Don Juan Bootcamp

SSJ

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2010
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
im not gonna try finishing 2 weeks in 4 days, im happy if i can finish week 1 in 4 days :p

week1 day 2

its hard to get ppl to lock eyes with you i notice, they have the tendency to look away.
first i went to school and at the locker room i had 2 eye contacts in which i didnt look away first
afterschool i went and sat down to eat something in the city center while sitting and waiting for my food i got 3 eye contacts with ppl that passed the sitting area, all of which i didnt look away first and finally when coming back i've had 1 more eye contact but for some reason i looked away first.

so the total is now 9 eye contacts and 1 hi.
 

Kevansta

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 16, 2010
Messages
44
Reaction score
0
SPEAK said:
Hey thats awesome man, its good that you are working on being more outgoing! But the point of this exercise is to get you out of your comfort zone, and therefor you must go find STRANGERS. People you have never seen before, and have conversations with them!
Nah, that was just random side banter. I didn't count him as my gas station guy.

I had a conversation with the worker at a gas station/subway type thing though when I went out for lunch. It was about two minutes and just about some random stuff about the students that usually line up to go there. Then after practice today, I had a 5-6 minute conversation with my coach. This is rare for me since I usually never talk to coaches, but it went really smoothly. I'm not counting it as anything since he's not really a stranger, but I felt good after that.

I realized that the littlest things can give you a huge confidence boost. Today, I finally realized that someone that was in my social circle, essentially the alpha of the group, was trying to use me. Long story, but in short he wanted me to pay him money for some stupid **** that I didn't even want to do while he still owed me money. I pretty much told him that I wasn't gonna give him the money and I'd do my own thing. The kid tried to talk **** to me for the rest of the day (and got some of his little betas) to do the same thing, but I just took it in stride and for the rest of the day I had a little smirk on my face. I've been in a great mood ever since, just talking to whoever I see and being generally upbeat. It's not part of the boot camp, but I'm gonna use every day to become more of an alpha, and that starts with no longer taking anyone elses ****.

Totals
* 2 Elderly people
* 1 Delivery person (mail,ups,pizza)
* 1 Gas station worker - One
* 1 couple (Couple counts as 1 person)
* 1 Black Person
* 1 Homeless person
* 1 cute girl (outside of school) - Two
* 2 cute girls (In your school) - One
* 2 convos with whatever strangers you want! - One[/QUOTE]
 

E_Sex

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2010
Messages
63
Reaction score
1
Location
Chicago
So today went pretty well in my opinion.

20 eye contact/hellos in school: 12

30 eye contact/hellos outside of school: 15


So I got a couple of my conversations in and boy were they something, but I think I managed to work my game on these everyday people pretty well, just gotta incorporate it into some HBs, listen to these tales:

This one HB8 that I know pretty well wanted to smoke with me during lunch, and I wasn't going to let her down. So when we went out to get a blunt, I had to ask this black guy to get it for me. At first, he was pretty unreceptive and started lecturing me, telling me about his son who's my age, but I kept my cool and maintained EC, I then explained my half of everything to him, about my views on smoking and we had a deep conversation and he ended up buying the blunt. win. Black guy down.

Then I parked my car in a residential reserved area for 5 frickin minutes! I come back and this old couple has parked their car in front of mine and when I approach them, they told me that they already called a tow truck and that Im not going anywhere until it gets there, naturally I'm not letting this happen. I put my game face on and explain that my lunch is almost over and that they seem like nice people, and that the tow truck will be fine if you call it before it gets here. They mover their car, I get out of there. win. Couple down.

I'm walking through the halls at school and this HB8.5 that I don't really know but we know each other kind of, I make EC say hey and give her a hug and we just start talking about life. Cute girl in school down.

* 2 Elderly people
* 1 Delivery person (mail,ups,pizza)
* 1 Gas station worker
* 1 couple (Couple counts as 1 person) done
* 1 Black Person done
* 1 Homeless person
* 1 cute girl (outside of school) done
* 2 cute girls (In your school)
* 2 convos with whatever strangers you want!

I didn't know if I wanted to count the elderly couple as an elderly person or the couple but for now Im going to count them as a couple. I've still got a ways to go to get this bootcamp done on time, and I've got a date on friday! I've gotta hurry.
 

SPEAK

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 22, 2009
Messages
153
Reaction score
15
E_Sex said:
So today went pretty well in my opinion.

