I don't care how comfortable you get. I don't care how much different you think "this" woman is. I don't care if she has 100% interest level or 10%. I don't care if you got married to the broad. DONT EVER LOSE CONTROL. Don't ever give her the power you naturally start with. Why would you? She doesn't want it and she won't respect you if you do. Don't ask her questions as if she's more enlightened in an area than you. Don't seek her advise. Don't say you don't know. Don't ever look to her for any kind of support emotionally, physically(i.e. she knows you need sex from her), or socially. You are THE MAN godamit. She wants to look up to you. Why the fvck would you want to give that up? She wants you to be your own man and do what you want to do dispite her. She wants you to tell her no. She wants you to keep your opinions and interests even if they are different than hers. She wants you to call her on her fvcked up behavior(if you can't find something to call her on than you are a dumba$$) She wants to ask you the questions and not the other way around. I find so many men that don't understand how they give up thier power and I think it would help soooo much if all of us understood how we give up our power to women. WE START WITH ALL THE POWER..... but how long does it take for us to give it up is the question. Don't ever put your woman in a position to lead cuz she'll disrespect you for it and she won't be happy and neither will you. Plus when women lead, and I'm not sexist, things get fvcked up and usually turn chaotic. Can I get an AMEN BRUH?
Dont Ever Lose Control
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bust.it
Don Juan
god i needed that SO badly right now...
amen and thank you. there's this new chick... and your post, well, it screwed my head back on.
amen and thank you. there's this new chick... and your post, well, it screwed my head back on.
Digital Mastermind1
Don Juan
amen bro..
poonologist
Don Juan
Pretty good post.While it obviously doesnt hold true for 100% of women.I would say 95% is a high enough percentage to gamble on.This seems pretty right on though.Women want us to have balls and be the man
bust.it
Don Juan
The more I re-read this post the more I like it. The parts that really hit home and are SO true whether you realize it or not, are:
I don't care how much different you think "this" woman is.
-The biggest excuse ever for AFCs (i catch myself doing it sometimes). Thinking sh1t like:
"There's just something about THIS one..."
"No. you're wrong. she's different from the rest"
"She's not like other girls. she's special"
... b1tchslap yourself if any of those cross your mind. THEY ARE ALL THE SAME and THEY WILL ALL PLAY/SCREW WITH/TEST YOU.
Don't ever give her the power you naturally start with.
-power, authority, challenge, attitude... you have it all. KEEP it as yours. everyone wants to share your life, right?
Don't ever look to her for any kind of support emotionally, physically(i.e. she knows you need sex from her), or socially.
-SO TRUE. Don't let her know that you're sexually dependent on her (even though we all want pvssy) act like you can get it anywhere and she'll WANT to give it to you. The SECOND she knows it controls you, you've given her the power to manipulate you.
She wants you to be your own man and do what you want to do dispite her. She wants you to tell her no. She wants you to keep your opinions and interests even if they are different than hers. She wants you to call her on her fvcked up behavior(if you can't find something to call her on than you are a dumba$$)
-Heed these words of wisdom. Live them, breathe them, be them. BE YOUR OWN MAN AND NOT A WEAKA$$ B1TCH. Someone said once, "she's already got a pvssy, what makes you think she needs another one?"
You are THE MAN godamit.
Amen.
I don't care how much different you think "this" woman is.
-The biggest excuse ever for AFCs (i catch myself doing it sometimes). Thinking sh1t like:
"There's just something about THIS one..."
"No. you're wrong. she's different from the rest"
"She's not like other girls. she's special"
... b1tchslap yourself if any of those cross your mind. THEY ARE ALL THE SAME and THEY WILL ALL PLAY/SCREW WITH/TEST YOU.
Don't ever give her the power you naturally start with.
-power, authority, challenge, attitude... you have it all. KEEP it as yours. everyone wants to share your life, right?
Don't ever look to her for any kind of support emotionally, physically(i.e. she knows you need sex from her), or socially.
-SO TRUE. Don't let her know that you're sexually dependent on her (even though we all want pvssy) act like you can get it anywhere and she'll WANT to give it to you. The SECOND she knows it controls you, you've given her the power to manipulate you.
She wants you to be your own man and do what you want to do dispite her. She wants you to tell her no. She wants you to keep your opinions and interests even if they are different than hers. She wants you to call her on her fvcked up behavior(if you can't find something to call her on than you are a dumba$$)
-Heed these words of wisdom. Live them, breathe them, be them. BE YOUR OWN MAN AND NOT A WEAKA$$ B1TCH. Someone said once, "she's already got a pvssy, what makes you think she needs another one?"
You are THE MAN godamit.
Amen.
learningtopimp
Senior Don Juan
That quote was on the money, you gotta do that always. I still revert to AFC behavior on a semi-frequent basis and I need a good kick in the ass when that happens. Thanx.
Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.
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