Don Juan vs Douchebag

[Young_gun73]

Guys,

I can attest to the fact that I have tryed the Don Juan techniques to varying degrees of success and douchebag techniques with vary degrees of success as well.

Don Juan: For example, I spin plates often because I meet so many flakey women. I do get laid. But I also get my share of rejections. But it comes at a price.
Many girls feel the vibe that I am a player after I bed them and will reject me. But I am not a player. In fact i want a relationship but I cant keep a woman around because their are so many OTHER men out there who are just as handsome or successful. I just spin many plates because I simply either get bored with one girl or I dont trust a girl or she will leave the relationship. I have had many one night stands that I wanted more from and ended up getting hurt---so thats why I spin so many plates all the time. With me its always....NEXT! NEXT! NEXT!..then I meet a girl I dig and finally after a few months ...I NEXT HER! or she gets tired of me.


Douchebag: For example, douchebags are overly confident and ****y, they drive a flashy neon yellow corvette, with loads of cash, highlighted blonde hair, designer label clothes, wearing oakley sunglasses at night, flashy IPOD, and a pinky ring---women love a flashy guy. I have also been a total douchebag by making my date pick up the tab and she will take me home and have sex with me. That has happened a few times. I will push the bar tab off on my date. It takes balls to be a douchbag. I have gone to a exgirlfriends house to fight her new boyfriend and then walk away calling him a w*ss. Then within a few weeks my exgirlfriend is back in my arms having sex with me again. Douchebags are drama kings. They do the OPPOSITE of what a Don Juan does yet sometimes get laid more than a rockstar.

Being don juan has its place----but also so does being a douchebag.

The guys that dont have girlfriends are AVERAGE GUYS. Your regular joe schmoe with no game or style will have a hard time getting laid.

Those have been at least my experiences with women.

What are your thoughts?

 

[Ease]

I have also been a total douchebag by making my date pick up the tab and she will take me home and have sex with me. That has happened a few times. I will push the bar tab off on my date. It takes balls to be a douchbag. I have gone to a exgirlfriends house to fight her new boyfriend and then walk away calling him a w*ss. Then within a few weeks my exgirlfriend is back in my arms having sex with me again. Douchebags are drama kings.

You sound like my kind of guy!

Be the douchebag that gets the good deal. Not the poor guy that wastes himself to get left.

 

[Slickster]

If being a sleazy douchebag gets you pvssy, and if getting laid is that important to you, then I guess you'll be a happy douchebag.

At some point the charm of a woman's vagina will wear off and you'll just be you. A great big douche

 

[Young_gun73]

yes

It is not just about getting laid. It is also about what a woman finds attractive....

Some women love douchebags and others love don juans.

List of Douchebags who get HB8-10's
Jesse James(cheated on his wife Sandra Bullock)
Mickey Rourke
Tom Cruise( i actually like cruise, but the couch jumping incident?)
John Stamos
Matt LeBlanc(cheated on his wife with stripper)
Kelsey Grammar(cheated on wife to marry flight attendant)
Brad Pitt (sort of--he did leave jennifer aniston to marry angelie jolie)
Mel Gibson(the phone rage incident)
Charlie Sheen(I like sheen because he is a party animal)
James Dean(douchebag back in the day--difficult to work with, showing up late, drama king)



List of Don Juans who got or can get HB8-10's
James Bond(all of them)
Clark Gable(don juan back in the day)
Carey Grant(don juan back in the day)
George Clooney
Paul Newman(don juan back in the day)
Johnny Depp
Leonardo DiCaprio
Robert Downey Jr(when he is not high on drugs)
Michael Douglas(older man, but still suave)
Steve McMcQueen(don juan back in the day)

Some guys are just cool....and others are just off the chain.

 

[The Assistant]

I personally see the word "douchebag" as hate mongering, because everyone in this country has the freedom to dress and act how they want. Only losers call other dudes douchebags, simply because those "douchebags" have their own way of getting the hottest girls possible.

If I were to do a Jersey Shore comparison though, I'd say Ronny is a pvssy, Vinny is an AFC, Situation is an azzhole (not a bad thing), and Pauly D is a classic Don Juan

 

[Ease]

A don juan is not a douchebag?

A don juan = successful, powerful, wealthy, gets many WOMEN?

All of these things are called 'douchebag'. All of these things attract hate from those below. All of these things will make people dislike you, especially the women who you will divide your attention between.

You fools trying to argue that being a douchebag is a bad thing and will leave you empty dont understand.

You have girls throwing themselves at you left and right and have 3 girls dating you, and then try and NOT be called a 'jerk' by these women. The word 'jerk' or 'douchebag' is just a perception.

 

[shyguy32]

What makes you think your list of celebs are douchbags?

I don't see any of them that way!

 

[Bible_Belt]

The effectiveness of the douchebag technique will vary indirectly with the woman's self-esteem.

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

Yes, there is sometimes merit to the label of d-bag.

But it's a word that gets thrown around way too much, to the point that it is used as one of Rollo's famous Buffers.

He drives a Corvette, I drive a Hyundai...what a douche.