20 eye contact/hellos in school: 12

30 eye contact/hellos outside of school: 15


So I got a couple of my conversations in and boy were they something, but I think I managed to work my game on these everyday people pretty well, just gotta incorporate it into some HBs, listen to these tales:

This one HB8 that I know pretty well wanted to smoke with me during lunch, and I wasn't going to let her down. So when we went out to get a blunt, I had to ask this black guy to get it for me. At first, he was pretty unreceptive and started lecturing me, telling me about his son who's my age, but I kept my cool and maintained EC, I then explained my half of everything to him, about my views on smoking and we had a deep conversation and he ended up buying the blunt. win. Black guy down.

Then I parked my car in a residential reserved area for 5 frickin minutes! I come back and this old couple has parked their car in front of mine and when I approach them, they told me that they already called a tow truck and that Im not going anywhere until it gets there, naturally I'm not letting this happen. I put my game face on and explain that my lunch is almost over and that they seem like nice people, and that the tow truck will be fine if you call it before it gets here. They mover their car, I get out of there. win. Couple down.

I'm walking through the halls at school and this HB8.5 that I don't really know but we know each other kind of, I make EC say hey and give her a hug and we just start talking about life. Cute girl in school down.

* 2 Elderly people
* 1 Delivery person (mail,ups,pizza)
* 1 Gas station worker
* 1 couple (Couple counts as 1 person) done
* 1 Black Person done
* 1 Homeless person
* 1 cute girl (outside of school) done
* 2 cute girls (In your school)
* 2 convos with whatever strangers you want!

I didn't know if I wanted to count the elderly couple as an elderly person or the couple but for now Im going to count them as a couple. I've still got a ways to go to get this bootcamp done on time, and I've got a date on friday! I've gotta hurry.


Holy sh1t. What douche bag old people, haha. And way to go by the way, you took on all those problems easily and like an alpha! I too need to get my ass in gear and get this bootcamp finished.
 

SSJ

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2010
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
week1-day 3
i can hardly get to lock eyes with ppl, they just dont look at you, but atm i've gotten 3 eye contacts, i went to the city center instead of staying at home like i usually do to try and get some eye contacts.
--------
went to McDonald's today and got 3 ECs( 2 of which cute girls) i didnt look away first, but one of them almost developed into a staring contest , good thing she looked away frist. and another who sat just behind me i even had a quick convo ( around 30 sec, nothing big orso, but im proud of it anyway :p)
-------
after Mcdonald's i went to a movie with my friends, there i had another 2 ECs i think.. so in total today i've had 17 ECs and 1 hi.
 

Nino-Tk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 16, 2009
Messages
628
Reaction score
6
Age
31
Location
South Africa, Johannesburg
Wow man today was a good day, on my way home, i was on a mini bus and an HB 8 was sitting next to me, then a song about sex by R.kelly started playing.I looked at her and I smiled, she is like 'what?' in a funny tone, I ask her who this song reminds her of...she laughs and tosses the question back, I tease her about being unfair.Then we chat and i got to know her, at one point she took out her cutex and I playfully demanded to apply it for her..lots of kino because I was holding her hand, ofcourse I made a mess on her nail, but I got her digits anyway.later that day I got rejected by a 3 set.
 

BYOB

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 1, 2010
Messages
25
Reaction score
0
Well, I got one more cute girl in and the two strangers done, all in school spare and talking to strangers close to my locker. I've tried the worker conversation thing, but usually they are occupied and theres a line behind me. I'll try it later when its not lunch at my school. Not sure how I'm gonna go about with the delivery person.

* 2 Elderly people
* 1 Delivery person (mail,ups,pizza)
* 1 Gas station worker
* 1 couple (Couple counts as 1 person)
* 1 Black Person
* 1 Homeless person
* 1 cute girl (outside of school) Done
* 2 cute girls (In your school) 1 done
* 2 convos with whatever strangers you want! Done
 

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
756
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
Well fvckin sh1t balls. Some of you guys have got this going pretty good. I, myself, need to get in FVCKING GEAR! It's just that I've been so busy with school and work lately (i've still got about 3 hours of studying tonight) that I haven't been able to get much done. I was going to go to another gas station today, but the time just flew by. Now I'm sitting here thinking, sh1t.

I had a chance to start a convo with a chick where I looked at her and we smiled to eachother, but I didn't even think about going over to talk for some reason. I just kept walking lol, but lesson learned for next time:woo: I did get a good convo in yesterday though with a guy at gamestop when I was picking up halo reach so there's my other stranger. I've decided to go to the library after school tomorrow to get atleast half of these convos done.

