Don Juan Bootcamp

[SSJ]

hey guys, i think ill have to quit this bootcamp for now, the town where i live (in Holland) just isnt big enough, and i can hardly get 50 ECs( they just dont look at you) let alone finish stuff in the later stages, i will try my best to follow the bootcamp, to atleast try and raise my confidence, but as for finishing it, i doubt i can.
cheers

 

[AlexLefty]

What the fvck speak, if you don't update this today, then tomorrow, I'm taking over.

 

[SPEAK]

Sorry guys I have been extremely busy, I have had 4 concerts in one week and have not slept in over 48 hours. I have to make money and school as a top priority. I think I can get it posted tonight however.

 

[E_Sex]

Yeah I was wondering like Speak wtfff lol, because I have completed week 2. Im not trippin, I want my full 7 days though. Im ready to get cracking at week 3.

Also for everybody wondering, the date went well, didn't k-close thought like I'd hoped but there's gunna be a second date next week, so I'm gunna make it happen then.

Also as far as dressing goes, I have a picture of my outfit today and a pic from facebook, so you can get an idea of what I do with my clothes, and I usually get a lot of compliments from girls about my clothes. Also I think shoes are the most important part of an outfit and you can see in the one picture that I do have a lot of them haha.

http://i138.photobucket.com/albums/q259/erock0216/SDC10915-1.jpg
http://i138.photobucket.com/albums/q259/erock0216/34125_455907983832_655993832_5929580_789667_n.jpg
http://i138.photobucket.com/albums/q259/erock0216/SDC10917.jpg

Oh and for cologne, I like to use the same cologne, but a very little bit of it, so girls can only smell it when they hug me, and then they get an idea of my scent, so they think of me whenever they smell something good or something like that. I learned that on like the discovery channel or something haha

 

[camel7000]

well im somewhat new to this sight, and want to get into the bootcamp as well, maybe i can jsut follow along since im pretty late?

 

[SPEAK]

Ok some quick results. I got all my conversations with everyone, except for the damn mail man/ delivery guy. Couldn't find one (but I guess I never went looking for him.) Anyway, while selling tickets had a ton of conversations with hot girls, homeless guys, freestyle rapped with a few black guys, had a really long conversation with a cop :nervous: and had a blast making money.

OK NOW TO BUSINESS.

Week 3

Congratulations on week 2 recruits! Most of us got close, but no one finished the entire week. We are slacking (myself included.) We are approaching the 3rd week slump that I have never gotten passed. I just get bored with it and I feel like I am already WAY ahead of all my peers so I figure whats the point? Well fvck that. We can always better ourselves and excuses are for losers. I am sorry to say that but I am seeing a lot of u fvckers dropping out for lame ass reasons. Like seriously SSJ, there aren't 11 strangers in your town? Come on man, just because "its hard to get eye contact" doesnt give you a reason to quit. This is supposed to be hard.

We live in a society where we are conditioned to be pu55ys from the day we are born. Nothing in life is 'easy' or free, accept that and man up. LETS GO!

Alright for real now, this week we will use our conversation skills that we developed last week. We will be having conversations with girls we would WANT to date. And guys be honest, who wants to date fvcking Rosie O'Donell when you can date Jessica Biel? You better be out there talking to hotties or at least decent looking girls.

I myself am scared to do this. Approaching a hot girl, who seem to never be alone, in public is a scary and daunting task for ALL of us on this forum, and for most guys in life. But seriously, whats the difference between having a conversation with a hot girl and having one with the homeless guy from week 2?

Ever hear the saying, "its all in your head" well this applies here. I know that it is easier said than done, because I give myself these pep talks and then find myself pu55ying out. But there is nothing stopping you from talking to that girl accept your own fears from your own lack of confidence. Two things that have no physical control over you. Fear cannot physically glue your feet to the floor and tie you to your chair and make you watch porno on saturday night.

You have to want it and you have to work for it. Just forget everything and walk right at her. When you get to her you will magically know what to say, guaranteed. And if you dont, who cares it will be funny right?

Instructions Week 3:

• Read Week 3
• Reread Week 3
• Read Field exercise and visualize all conversations.
• Do field exercise.
• Post results

Field Exercise Week 3:

The purpose of this exercise is to have conversations with girls that you would want to date. So HOT girls, or at least HB 6's. Please you're a stud right? Date a girl accordingly

• Have 8 two minute convos with hot girls.
• 2 rejections. Do whatever to get flat out rejected by a hot girl. Ex: Go up to strange girl and ask to homecoming.
  
  ******OPTIONAL********
  
• Start a convo with a girl at your school by bumping into her.
• Start a convo with a girl by looking at her and saying, "Hey, don't I know you?!"

P.S All conversations must be at LEAST 2 minutes long, except for the rejection. I reccomend the mall to find hot girls.

