Speaking from total experience, when I was younger and was not where i am not espically physically, i could not find women. all the clubs were not good enough, all of the bars did not have women enough...
dude.. women are everywhere. if you are having problem finding women the probably is usually you. When you are worthy of women's attention, when women see something they like they come out of the woodworks.
I haven't been to a club, well.. i take that back.. i havent' been to a club alone in 3 years and i'm engaged and i've been approached more now and i have a damn ring on my finger. At chilil's by the bartender, buyign clothes at the mall, at mcdonalds, at the pet store, at barnes and noble, at the grocery store.
even last week, I went to star bucks and there was a quite cute girl, probably abour 22ish, behind the counter and she was just starring at me, and walking by me dying for me to say something to her or start a conversation.. they are everywhere. lol, my masseuse asked me out for drinks a bout a month ago (she's ass licking hot by the way.. easily an 8.5.. petite, about 5'5, nice curves). Been using her for a year and I never talk about anything personal and I let it slip that I was going to go out for some drinks and she got excited and asked would I mind if she wanted to come along.
it's easiser to blame everyone else and hard to look at our selves. If women are not making it known that they want you, you might not currently be bringing enough to the table.
Attraction is not something that is just cut on when you walk in a club. it's not like a women walks in barnes and noble and sees you and thinks nothing of you but then sees you later on at the club and is open to talking to you.
when you are on, you are always on, no matter where it is.
I dont' expect women to approach me, but I know that when I'm not being looked at or appraoched or whatever the case may be something is worng with me,r ather it be my attitude or my dress or my weight or whatever.
I live right outside Los Angeles (Monrovia) now and I assure you that the women here are just as girly as the women back in my home town (little rock).