If you invite a chick out and she flakes, has no excuse or a lame excuse with no counter offer. Drop it.
Some chicks do have legit excuses and will counter offer. No problem.
But if a chick gives you her number, shows all "signs" of "IOI's" etc. laughs, thinks you're funny, strokes your ego etc. but 'rejects' you in a string along way in that she has excuses to not meet up or weak azz reasons she doesn't answer whenever you call, or text while she doesn't initate etc.
Drop her right then and there.
A lot of chicks will simply flirt, act like they are "really into you" etc. until it comes time to sh1t or get off the pot.
Don't seek reasons or "answers" from them. It's in their best interests to NOT give you an answer (or just throw out B.S.) as it's a part of them stringing you along just so they can feel "pretty".
Chicks like this will give out their numbers, gas your head up, show "signs of IOI's" and in reality want nothing more than your attention EVEN IF they are the ones who start doing that out of nowhere without you doing a thing.
The "challenge" for them is to get you, (the guy who hasn't given them attention like the rest of her orbiters) to give them attention and then USE that attention you give them to get even MORE attention by not only stringing you along like a puppet being kept in the dark with vague or BS excuses not to go out, but to get attention from their girlfriends as well to keep up with the joneses and be just as "attractive and wanted" as they are.
These same types of chicks will play both sides of the fence. When in your presence they'll act like they "like" you, give you their number, WON'T initiate texting with you so there's no "trail" of them initiating... but 'proof' of YOU "CHASING" them. These types of attention seekers will at the same time go behind your back to their friends showing them your texts etc. (as you are the one initiating assuming she wants the 'passive' role) claiming to her friends YOU'RE after her, "stalking" her, "want" her knowing damn well she initated her nonsense and then will play the dumb 'innocent' role if you find out and call her out on it as it's just in her interest to feel wanted while never having wanted anything more than that. It's insecurity at it's finest.
Don't bother getting mad, don't bother calling them out. It's a waste of your time and it's in their OWN best interest to string you along for their own benefit with vague BS and no solid action. Just drop them for your own good and self respect. Period.
To stop that possible nonsense from jump. If you get "IOI's", she gives you her number, talks etc. with you. ASK HER OUT. If you then get hesitation, slow replies with no clear answer while she never initiates, but plays the "I like you role" when no ones around to have evidence of her nonsense, try TWICE to set up a meet/date. If she balks, makes up weak excuses, on the second and FINAL try? Drop her. She's wasting your time for her own benefit.
Do NOT fall into some chicks attention seeking clown act for her to simply use you as a puppet on a string for her own benefit of feeling wanted and pretty.
If you don't cut that sh1t off immediately by asking them out and them either meeting you, or counter offering and showing up then you cannot get mad if you allow yourself to be strung along by the fact she only gave you false "IOI's", her number, and nice words but no ACTION.
Some chicks do have legit excuses and will counter offer. No problem.
But if a chick gives you her number, shows all "signs" of "IOI's" etc. laughs, thinks you're funny, strokes your ego etc. but 'rejects' you in a string along way in that she has excuses to not meet up or weak azz reasons she doesn't answer whenever you call, or text while she doesn't initate etc.
Drop her right then and there.
A lot of chicks will simply flirt, act like they are "really into you" etc. until it comes time to sh1t or get off the pot.
Don't seek reasons or "answers" from them. It's in their best interests to NOT give you an answer (or just throw out B.S.) as it's a part of them stringing you along just so they can feel "pretty".
Chicks like this will give out their numbers, gas your head up, show "signs of IOI's" and in reality want nothing more than your attention EVEN IF they are the ones who start doing that out of nowhere without you doing a thing.
The "challenge" for them is to get you, (the guy who hasn't given them attention like the rest of her orbiters) to give them attention and then USE that attention you give them to get even MORE attention by not only stringing you along like a puppet being kept in the dark with vague or BS excuses not to go out, but to get attention from their girlfriends as well to keep up with the joneses and be just as "attractive and wanted" as they are.
These same types of chicks will play both sides of the fence. When in your presence they'll act like they "like" you, give you their number, WON'T initiate texting with you so there's no "trail" of them initiating... but 'proof' of YOU "CHASING" them. These types of attention seekers will at the same time go behind your back to their friends showing them your texts etc. (as you are the one initiating assuming she wants the 'passive' role) claiming to her friends YOU'RE after her, "stalking" her, "want" her knowing damn well she initated her nonsense and then will play the dumb 'innocent' role if you find out and call her out on it as it's just in her interest to feel wanted while never having wanted anything more than that. It's insecurity at it's finest.
Don't bother getting mad, don't bother calling them out. It's a waste of your time and it's in their OWN best interest to string you along for their own benefit with vague BS and no solid action. Just drop them for your own good and self respect. Period.
To stop that possible nonsense from jump. If you get "IOI's", she gives you her number, talks etc. with you. ASK HER OUT. If you then get hesitation, slow replies with no clear answer while she never initiates, but plays the "I like you role" when no ones around to have evidence of her nonsense, try TWICE to set up a meet/date. If she balks, makes up weak excuses, on the second and FINAL try? Drop her. She's wasting your time for her own benefit.
Do NOT fall into some chicks attention seeking clown act for her to simply use you as a puppet on a string for her own benefit of feeling wanted and pretty.
If you don't cut that sh1t off immediately by asking them out and them either meeting you, or counter offering and showing up then you cannot get mad if you allow yourself to be strung along by the fact she only gave you false "IOI's", her number, and nice words but no ACTION.