Also, does anyone have any good ideas on how to ask a chick to home comming? I mean creative ideas, but nothing too serious or that's too much work, just like a cute saying/line to go along with a piece of candy or something. Anything anyone?



Totals
* 2 Elderly people
* 1 Delivery person (mail,ups,pizza)
* 1 Gas station worker - Half
* 1 couple (Couple counts as 1 person)
* 1 Black Person
* 1 Homeless person
* 1 cute girl (outside of school)
* 2 cute girls (In your school)
* 2 convos with whatever strangers you want! - Two
 

E_Sex

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2010
Messages
63
Reaction score
1
Location
Chicago
Dammit i do not know how Im going to finish this in time. I had alot of spontaneous convos today but with HBs around school n random ppl, just to practice but nonw of them fell into the categories lol, I mean a couple did, like the anybody strangers n cute girls in school. I cant find any cute girls outside school lol. Almost done with my week 1 half though. I got my gas station guy when I filled up my tank today, even though it was really forced, because he didn't seem to keep wanting to talk.

20 EC/Hi in school: done

30 EC/Hi outside school: 21 (So many ppl avoid my eyes, its not even funny)

Totals
* 2 Elderly people
* 1 Delivery person (mail,ups,pizza)
* 1 Gas station worker - done
* 1 couple (Couple counts as 1 person) done
* 1 Black Person done
* 1 Homeless person
* 1 cute girl (outside of school)
* 2 cute girls (In your school) done
* 2 convos with whatever strangers you want! - done

Damn I've got to get these done tomorrow, because I've got a date friday and I know I wont be able to get cute girl outside school while Im on the date. then I need to find some old people, a delivery person, and a homeless person :eek:
 

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
756
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
SPEAK said:
Haha I made these people to have convos with and I'm sitting here thinking SH1T as well. Thank god I am selling tickets tomorrow, otherwise i'd be fvcked.
Yeah fvck you boy, you got a lucky advantage. :trouble:

Yo also I wanted to show you guys my new kicks that I got a few days ago. I wore them today and got so many compliments on how fresh and good I looked (the rest of by outfit was fly too). Since this year, I've been addicted to dressing to impressing, you guys should all get in the habit.

http://www.eastbay.com/product/model:129480/sku:38145003/?supercat=home&cm=GLOBAL%20SEARCH:%20PRODUCT%20NUMBER%20SEARCH I recommend these shoes hands down. Be jealous boys

Back to studying lol
 

SPEAK

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 22, 2009
Messages
153
Reaction score
15
Alex like every other week I wear a tie to school complete with sick kicks nice pants and shirt.


I always dress crazy and awesome I get so many compliments on my wardrobe, its a good confidence booster.

I'll send u a picture of my outfit tomorrow, its got some crazy colors but still stylin and hip hop.


Peace

SPEAK
 

SSJ

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2010
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
week1-day 4
not much today, was slacking quite a bit, got around 2 ECs at school( 1 of which a cute girl) and 3 while at the gas station, also in the gas station 1 hi.

so grand total for now is 2 HI's and 23 ECs
 

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
756
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
WEEK 2 Day 7

Nino-Tk said:
whats cracking hommies? Well guys im not quitting the bootcamp, but im taking a break from Sosuave for a while, I will be back.Goodluck fellow soldiers!
Wtf is this about

------------
Today was kind of a mixed day, but a lot of experience so pretty good I guess. I took tracks down the the library and mingled there for a while, here's my journal.

Confidence Start: 9
Confidence End: 9

3:49 PM - Just had a conversation with a black dude at the train station, he was from an island off of Madagascar and didn't speak that good of english, but it was a good convo.

4:06 - Just had a convo with a chick at the library but it probably was 1 min 30 secs (actually it was about 2 mins, but I'm not guna count it), too short and a little akward, I can do better

4:20 [:crackup:] -
Am just talking to this older guy, who's kind of depressed and a little weird, but a good long convo none the less. Probably a 25 minute long convo and boy was the guy a pessimistic bastard

4:40 - Still trying to get that cute chick outside of HS, and I thought this chick I started talking to went to college but it ended up she went to high school, and after a lil she bailed because her parking meter was running out. Probably a min long convo, and I should have number closed, it would have been so easy to do because her highschool plays my highschool in football tomorrow. It seemed she was defiantly interested and wanted me to get her number as she was leaving. I just didn't think about the highschool thing until after... Fvck me, but I learned some good stuff

5:14 - Tried to get one in with an old guy, but he was not very receptive, fvck me. Fvck this library, I'm out of here

5:30 - On the way back to trax I talked with a couple, mostly the guy, but I tried to get the girl involved too but she wasn't very responsive, please count it!

