because she views him as a beta fag. This is a totally toxic and unacceptable situation for the man. Leave immediately.

Sometimes I return the favor and shell out abuse before leaving a woman to "teach her a lesson" in hopes maybe she'll act right with the next man. This is my own personal thing I do for fun and I don't tell other men to do it because if you do it with the wrong mindset it can easily blow up in your face.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Well we all saw what George Sodini did, even though I don't condone what he did, I feel for the pain and frustration he went through with not having a girlfriend since 1984, and not getting laid since 1990, he went 20 years without sex!!!, and people say the act he committed was cowardly, something that lacked balls, but last time I checked, violence involves testosterone, so that involves balls

 

[Darth]

Well we all saw what George Sodini did, even though I don't condone what he did, I feel for the pain and frustration he went through with not having a girlfriend since 1984, and not getting laid since 1990, he went 20 years without sex!!!, and people say the act he committed was cowardly, something that lacked balls, but last time I checked, violence involves testosterone, so that involves balls

Sodini is the complete opposite of what I was saying. Sodini bottled his anger up until it exploded (AKA repressed anger).

 

[SgtSplacker]

A man needs to be in complete control of all his emotions. If you can't do this then you are less of a man IMHO. Sounds like b1tch sh1t to me.

 

[Darth]

My point is, if someone does something wrong to you, you should feel a flash of anger. I'm not saying to lash out uncontrollably. I'm saying don't repress your anger. It's good advice, take it or leave it.

 

[user name]

Transmute the anger.

Anger is just energy. Transmute it and transfer that negative energy into positive power.

 

[Jariel]

Transmute the anger.

Anger is just energy. Transmute it and transfer that negative energy into positive power.

I'm with you on this. Instead of flipping out at a woman for standing you up or punching a man because he spilt your drink, go hit the gym and push out some extra reps, or go for a run. The results will serve you much better.

Anger is natural, and when chanelled correctly it can be a valuable asset, but self control is a far more respectable trait, especially in a man.

I've ruined too many great things in my life due to impulsive angry actions. Anger (and many negative emotions) will cause you to jump to conclusions, overreact, and do things that you will later regret. Nowadays I try to take action only when I'm thinking rationally.