don't pressure yourself

hope7

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Alotta times, I would be hesitant to start conversations with people out of fear that I would not be entertaining enough and I won't seem interesting. I felt like I had to come up with a good conversation topic first, and then only stick to it when we were talking.

Now I just start talking, even if it starts out as something boring. As long as I give room for the other person to person to add to the conversation (not just ramble on), and leave oppurtunities for a change of conversation, I eventully find ways to have entertaining conversations, throw some good jokes, and to connect with the other person.
 

Spiky

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That is important.

It amazes me that many people are not having fun while running a pickup.

If you arnt having fun and being happy how can you expect people to be happy about you talking to them.
 
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