GOOD LUCK recruits, and if you want you can pm me and we can exchange contact info so I can call you on your cell phone and give you a verbal ass kicking to help you get in gear!


Peace out,

Speak

 

[Kevansta]

Dude this is the part I've been both dreading and looking forward to. I have no issue making conversation with strangers. I just can't seem to ever get it right with attractive girls unless I happen to be in that 'Don Juan' state of mind. But this time, I'm gonna go through with it and see where it gets me.

I'm definitely excited for tomorrow now.

 

[SPEAK]

Dude this is the part I've been both dreading and looking forward to. I have no issue making conversation with strangers. I just can't seem to ever get it right with attractive girls unless I happen to be in that 'Don Juan' state of mind. But this time, I'm gonna go through with it and see where it gets me.

I'm definitely excited for tomorrow now.

I know what you're talking about. I always bail at this point. Haha lets make week 3 our b1tch!

 

[AlexLefty]

• Have 5 two minute convos with hot girls at mall.
• Start a convo with a girl at your school by bumping into her.
• Start a convo with a girl by looking at her and saying, "Hey, don't I know you?!"
• 2 freestyle approaches and convos wherever u want.
• 2 rejections. Do whatever to get flat out rejected by a hot girl. Ex: Go up to strange girl and ask to homecoming.

Oh sh1t, weak three babay! I must admit that we all got a little sluggish during week 2. MY totals are.

Totals
* 2 Elderly people - Two
* 1 Delivery person (mail,ups,pizza)
* 1 Gas station worker - One
* 1 couple (Couple counts as 1 person) - One
* 1 Black Person - One
* 1 Homeless person
* 1 cute girl (outside of school) - Close! I've tried lots but its no good so far
* 2 cute girls (In your school) - Two
* 2 convos with whatever strangers you want! - Two

However Speak, I think you should re-arrange the exercises for week 3. Part of the problem with week 2 was that there were too many specifics. How is speaking SPECIFICALLY to a MAIL MAN going to help me with girls? Its just the same to speak to a mail man or someone at the bus stop. Don't get too caught up with editing the boot camp. Stay on the road provided by the boot camp, that's why it's there. Having the goal to simply speak to 10 datable girls, makes a lot more sense and is a lot easier on the mind for most people. Having all these specifics takes up too much unnecessary time.
Anyways, that's what I'm doing.

Good luck everyone.

 

[SPEAK]

Oh sh1t, weak three babay! I must admit that we all got a little sluggish during week 2. MY totals are.

Totals
* 2 Elderly people - Two
* 1 Delivery person (mail,ups,pizza)
* 1 Gas station worker - One
* 1 couple (Couple counts as 1 person) - One
* 1 Black Person - One
* 1 Homeless person
* 1 cute girl (outside of school) - Close! I've tried lots but its no good so far
* 2 cute girls (In your school) - Two
* 2 convos with whatever strangers you want! - Two

However Speak, I think you should re-arrange the exercises for week 3. Part of the problem with week 2 was that there were too many specifics. How is speaking SPECIFICALLY to a MAIL MAN going to help me with girls? Its just the same to speak to a mail man or someone at the bus stop. Don't get too caught up with editing the boot camp. Stay on the road provided by the boot camp, that's why it's there. Having the goal to simply speak to 10 datable girls, makes a lot more sense and is a lot easier on the mind for most people. Having all these specifics takes up too much unnecessary time.
Anyways, that's what I'm doing.

Good luck everyone.

Alex, the problem with following what is laid out in the plan is that people get lazy. People think to themselves, "10 hot girls, whatever I can just make that happen as I go throughout my day." Ya right. They will all forget about it and by the time the last day rolls around will say "fvck it." I've been on sosuave for a while (my 1 year aniversary of being a lurker is next week) and I have seen multiple boot camp threads go through. If we stick to it with the generals, most people will drop out because they think it will be easy and they dont think about. Thats why specifics are so important because it actually makes u think about it, which keeps people involved in the training.

I am not trying to be a douche but if you truly want to succeed with girls you will do stuff that gets you out of your comfort zone and you must be dedicated. And I find it hard to believe that having to remember only 2 ways to start a conversation is hard on the mind. We are in high school, we do hard sh1t everyday. This is simple stuff guys. Come on now.

 

[BYOB]

Well, I am ashamed at how lazy I got in week two, I'm don't feel as driven as I was in the first week for some reason.