5:35 - On trax I started talking to this old lady for about two minutes then she had to get off to go to smiths

5:40 - Talked to another guy after the old lady left for the rest of the way on trax. He actually started the convo lol, for once someone did but me!

5:45 - Right now I'm sitting next to this asian chick at the bus stop, but she has ear phones in and doesn't look like she wants to talk. She saw her friend across the street and started speaking asian to her. Any suggestions of what to do in this situation? Specifically like earphones and stuff.

Totals
* 2 Elderly people - Two
* 1 Delivery person (mail,ups,pizza)
* 1 Gas station worker - Half
* 1 couple (Couple counts as 1 person) - One
* 1 Black Person - One
* 1 Homeless person
* 1 cute girl (outside of school) - Close! I've tried lots but its no good so far
* 2 cute girls (In your school)
* 2 convos with whatever strangers you want! - Two

Damn this sh1t is hard, how are you guys doing? And speak, put those pics up, I'd like some tips on how to increase my style. Like I want to wear one of those dress button up shirts, but what do I wear with them.

Yo I forgot to say that I also number closed this chick today. About a 7.5 +.5 for personality, and then -.5 again for being Mormon, so a 7.5 :up:. But how it happened was I used the throw away compliment technique on her like a week or two ago, and then haven't talked to her much since, and then after class today I was talking to her and how she still plays tennis (i used to talk to this chick a little bit like 5 years ago) and how I've always wanted to learn (lie) and it ended with her saying she should teach me. I got her number, didn't say I'd call her though, but when I do, I'll probably just set up a bowling thing or something. Good yeah?

Good luck guys

:moon:
 

BYOB

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 1, 2010
Messages
25
Reaction score
0
I only got one conversation in this list on here today, and that was another cute girl in school. Probably getting the homeless one tomorrow since I'm going to be out in town. I guess I should just sit beside an elderly person on the bus and see what happens. Still don't have a clue how I will do the delivery person one. I did converse with other people, but none of them were on the the list! :down:

Totals
* 2 Elderly people
* 1 Delivery person (mail,ups,pizza)
* 1 Gas station worker
* 1 couple (Couple counts as 1 person)
* 1 Black Person
* 1 Homeless person
* 1 cute girl (outside of school) Done
* 2 cute girls (In your school) Done
* 2 convos with whatever strangers you want! Done
 

E_Sex

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2010
Messages
63
Reaction score
1
Location
Chicago
So I got a couple done, but not nearly enough to finish in time I don't think, there's akways tommorow hopefully I can somehow get those in.

Also Im told Im one of the best dressed in my school so if u need help with dressing smooth, I got you, Ill post some pics one of these days :up:

Also Ive got that date tomorrow and Ill be sure to let you guys know how that went.

20 EC/Hi in school: done

30 EC/Hi outside school: done

Totals
* 2 Elderly people
* 1 Delivery person (mail,ups,pizza)
* 1 Gas station worker - done
* 1 couple (Couple counts as 1 person) done
* 1 Black Person done
* 1 Homeless person done
* 1 cute girl (outside of school)
* 2 cute girls (In your school) done
* 2 convos with whatever strangers you want! - done
 

SSJ

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2010
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
week 1 day 5
not much to report today, wanted to go to the pub with my friends but they didn't feel like and im not at the stage yet of being able to go alone to the pub :p
i had 1 hello after work, 3 eye contacts at school and i accually started talking to 2 cute girls at school, but im not gonna count them towards week 2 seeing as i didnt even start it yet
 

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
756
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
E_Sex said:
Also Im told Im one of the best dressed in my school so if u need help with dressing smooth, I got you, Ill post some pics one of these days :up:
done
Yeah lets see it, I always love getting good tips!

My tips are:
Variety is very important. By variety, I mean not being predictable, because if you're predictable, then you're BORING! So, don't wear jeans every day. I have a system where I wear cargo shorts mondays, b ball shorts tuesdays, jeans wednsdays, plaid shorts thursdays, and whatever I want on fridays (usually jeans). If people can't predict what you're going to wear, then you're a mystery, and we all love mysterys (especially the girls). Same thing goes with calogne, don't wear the same stuff all the time.
 
Top