He's built and I'm not...what a douche.

Slandering others is a weakness that you should purge from your character. Because it stems from comparing yourself to others, instead of focusing on your own weaknesses.

"You hypocrite, cast the beam out of thine own eye, and then shall you see clearly to remove the mote from your brother's eye."

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

Yes, there is sometimes merit to the label of d-bag.

But it's a word that gets thrown around way too much, to the point that it is used as one of Rollo's famous Buffers.

He drives a Corvette, I drive a Hyundai...what a douche.

He's built and I'm not...what a douche.

Slandering others is a weakness that you should purge from your character. Because it stems from comparing yourself to others, instead of focusing on your own weaknesses.

"You hypocrite, cast the beam out of thine own eye, and then shall you see clearly to remove the mote from your brother's eye."

 

[PapiChulo]

I am tired of saying this over and over again - douche is till a chump! no mad pusssy for those guys no matter how hard they try to
claim it. DJ is worth twice the price of any douche. Being cool is about being genuine and real which a douche isn't. People on here seem to have problems with Language in general.

 

[The Assistant]

I am tired of saying this over and over again - douche is till a chump! no mad pusssy for those guys no matter how hard they try to
claim it. DJ is worth twice the price of any douche. Being cool is about being genuine and real which a douche isn't. People on here seem to have problems with Language in general.

how do you know they aren't having sex? Because all I ever see is hot girls being all over them at clubs, malls, ect.

 

[Young_gun73]

You guys are missing the point.

The point I am trying to make is that whether your a douchebag, a jerk, a show-off, a geek, a nerd, or a don juan----different women have their perceptions of what they find attractive.

YOU CANNOT BASE IT OFF THIS SITE ALONE. SOME GUYS HAVE IT AND OTHERS GUYS DONT.

I found that GOODLOOKS, WEALTH AND FAME ARE THE ULTIMATE TOOLS IN GETTING HB10'S However, that is not realistic for regular guys who are somewhat attractive, make a decent income and live modestly.
If does not matter whether you are a douchebag or a don juan --- it comes down to two things: Self-Esteem and Self-Confidence. That's what ALL those males possess. You can have those two qualities too.

I just gave you the answer.

 

[PapiChulo]

If does not matter whether you are a douchebag or a don juan --- it comes down to two things: Self-Esteem and Self-Confidence.

That's exactly what these types lack as I ve previously stated. Their egos are dependent on the reaction they get from other people, any reaction for that matter- they live for the drama. It's a male version of AW with histrionic tendencies. They all act! Life is like theater to these people.Their inner child screams out: Look at me, look at me, love me, love the uprated me, etc.


The real confidence comes from within- it's subtle and powerful at the same time. You know you have it when nothing can beat you down now and when you dont feel like putting others down. It's a very attractive thing to have.

 

[PapiChulo]

how do you know they aren't having sex? Because all I ever see is hot girls being all over them at clubs, malls, ect.

The ones you see there are the grand douches and get laid with the AW types. They are outrages and do have money, rides, better bodies and attention. I dont see why they would not get laid.

It's your regular average penniless Hyundai-driving douche that does not get any, yet brags about how he gets mad pus*y.

 

[The Assistant]

The ones you see there are the grand douches and get laid with the AW types. They are outrages and do have money, rides, better bodies and attention. I dont see why they would not get laid.

It's your regular average penniless Hyundai-driving douche that does not get any, yet brags about how he gets mad pus*y.

well listen, it doesn't matter how a guy looks or acts like in this case.

If he isn't getting laid, and he lies about getting laid, then he's a loser no matter how he looks and acts.

Guys in general who lie about having success with girls are complete LOSERS - it is in no way limited to the guys that you think look like "douches" (a word I don't condone being used in the first place)

 

[Young_gun73]

Are you saying that guys who drive crappy cars do not get laid?

I dated a girl who drove a 2008 corvette and I drove a crappy 1998 Honda Civic and nailed her every night in her hotel room for 3 nights straight. She even let me drive her corvette when we went out.

I also nailed a flight attendant a month later and she did not mind my Civic either.

I do not think it matters what car you drive.

 

[PapiChulo]

Are you saying that guys who drive crappy cars do not get laid?

I dated a girl who drove a 2008 corvette and I drove a crappy 1998 Honda Civic and nailed her every night in her hotel room for 3 nights straight. She even let me drive her corvette when we went out.

I also nailed a flight attendant a month later and she did not mind my Civic either.

I do not think it matters what car you drive.

Man, you just dont get it, do you?


P.S. having read that "women manipulated me tread" of yours, you are a complete douche. How is that working for you?

 

[Young_gun73]

It will start working when you wipe the c*m off your face and get off your knees.

JERK.

 

[Twenty-Two Two's]

I am tired of saying this over and over again - douche is till a chump! no mad pusssy for those guys no matter how hard they try to
claim it. DJ is worth twice the price of any douche. Being cool is about being genuine and real which a douche isn't. People on here seem to have problems with Language in general.

Irony. You have at least four grammar mistakes in this post alone.