Hey guys. I've been on this site for a little while now, and I would like to consider myself a natural. Sure, I've had some troubles before with girls, but I've also had a lot of success, and looking back on it now, I can see that I did some of the things that you guys talk about on the site, but I didn't know what it was called. The only thing that I've always had though, was mad confidence... maybe it was because I am a spoiled brat and feel like I'm on top of the world 
.. However, after reading this site and checking out the DJ Bible and getting more involved in actually consciously knowing how to PU, I want to share some of my insight.
I've looked into MM a little bit, but it just doesn't feel right for me. I'm not a magician, and I don't really like "doing stuff" to get girls' attentions. I'd say, some of the best material that I've seen so far is DYD with David DeAngelo. His main focus is C+F and sexual projection-- things that I wasn't aware of until introduced to the community. If you get a chance, see if you can grab hold of some of his stuff.. his e-book is pretty darn good.
Anyway, here's a breakdown of my "game".. if this will help you any
Initial
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1. Make eye contact.
2. Smile and approach with a "hi".
3. Just sit and chat with her, and vibe
4. Light, LIGHT kino. (I had misjudged a girl previously this week.. thought she was more comfortable with me than she really was.. but I forgot where I was with this girl hehe... I had a couple more on my mind, and assumed they were all the same level of familiarity)
5. Things almost always go well, so I continue vibing and chilling, until I tell her that I have to leave, because I have to do something or whatever.
6. Don't ask for the number.. TELL her to give you her number. Just be like "Hey, I gotta go. Gimme your number, and we'll see what we can do." Give her a wink.
7. I'd say call a few days later.. like 3-4 days (or whenever you're free.. I don't really believe in any "rules" per se about when to call. Hell, you can even call a day or two later if you want.)
8. On the phone... DON'T ask her for the day2 / meeting right away. No, instead, just chill with her and vibe for about maybe 15 mins or something, or as long as you like. I remember on quite a number of occassions, I called up a girl with the intent of only talking for a while, but then ended up talking for like an hour or something haha.. but the key is just enjoying the conversation. Seriously, if you don't enjoy it.. then don't go for it. Just find some one you LIKE talking to. Include the idea of going out again as an after-thought. When you feel that you're about to end the conversation, or you have to, just be like "Oh! By the way.. I wanna go [insert activity].. so come with me, and we'll have a great time." (I'd recommend either lunch at a new restaurant or a walk in the park.. preferably one that's close for both of you). And if she says "Sure", then be like "Okay cool.. and good thing it's close for us both too.." and she'll probably ask "Why." Then you can be like "Well.. in case you turn out to be some psycho crazy girl who's gonna tell me that you're like mad in love with me within the first 5 minutes of our get together, I can get away safely, and it won't take you too long to get home." Of course.. you want to say all this stuff in a joking manner.
What you decide to do on that date.. well, I'll leave you to it. But I'd say just.. watch the kino. Most of the girls I know have no problem with me touching them.. they even initiate the touching (and they're like always on the leg, thigh, arm.. crazy girls ). However, there WAS this one girl who I was considering, but she was mad uncomfortable with touching (but I suspect that's only because she wasn't too comfortable with me yet). I'd say just keep it fun and light.. and just chill.
This is for initial get togethers.. when I have more time, I'll put up the intermediate and final steps.
I hope you guys can use this stuff.. good luck
.. However, after reading this site and checking out the DJ Bible and getting more involved in actually consciously knowing how to PU, I want to share some of my insight.I've looked into MM a little bit, but it just doesn't feel right for me. I'm not a magician, and I don't really like "doing stuff" to get girls' attentions. I'd say, some of the best material that I've seen so far is DYD with David DeAngelo. His main focus is C+F and sexual projection-- things that I wasn't aware of until introduced to the community. If you get a chance, see if you can grab hold of some of his stuff.. his e-book is pretty darn good.
Anyway, here's a breakdown of my "game".. if this will help you any
Initial
--------
1. Make eye contact.
2. Smile and approach with a "hi".
3. Just sit and chat with her, and vibe
4. Light, LIGHT kino. (I had misjudged a girl previously this week.. thought she was more comfortable with me than she really was.. but I forgot where I was with this girl hehe... I had a couple more on my mind, and assumed they were all the same level of familiarity)
5. Things almost always go well, so I continue vibing and chilling, until I tell her that I have to leave, because I have to do something or whatever.
6. Don't ask for the number.. TELL her to give you her number. Just be like "Hey, I gotta go. Gimme your number, and we'll see what we can do." Give her a wink.
7. I'd say call a few days later.. like 3-4 days (or whenever you're free.. I don't really believe in any "rules" per se about when to call. Hell, you can even call a day or two later if you want.)
8. On the phone... DON'T ask her for the day2 / meeting right away. No, instead, just chill with her and vibe for about maybe 15 mins or something, or as long as you like. I remember on quite a number of occassions, I called up a girl with the intent of only talking for a while, but then ended up talking for like an hour or something haha.. but the key is just enjoying the conversation. Seriously, if you don't enjoy it.. then don't go for it. Just find some one you LIKE talking to
. Include the idea of going out again as an after-thought. When you feel that you're about to end the conversation, or you have to, just be like "Oh! By the way.. I wanna go [insert activity].. so come with me, and we'll have a great time." (I'd recommend either lunch at a new restaurant or a walk in the park.. preferably one that's close for both of you). And if she says "Sure", then be like "Okay cool.. and good thing it's close for us both too.." and she'll probably ask "Why." Then you can be like "Well.. in case you turn out to be some psycho crazy girl who's gonna tell me that you're like mad in love with me within the first 5 minutes of our get together, I can get away safely, and it won't take you too long to get home." Of course.. you want to say all this stuff in a joking manner.What you decide to do on that date.. well, I'll leave you to it. But I'd say just.. watch the kino. Most of the girls I know have no problem with me touching them.. they even initiate the touching (and they're like always on the leg, thigh, arm.. crazy girls
). However, there WAS this one girl who I was considering, but she was mad uncomfortable with touching (but I suspect that's only because she wasn't too comfortable with me yet). I'd say just keep it fun and light.. and just chill.This is for initial get togethers.. when I have more time, I'll put up the intermediate and final steps.
I hope you guys can use this stuff.. good luck
