Don't Chase Em, Replace em.

[Warrior74]

I had three on my team (or 3 plates) for the last 6 months. My first girl has completely blown out (it's over). 30, sandy brown hair, 110lbs with a runner's body. 7 year old son. She started catching feelings and telling me how she was in love with me and got mad when I wouldn't say it back. She tried snooping through my phone and got mad when I wouldn't add her on facebook or myspace. Finally she stopped coming to see me (she lives an hour away). I knew it was coming and I kept my heart in check. Just last week this new girl hits me up on facebook and is coming to see me next week. I've pulled a few more off facebook that I am meeting up with them next week. Auditioning for a member for the team.

My second girl, I expect her to blow out soon. 35, two kids, jet black hair with massive double d's. She spent the weekend with me and has been sending me lovely dovey text for the last few days. She's said it herself,she knows she can't keep me, and she knows I'm dating other women and she's trying to keep her heart out of it. But she's losing that battle. I expect her to last a couple months at best. I'm going to dial back seeing her for a while and start looking for her replacement soon.

My third girl, I only see her every two weeks. She's in law school and has a kid so she doesn't have much time. Which is fine by me. She's probably the best of the three in the sack, 25 year old blonde with huge tits and a serious oral fixation. Really smart but really self conscious and kinda shy. I'll keep her on the team for some time hopefully.

I actually don't mind dating single mothers, I don't have a lot of free time right now, so them having kids keeps them busy and coming to see me is like a vacation from their normal lives. Younger girls seem to want too much time and want me to spend too much money which I am not going to do right now.

So don't chase them brothers, replace them.

 

[Duffdog]

dumb question, but, Why do all your girls have kids? Seems like a PUA would want non-kids females only?

 

[Warrior74]

dumb question, but, Why do all your girls have kids? Seems like a PUA would want non-kids females only?

I actually don't mind dating single mothers, I don't have a lot of free time right now, so them having kids keeps them busy and coming to see me is like a vacation from their normal lives. Younger girls seem to want too much time and want me to spend too much money which I am not going to do right now.

And I'm not a pick up artist or a dj, or a dater.

My goal is to have a steady supply of *****, with the least amount of drama, while I work on my business goals. I don't know what you call that, some call it a player. But I don't make false promises and I don't lead people on. I tell them straight up what I'm about.

 

[DavenJuan]

dumb question, but, Why do all your girls have kids? Seems like a PUA would want non-kids females only?

actually women with kids arent going to surpress you as much as women without.

she has responsibilties that she needs to attend to. so the 3am drive by's or show ups dont necessarily occur as often when dealing with a woman who can bar hop as needed

 

[lookyoung]

Good job warrior its nice to see guys here that are actually active in the game and spinning plates. Its a breath of fresh air from all the surveys and psychology. I am really not into single mothers at all. Its a turn off for me but if your just using them for sex than its all good.

How is the facebook game as opposed to the myspace game?

 

[Warrior74]

Good job warrior its nice to see guys here that are actually active in the game and spinning plates. Its a breath of fresh air from all the surveys and psychology. I am really not into single mothers at all. Its a turn off for me but if your just using them for sex than its all good.

How is the facebook game as opposed to the myspace game?

Facebook is interesting to me mainly because its social circle gaming. I didn't approach any of the females I met on there. These are women I know through my job, or I went to college or high school with or I know through work on music with my friends. Only one was a random, she saw my picture and checked out my profile and contacted me. A few will send you"pokes" all the time trying to get your attention. Others will comment positively on anything you say. Those are the indicators of interest I see on facebook.

One other one was from this application called Honestly Box on facebook. You can post a question and people can respond anonymously. Then you can send them "bribes" to find out who they are. One girl kept telling me I was hot, and finally revealed who she was...she's one of the ones I plan on seeing next week.

 

[Solomon]

The problem with dating or boinking single mothers is that, their single mothers. Even keeping them as plates or booty calls in the long run is futile in my experince. Their time revolves around their kids, you will always be number too, I got a couple Single Mothers here, but I don't put stock on them just for the fact that they are single mothers who in my experince flake more, are more trilifing then chicks without kids etc etc, but that don't mean I wouldn't smash one, this chick I'm smashing now is a single mother but you couldn't tell yo

 

[Son of anarchy]

Well everybody should be free to behave the way he want but dont you think that making this women nervous or unsure would create some problems in their home to their innocent kids?
I mean,in most of the cases those women kicked out their husbands and are living with their money but which one is the guilt of those poor fatherless children?

 

[NewMan]

but dont you think that making this women nervous or unsure would create some problems in their home to their innocent kids?

Don't you think she should have thought about that????

What makes you think that Warrior74 should give a crap less?

Perhaps the mother raising the kids (sans Father) and "Hor'ing" out is the issue.

 

[wjh]

While I agree with your general principle, I don't agree with dating single mothers at all.

 

[Warrior74]

Well everybody should be free to behave the way he want but dont you think that making this women nervous or unsure would create some problems in their home to their innocent kids?
I mean,in most of the cases those women kicked out their husbands and are living with their money but which one is the guilt of those poor fatherless children?

Are you kidding me? Are you a parent? I am. I wouldn't let anything in my personal life effect the life of my child. Most parents are the same way. Or they should be and it's not my responsibility if they are not. It's the parent's role to protect children.

Have you forgotten your DJ training? When a woman is safe and secure with a man she how does she act and what does she feel? Now what does she do and feel when she is unsure and nervous about the relationship? Use your brain and think it out and write back.

 

[MatureDJ]

Single mothers are at low sexual market value. I would find it very difficult to get into a serious relationship with such a woman. However, if a man were only looking for casual sex, or at least not a marriage type of arrangement, then the single mother is a very good ploy (so long as "accidents" would not happen.)

Warrior74 is already a father, so he has no reason to secure a maiden for a serious relationship. He can now live the life of Hugh Hefner.

 

[Zunder]

I've banged a few Milfs over the years.
Good and Bad points.
Never lasted.

First time one of her snotbags crawls into her bed unannounced, with you in it, and says "Daddy", then run boy, run.

 

[fertileTurtle]

Fvck what these idiots say. They'll do as they're told. For a pump 'n dump, single mothers will do just as any other. You just have to know how to cut those biitches off. And make sure you double bag it.