Vulpine
Master Don Juan
This should be self-evident, but it's clearly not. Having been a host, and having tended bar, I can say with certainty that it's not good for your game. I have been reminded of this after seeing the faces of my guests after yet another AMOG (in a long string) by a poor guest.
1. AMOG of the host of a party in their own home:
a. It's their mountain. No amount of pushing the host down and calling yourself "King" will change that fact. It's the host's mountain, period.
b. You are a guest in someone's home. Being rude proves you a bad guest.
c. Blatant disrespect will be seen by others.
There is much more to the negative outcomes and dynamics, but let me just say at this point that other guests will notice the adversarial interaction. You'll be seen as insecure, rude, insensitive, and a whole host of game-destroying negativity will follow you like a dark storm cloud.
2. AMOG of the bartender: the host of a party subject to laws and regulations.
a. The "King" put the bartender there in his stead to watch over his mountain. No amount of pushing the bartender down and calling yourself "King" will make you own the bar.
b. You are a guest. And, the bartender is obligated to be as cordial as reasonable until you act the fool and start becoming disruptive. You've AMOG'd the bartender? They have their eye on you now, and not in a friendly way. You've proven to be a bad guest; you're likely to negatively affect the fun atmosphere they are trying to maintain.
c. Although your disrespect may not be seen by others, the bartender will make your experience reflect like a mirror. You'll get ƒucked with in a "customized for you" way. Weak drinks, lousy service, coxbloxing... even super strong drinks to send you to the bathroom to puke and make an ass of yourself that way.
The bartender is a host of the party. Professionally, they've practiced the art of dealing with a-holes in all shapes and sizes, and in all levels of drunk and drugged up. Bartenders are great at hosting you a party they want you to have. Get on their bad side and you are likely to start off with a frown, then a sloppy drunk, then the offense: gotcha slippin'! And you get ushered out by the door beef. If you're lucky, you'll just frown. In which case, women will be turned off and you'll go home with a scowl. Guess what, the bartender wins: they have your money and wrecked your night.
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No, choke down your fake alpha tactics when it comes to the host. The host is not a good target practice for AMOG's. They aren't trying to steal your gal or threaten you, they are busy hosting; they are busy helping you, whether you know/appreciate it or not. Hosts have other things to worry about, and when you present yourself as a negative cancer, you'll be "treated" differently than other guests. You are now a problem at the party, you are not fun and friendly, you are a blemish, and your problems need to be isolated from the other guests. The other guests need "shielding" from the negativity: this is what being a good host entails. Helping the bulk of the guests have a positive experience means throwing out the bad apples.
So, instead, help the host. Cooperate, and potentially use them as your pivot, your built-in wingman, and respect them as such. Be a courteous guest and use thank you's, apologies, and be civil in general. If you are a gracious guest, you'll be treated as an asset, not a liability. It's the difference between being a welcome guest, and will be welcome in the future, and an unwelcome guest, who will be unwelcome now and in the future.
I can't even begin to list experiences, both good and bad, that illustrate this. I've put püssy on the laps of many good guests, and I've had handcuffs put on the roid-rage AMOG sorts. I've pulled decent guys out of the hands of police (they were swept up with the group they came with) and told them "this guy is super cool, he tried to get them to chill". That guy watched his buddies leave in a police cruiser and had püssy in his lap later.
Indeed, AMOG'ing the host is a fools errand. I'm not sure why this seems to persist, but I suspect it's a matter of dwindling manners. There used to be an amount of kindness towards strangers, and there used to be an amount of grace in social settings. However, it seems that even basic courtesy is rare now. Even when I'm not the host I see it, and it's truly fascinating. Why, if you are at a party, would you try to be kicked out? To "have fun"? The host would rather have fun, too. I don't enjoy going to clubs or bars much anymore because of this Paris Hilton sh¡t-show going on these days. It's like an evening with the cast of "Jackass" anymore when I go out. Somehow, people associate "seeing what they can get away with" and "getting into trouble" with "fun". Vandalism, disrespect, theft... it's warped, and it wrecks a lot of institutions. I've had an old wing of mine go all rage and rip the door off a toilet stall. In my mind, he was a terrible guest, and a terrible liability: he negatively affected my game far too frequently to warrant having him around. He shrugged it off as though it is "just what you do" when you're out: Let's ƒuck sh¡t up! Heelllll YEEEEEAAAAH! Trashing a venue is disrespecting the host.
Don't AMOG the host! True alphas are calm, relaxed, and understand their situations. When fake alphas run around "barking at and biting others in the pack", they are clearly beta - looking to show their dominance. When you bite a true alpha, you'll likely get a hard bite with no bark. More (most) importantly, you might just find yourself "out of the pack". It is the host's "pack", whether you like it or not.
Women look very closely at how you treat service professionals. This is known. Messing with a host is an extension of this dynamic; it's on par with treating the waitress rudely. Mind your manners and women will take notice. Know your place and work it to your advantage instead of your disadvantage. There is a time and place for seduction. If you're AMOG'ing the host, your game is WAY off. Be a regal guest and be treated like royalty.
