Hi there!
I've been a long time lurker on these forums, so I figured it'd be polite to step up and introduce myself before I go back to the lurking mode. I'm a woman, married to a guy who's definitely not an AFC but not a DJ, either. Our marriage is a bit more, um, open-minded than marriages usually are.
I got into this DJ and PUA stuff in 2004 or something but forgot it for a long while. At first I read it simply out of curiosity because I've never really understood women. I guess I have a male brain or something. For example, if I use a neutral nick online, I'm usually mistaken for a guy. I'm also studying CS in college and have more guy friends than girl friends because girls are just so damn hard to figure out. Fortunately, though, I don't look like a man.
Everything I've read and learned about attracting women seems to make sense. When I honestly look at how I feel and react to men, I must say the advice on SS is pretty spot on. My husband also confirms than when he was younger and listened to his sisters' dating advice, he failed miserably. But when he simply was himself and showed no interest in a girl, the girl basically chased him.
So, I'm here to simply lurk and learn more about my own sex, but I'm also using the advice to "pick up" girls - both for friends only and some hot action (It seems quite a few straight girls don't mind getting some bi action). I'm also trying to teach my hubby how to do so. Like I said, we're in a sort of an open marriage, and the problem is, I can get more guys than he can get girls, so I wanna help him out. I'm not sure but I don't think many men have a wife who helps them pick up girls.
First and foremost, I see DJ'ing as a way of improving myself. Just reading this forum and the SS site have helped me become more social, make more friends/FB's, and improve my social skills, both with men and women. My problem is, I'm pretty introverted, and prefer deep 1-on-1 conversations to mindless small talk. It's all fine and dandy but I'm afraid I'm too serious and boring sometimes, so I've just learned to chill and be more fun. I've also learned to be more outgoing, approach strangers, smile at them, make friends with them, and so on.
Yeah, I'll shut up for now. Y'all probably think I'm a weirdo (or a troll) but it's ok, I'm proud to be weird. Also, I'm happy to meet you guys!
I've been a long time lurker on these forums, so I figured it'd be polite to step up and introduce myself before I go back to the lurking mode. I'm a woman, married to a guy who's definitely not an AFC but not a DJ, either. Our marriage is a bit more, um, open-minded than marriages usually are.
I got into this DJ and PUA stuff in 2004 or something but forgot it for a long while. At first I read it simply out of curiosity because I've never really understood women. I guess I have a male brain or something. For example, if I use a neutral nick online, I'm usually mistaken for a guy. I'm also studying CS in college and have more guy friends than girl friends because girls are just so damn hard to figure out. Fortunately, though, I don't look like a man.
Everything I've read and learned about attracting women seems to make sense. When I honestly look at how I feel and react to men, I must say the advice on SS is pretty spot on. My husband also confirms than when he was younger and listened to his sisters' dating advice, he failed miserably. But when he simply was himself and showed no interest in a girl, the girl basically chased him.
So, I'm here to simply lurk and learn more about my own sex, but I'm also using the advice to "pick up" girls - both for friends only and some hot action (It seems quite a few straight girls don't mind getting some bi action). I'm also trying to teach my hubby how to do so. Like I said, we're in a sort of an open marriage, and the problem is, I can get more guys than he can get girls, so I wanna help him out. I'm not sure but I don't think many men have a wife who helps them pick up girls.
First and foremost, I see DJ'ing as a way of improving myself. Just reading this forum and the SS site have helped me become more social, make more friends/FB's, and improve my social skills, both with men and women. My problem is, I'm pretty introverted, and prefer deep 1-on-1 conversations to mindless small talk. It's all fine and dandy but I'm afraid I'm too serious and boring sometimes, so I've just learned to chill and be more fun. I've also learned to be more outgoing, approach strangers, smile at them, make friends with them, and so on.
Yeah, I'll shut up for now. Y'all probably think I'm a weirdo (or a troll) but it's ok, I'm proud to be weird. Also, I'm happy to meet you guys!