My total would be
* 2 Elderly people - One
* 1 Delivery person (mail,ups,pizza)
* 1 Gas station worker
* 1 couple (Couple counts as 1 person)
* 1 Black Person
* 1 Homeless person - Done
* 1 cute girl (outside of school) Done
* 2 cute girls (In your school) Done
* 2 convos with whatever strangers you want! Done

I could have done any of the ones I didn't do but I got lazy.
I'm worried about me bailing out because you guys seem much more committed than me in regards to this boot camp.
By the way speak, I know what your trying to do with the specifics and all, but instead of eliminating the original plan, you should just leave it there as an option. Making it too specific will give people an excuse not to do it because they "couldn't find a mailman" or they "don't go to malls", I'm not saying don't change it, i''m just saying do what you did with week 1. Put the original plan for the "newbies" and put the modified one for the "pros". I'm going to attempt what you've posted, but I will also do what the original boot camp had planned, so I don't have to worry about finding situations to do some openers. I will also try to finish what I missed in week 2. I should be able to do this since I'm playing a show this week!
Good luck guys

 

[AlexLefty]

If we stick to it with the generals, most people will drop out because they think it will be easy and they dont think about. Thats why specifics are so important because it actually makes u think about it, which keeps people involved in the training.

Im going to agree with BYOB on this one. Making it TOO specific can have the same effect. People may think, 'this is too hard, i don't go to the mall'. And most people WILL drop out, just look at how many people dropped out after or during week two. The specifics apparently didn't help them as much as you intended. The only person I'm worried about dropping out here however is myself, and you, because we have both put a lot of mental time and energy into this. Either way, specifics or not, we need to make sure we DON'T drop out

But back to the point. What if I get 2 convos at the library and 3 convos at the mall? Do the convos at the library not count just because they weren't at a mall. I think they most certainly should! Without keeping this stupid and gay argument going, I think the specifics should just be a GUIDELINE, something to help you and to get ideas. If you happen to get 3 at the mall and 1 at school and 6 at a coffee shop, then you're done. So, maybe we should TRY to complete it by following the guidelines, but there is also a large margin where we can do it on our own terms. The ULTIMATE goal should be to get those 10 convos in.

BYOB has a good idea too, in terms of the more pro/less pro options like you crafted in week 1. Those we actually really good.

And I find it hard to believe that having to remember only 2 ways to start a conversation is hard on the mind.

I don't know what you mean by this

 

[SPEAK]

Okay I agree with you guys. Sorry about the earlier post I was overtired and cranky haha.


I will remove the two specifics and just say 8 convos and 2 rejections. The other 2 will be optional.

UPDATED FIELD EXERCISE WEEK 3

* Have 8 two minute convos with hot girls.
* 2 rejections. Do whatever to get flat out rejected by a hot girl. Ex: Go up to strange girl and ask to homecoming.

******OPTIONAL********

* Start a convo with a girl at your school by bumping into her.
* Start a convo with a girl by looking at her and saying, "Hey, don't I know you?!"

 

[AlexLefty]

WEEK 3 Day 1

Aight good **** Speak

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Con Start: 9
Con End: 9

9:00 AM - During 1st period I have had the intention to talk to this chick who is always eye fvcking the sh1t out of me, but I always pvssy out. I'd always try to talk to her after class, but she'd be too speedy and I'd loose her in the crowd. Not this time though. As we left class she got way ahead of me, which is why I usually pussed out, but I went quickly this time, got next to her in the halls and said, "what's up" smooth sailing from there with some kino


That's all I got today, but FVCK YEAH, I GOT ONE! It especially makes me happy because I've been trying to talk to this chick for a while. Fvck yeah :cheer:

 

[E_Sex]

So far I've got 2 convos down, 0 rejections though.

First one was at this sneaker trade event, I went to her and was like "Thats a nice jacket" and then she complimented me onmy jacket and convo from there on got her name a lil bit of kino, and told her id add her on fb, n left.

Second one was today at school, this one girl who'd been eyeing me acouple a days a go was talking to one of my friends n i said wassup to him n then completely walked off with her n had a convo wit her.

 

[AlexLefty]

I'll send u a picture of my outfit tomorrow, its got some crazy colors but still stylin and hip hop.

??? What happened to that brotha

Also, I wanted to get a recap on all the REAL men, who are still in here, and all the fvcking pvssys that quit.

Still in:
Myself
SPEAK
ESex
Tiesto???

I commend you guys so far! Except for chris because he didn't post results for today! Post something good or bad!

Also Esex, did you do the first 2 weeks in 1 week?


Goodnight playas

 

[SPEAK]

totally forgot about that but I did get a picture with a homeless guy that I had a conversation with. You can see the top of my outfit, but the shorts were the epic part of the outfit

How do I upload a picture?

 

[Big Poppa]

In on this. Do I start with week 1?

 

[MrP]

Oh cool. Had a convo this morning and I didn't even know that was the challenge yet.

1/8 Girls
0/2 REJECTIONS!

And 1 Question. Would it be a good idea do this challenge in school? Maybe not the rejection part though.

 

[E_Sex]

Man this isnt going as well as Id hoped but I've only got 3 so far, Im hoping this weekend will be the big turnaround for me since I cant do too much going out on school days.

Also Esex, did you do the first 2 weeks in 1 week?

Haha yes I did, wasn't that hard though since they kind of corresponded with each other and week1 is really easy.