Dont got brothers to fight with

Thebestthereeveris

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Ive always imagined a scenario where I would get into a fight and tbh I can handle myself one on one as I am strong and fit. But Ive always enjoyed the idea of having a group of brothers I can trust ****ing things up if it came down to it and it kind of sucks I dont have that. Anyone have suggestions for this or am I just delusional about this and should just live my life and take care of things as they come and not worry about this.
 

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Ive always imagined a scenario where I would get into a fight and tbh I can handle myself one on one as I am strong and fit. But Ive always enjoyed the idea of having a group of brothers I can trust ****ing things up if it came down to it and it kind of sucks I dont have that. Anyone have suggestions for this or am I just delusional about this and should just live my life and take care of things as they come and not worry about this.
Fights are never worth getting into and thinking you can handle yourself is always a wrong mindset because you never know what the other person is going to do.

He could pull out a gun or a taser and you would be dead before you even knew what happened.

The longer you live the more you realize this type of nonsense is for dumb people with nothing to lose.
 

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Fights are never worth getting into and thinking you can handle yourself is always a wrong mindset because you never know what the other person is going to do.

He could pull out a gun or a taser and you would be dead before you even knew what happened.

The longer you live the more you realize this type of nonsense is for dumb people with nothing to lose.
i realized that and i try to avoid it as much asp ossible. Tbh this was a stupid post
 

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If you want to measure your 'mettle', why not train in MMA and have sparring sessions?
 

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Ive always imagined a scenario where I would get into a fight and tbh I can handle myself one on one as I am strong and fit. But Ive always enjoyed the idea of having a group of brothers I can trust ****ing things up if it came down to it and it kind of sucks I dont have that. Anyone have suggestions for this or am I just delusional about this and should just live my life and take care of things as they come and not worry about this.
This should make you less delusional. At least in theory. :devil:
Fights are never worth getting into and thinking you can handle yourself is always a wrong mindset because you never know what the other person is going to do.
Plus that what BackInTheGame just said. Fights are kinda worthless and pointless and might lead to loads of misery. What if the counter part have a large knife, gun etc?
 

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This should make you less delusional. At least in theory. :devil:

Plus that what BackInTheGame just said. Fights are kinda worthless and pointless and might lead to loads of misery. What if the counter part have a large knife, gun etc?
Yeah not worth it just trying to fantasize about fighting. It’s stupid I’d rather have the ability to kick ass but focus on my own success
 

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Learn Martial arts. I know some guys that join MMA, and somewhat enjoy it; but prepare for some beat downs at the beginning of your training.

There are also various fraternal groups and men's clubs you can join. They are not limited to just colleges. Make more friends, but like others said, do not get into fights when avoidable. Even if you win, you can be held liable under both criminal and civil law, depending on circumstances.
 
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I just have one. Growing up in Brooklyn, everyones older brother was usually a badass. When kids came from across the main avenue (from the other blocks) and would try to fucc with us/ beat us up, our older brothers would come out and handle business.. but when they weren't around, sht-different story..

I mean Brooklyn was wild.. the kids from the other side of the neighborhood used to come like 10-12 deep on bikes and on foot, popping wheelies, sometimes from both sides of the blocks purposelly to try to corner us in. ALot of times when none of our older friends/brothers were around we'd have to take the L and run inside. Buncha puerto ricans coming to fight us nd sht .. our side was colombians, dominicans, puerto ricans, pollocks, italians and blacks.. but that one side it ws mostly puerto rican and blacks..

Having your older brother show up or pop out right when like 5-6 of you were cornered by like 10-12 dudes( ranging from like 7-8 yrs old to mostly 14-19) after like 2 mins of fighting.. was the most badass sht ever though.. would be like my older brother and this kid Harry and his older brother pop out, them 3 alone would chase off like 10-12 dudes. sht was awesome. Harry's older brother was a tall slender athletic dude tho biceps hard as concrete.. had insane bicep peaks too. little kids in our neighborhood would be trying to hang off his arm nd sht. My bro wasnt jacked but he had broad ass shoulders and was just heroic af when he poppe dout. Harry himself was tough as sht and most of the time it owuld just be him we'd like look up to. Rest of us would jus fight kids our own age

Love my childhood though. wouldnt trade it for anything
 

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i realized that and i try to avoid it as much asp ossible. Tbh this was a stupid post
This post is not stupid.
You need to form a group of real bros with tribe mentality.
Nowdays your own friends will talk smack about you for a chance of smell of a *****, and will even try to flirt with your date/girlfriend because they are losers.

Men nowdays are a joke
 

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This post is not stupid.
You need to form a group of real bros with tribe mentality.
Nowdays your own friends will talk smack about you for a chance of smell of a *****, and will even try to flirt with your date/girlfriend because they are losers.

Men nowdays are a joke
I agree with this which is why I made this post but looking to fight is dumb. My two brothers are 12 and 10. I’m 27. Can’t wait till their 18 and will lead this brotherhood
 

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