dont know how to kiss

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Ive finally improved my self so much that now girls want to h/u /makeout with me everyt time I find out i get so nervous and i dont do anything because im so afraid because I dont know how to kiss ive never kissed anyone so i have no experiance
 

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google it. Tons of stuff
 

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do you think your kissing skills can get rusty after years of non use, or is it just like riding a bike?
 
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kissing has to do with compatibility moreso than technique - although you shouldn't be so aggressive as to knock teeth or overwhelm your mate!!
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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It's all about teasing her. Give her a little, then stop. This drives the ladies wild, and make them want to make out more. So basically just take 2 steps forward and 1 step back all the time. Start kissing a little, then stop. Then after leaning back a little and playing it cool, start again. Build up the sexual tension.
 

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I remember my first girlfriend, we were in the movie theatre watching Memoirs of a Geisha (She managed to trick me into seeing it by lying about show times :p) when she grabbed me and forced her tongue down my throat. For the first 2 seconds I was nervous about it, then I just went with it. She told me many times I was a great kisser, so I can't really give any pointers, just do it and don't worry about it and you'll be fine.
 

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SomethingClever said:
It's all about teasing her. Give her a little, then stop. This drives the ladies wild, and make them want to make out more. So basically just take 2 steps forward and 1 step back all the time. Start kissing a little, then stop. Then after leaning back a little and playing it cool, start again. Build up the sexual tension.
This is good advice right here although I would extend it to all your actions. Also I would coordinate what your hands are doing with what your tongue is doing. i.e. if you are teasing her real slow with your hands don't have your tongue still set to a thousand miles a minute. It's all about symetry and projecting the image that you're in control.

Basically kissing is probably one of the most natrual things on earth, just go for it. Just don't like start licking her face or something.
 

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lol this thing is kind of like kissing your parents except with feeling.
get her on the lips, neck, chest, add some tongue... just experiment with it.

she'll probably like if you be creative and passionate.

don't try the sexual tension thing your first time though, I think it's more important to actually get used to the kissing beforehand.

its just like the approach of women, only I don't think you can be rejected if they're the ones who want you to do it. after the first kiss you'll soon know exactly what you're doing. you don't need to copy anyone, you have the capability to do this with your instincts.

the best advice I can give you is just do it..... kiss her already!!
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
lol this thing is kind of like kissing your parents except with feeling.
You kiss your parents? o_O

Reading internet articles can only get you so far. Experience really is the best teacher. Go with the flow, just don't try to ram your tongue down to her tonsils on the first try. If you're really nervous, ask her to show you how she likes to be kissed.
 

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I kiss parents and relatives out of respect. lol.
 

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just go with the flow....there's no reall way to explain on how to kiss, once you start you'll get the hang of it, trust me.

just a few pointers...

- make sure u don't deepthroat her with ur tongue
- start out slow first, then get more passionate and forceful once you get the hang of it.
- go for the neck, kiss her soft and blow on the side of her neck...she'll go cRaZy haha, just make sure you don't suck on her neck too hard cause then she'll get a hickey.

basically just follow her lead and ull be good.
 

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think about it... you have to actually kiss them with your mouth and lips to be able to kiss them.

if you want to kiss, go out and do it. kiss her.
 
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