1. AMOG of the host of a party in their own home:
a. It's their mountain. No amount of pushing the host down and calling yourself "King" will change that fact. It's the host's mountain, period.
b. You are a guest in someone's home. Being rude proves you a bad guest.
c. Blatant disrespect will be seen by others.
There is much more to the negative outcomes and dynamics, but let me just say at this point that other guests will notice the adversarial interaction. You'll be seen as insecure, rude, insensitive, and a whole host of game-destroying negativity will follow you like a dark storm cloud.
2. AMOG of the bartender: the host of a party subject to laws and regulations.
a. The "King" put the bartender there in his stead to watch over his mountain. No amount of pushing the bartender down and calling yourself "King" will make you own the bar.
b. You are a guest. And, the bartender is obligated to be as cordial as reasonable until you act the fool and start becoming disruptive. You've AMOG'd the bartender? They have their eye on you now, and not in a friendly way. You've proven to be a bad guest; you're likely to negatively affect the fun atmosphere they are trying to maintain.
c. Although your disrespect may not be seen by others, the bartender will make your experience reflect like a mirror. You'll get ƒucked with in a "customized for you" way. Weak drinks, lousy service, coxbloxing... even super strong drinks to send you to the bathroom to puke and make an ass of yourself that way.
The bartender is a host of the party. Professionally, they've practiced the art of dealing with a-holes in all shapes and sizes, and in all levels of drunk and drugged up. Bartenders are great at hosting you a party they want you to have. Get on their bad side and you are likely to start off with a frown, then a sloppy drunk, then the offense: gotcha slippin'! And you get ushered out by the door beef. If you're lucky, you'll just frown. In which case, women will be turned off and you'll go home with a scowl. Guess what, the bartender wins: they have your money and wrecked your night.
____________________________
No, choke down your fake alpha tactics when it comes to the host. The host is not a good target practice for AMOG's. They aren't trying to steal your gal or threaten you, they are busy hosting; they are busy helping you, whether you know/appreciate it or not. Hosts have other things to worry about, and when you present yourself as a negative cancer, you'll be "treated" differently than other guests. You are now a problem at the party, you are not fun and friendly, you are a blemish, and your problems need to be isolated from the other guests. The other guests need "shielding" from the negativity: this is what being a good host entails. Helping the bulk of the guests have a positive experience means throwing out the bad apples.
So, instead, help the host. Cooperate, and potentially use them as your pivot, your built-in wingman, and respect them as such. Be a courteous guest and use thank you's, apologies, and be civil in general. If you are a gracious guest, you'll be treated as an asset, not a liability. It's the difference between being a welcome guest, and will be welcome in the future, and an unwelcome guest, who will be unwelcome now and in the future.
I can't even begin to list experiences, both good and bad, that illustrate this. I've put püssy on the laps of many good guests, and I've had handcuffs put on the roid-rage AMOG sorts. I've pulled decent guys out of the hands of police (they were swept up with the group they came with) and told them "this guy is super cool, he tried to get them to chill". That guy watched his buddies leave in a police cruiser and had püssy in his lap later.
Indeed, AMOG'ing the host is a fools errand. I'm not sure why this seems to persist, but I suspect it's a matter of dwindling manners. There used to be an amount of kindness towards strangers, and there used to be an amount of grace in social settings. However, it seems that even basic courtesy is rare now. Even when I'm not the host I see it, and it's truly fascinating. Why, if you are at a party, would you try to be kicked out? To "have fun"? The host would rather have fun, too. I don't enjoy going to clubs or bars much anymore because of this Paris Hilton sh¡t-show going on these days. It's like an evening with the cast of "Jackass" anymore when I go out. Somehow, people associate "seeing what they can get away with" and "getting into trouble" with "fun". Vandalism, disrespect, theft... it's warped, and it wrecks a lot of institutions. I've had an old wing of mine go all rage and rip the door off a toilet stall. In my mind, he was a terrible guest, and a terrible liability: he negatively affected my game far too frequently to warrant having him around. He shrugged it off as though it is "just what you do" when you're out: Let's ƒuck sh¡t up! Heelllll YEEEEEAAAAH! Trashing a venue is disrespecting the host.
Don't AMOG the host! True alphas are calm, relaxed, and understand their situations. When fake alphas run around "barking at and biting others in the pack", they are clearly beta - looking to show their dominance. When you bite a true alpha, you'll likely get a hard bite with no bark. More (most) importantly, you might just find yourself "out of the pack". It is the host's "pack", whether you like it or not.
Women look very closely at how you treat service professionals. This is known. Messing with a host is an extension of this dynamic; it's on par with treating the waitress rudely. Mind your manners and women will take notice. Know your place and work it to your advantage instead of your disadvantage. There is a time and place for seduction. If you're AMOG'ing the host, your game is WAY off. Be a regal guest and be treated like royalty.
