Don't do extremes

[Blinky]

Quick tip here.

I was looking through this site the other day and it had profiles of different woman saying about their sexual experiences, what their fantasy's were and basically what things in a man turned them on and off. Found it interesting so I read through quite a few of them.

Have you ever noticed how some woman are really into skinny guys, some woman really into muscley guy... but then also some are turned off by skinny or muscley guys.

or

How some woman like massive ****s , some are turned off by ****s too big and some (most) turned by off by really small ****s..

or

How some woman are really repulsed by too much body hair , yet others are totally turned on by it because they see you as more manly

or

Bad guys / nice guys

or

long hair / very short hair

or

Confident in control guys / shy timid guys

or

Mature serious guy / immature fun guy

etc.....


.......... This rule applies for around 70% of things I could go on but I won't,... anyways the point i'm trying too make it's almost never the inbetween that is a turn off,... be the inbetween not the extreme in things you do or you are and you'll satify both, thus making your appeal for both.

 

[Blinky]

Let me add somit too that before I go....

It doesn't have too be anything like those doubled sided examples I gave it can be extremes of anything...

- Too many tatoos
- Talking about sex too much
- Over using Kino
- Having a freaky hairstyle
- Being too obsessed with a project / sport / hobbie
- Complimenting too much....

Just about anything,..doing too much of somit makes it boring or a turn off.



Alex_l

 

[Jariel]

I agree completely! These extremes probably account for most guys' mistakes and failures with women.

Middle of the road is not necessarily bland, because in this day and age almost everybody is stuck on the extremes and it's the guy who defies this trend that stands out.

Great tip Blinky. I hope guys will take note of this.

 

[alboh]

I think this is true to a degree, but middle of the line is also boring. Don't change yourself too much just for girls.

 

[Fatality]

so if I have a massive **** what am I supposed to do?

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

This tip is wack...Basically you are telling people to play the middle so you can attract more girls? If you do that, its like you are trying to please everyone, and thats impossible...Its better for everyone to find their own individual strong points and work on those instead of trying to make yourself generic...Variety is the spice of life...

 

[Eternal]

Urge to move...Rising.

 

[Blinky]

Originally posted by alboh
I think this is true to a degree, but middle of the line is also boring. Don't change yourself too much just for girls.

Good point. Let me explain more though...

- You say the middle of the line is boring and maybe it is in lots of things, I never sed be in the middle the average, just too be the inbetween of the extremes. (i.e dont do extremes)

say you rated it out of 1 too 10. 1 being the very lowest extreme and 10 the highest....

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 .... 1,2, 9 and 10 would be the extremes,... 5 1/2 maybe average but 3, 4 , 7 ,8 are higher or lower than average if that makes sense....i.e you can be between the extremes with out being boring or average.

- You also sed don't change just for girls,..and your right also but understand that extremes effect how people on a whole (friends / strangers / work mates / family) react different too you, all it is, is being the best you can.

Fatality
so if I have a massive **** what am I supposed to do?

Nothing lol, that was just somit that comes up alot (no pun intended) in turn offs and turn ons. So I used it as an good example how extremes can turn off or turn on.

I just see some guys with average or above average penis size's wishing they were bigger, and some try jelqing, pumping, even surgery, basically whatever too try too make themselves bigger when theres no real need.

 

[Blinky]

Originally posted by Eternal
Urge to move...Rising.

Urge too move where lol in the deleted threads forum?

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by Blinky
Urge too move where lol in the deleted threads forum?

Nah, to Discussion because these tips are highly debateable.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Everything should be done with moderation! Easy said than done, but that's the rule!

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

yeh i knew this, havent thought about it much recently, but you just need to be yourself, you can choose who that is and do not be some one you are not . sure many girls will not like you but aslong as many do then whats your problem, you would not need or want every girl to like you.

 

[Yotsuya-san]

Jariel said: Middle of the road is not necessarily bland, because in this day and age almost everybody is stuck on the extremes and it's the guy who defies this trend that stands out.

Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
This tip is wack...Basically you are telling people to play the middle so you can attract more girls? If you do that, its like you are trying to please everyone, and thats impossible...Its better for everyone to find their own individual strong points and work on those instead of trying to make yourself generic...Variety is the spice of life...

I don't think he was saying "just be middle of the road". I think he was saying, don't go out of your way to stand out. Don't just intentionally cultivate quirks and eccentricities just for the sake of spicing up your image. This IS what so many people are doing these days. Don't fall into that trap. It is better to be one of those that are unconventional simply because they THINK differently, not because they are simply rebelling against the norm or because they get off on being difficult to define.