I don't know about you guys, but when I read the DJ Bible, I knew I wouldn't be able to retain and remember every single thing I read. So I started taking notes, for every post written in the bible I would at least write down one tip or one lesson. The Don Juan Bible Condensed only contains Chapter C through Chapter F, which are the longest and strenuous chapters. I categorized the tips based on what they really were about, so if you find a tip that you think belongs in a different category, which I don't think you will, please say so. This is more of the what than the how, so I would still recommend reading the entire DJ Bible if you're new because it explains in more detail and has the how. Some tips will contradict others - thus is the way of the DJ Bible.
Chapter C
(Step 4: Field Practice in New DJ Bible. )
Benefits of Pursuing/Dating More Than one Woman
-) You don't become obsessed with one girl, she will not become overly important to you.
-) You can gauge which girl is more fun to be around.
-) If a girl bails on you, you have a backup.
-) It's great practice.
-) It makes it easier to approach new girls; if she rejects you, so what? You're seeing someone.
-) Forget the AFC approach of being exclusive with one woman.
Make Her Friend Love You
-) Don't ignore the friend, give her some attention and she will love you for it.
-) Treat them both with respect, the friend is watching you like a hawk.
-) Become friends with her friends, esp. if attempting a LTR with her.
Tips for Conversation
-) Listen - listen to what she's telling you!
-)When talking to girls, talk to them about them.
-) Go for the number, go for the date.
-) Don't talk about yourself, focus the conversation on her interests. Exception: "I hate that too."
-) Don't be afraid to disagree, but certainly don't look for disagreements.
-) When you get their name, use it constantly - they think their name is important.
-) Kino quickly changes a conversation that is going o.k. to a hot flirtation.
-) Give unique complements.
Patience and Self-Control (LTR)
-) Come on too strong, you'll scare her off.
-) Don't rush things; don't rush for commitment or kiss too soon.
-) Don't fall in love too soon, don't let her know where she stands with you; make her wonder.
Get the Mindset
-) You're the prize, make a list of all your good qualities and soon you'll see why.
-) "I don't care what happens, she is just practice for the next girl."
-) Lose any expectations you have.
-) Consider yourself a prize and you're only worthy of the best.
-) If you have an image in your head - stick to it-, you will become it.
-) Women are never the priority. They take the backseat to you.
-) Think on your feet and don't care too much how you look.
You..
-) ..Make it happen! DO NOT wait for something to happen for you to meet women.
-) ..Must take chances when approaching women, don't let the fear hold you back.
-) ..Need to have the right attitude, attained by confidence.
-) ..Will fail at first, but in the end you will be a better man and have better life
On Interest
-) If a girl seems unwilling to give you her number or go on a date, MOVE ON.
-) If a woman likes you, she will usually make it clear she does!
-) Once you know she is interested, play hard to get.
-) Don't ignore signs that she's not into you; you'll end up getting hurt.
Avoiding Falling Back into AFC'hood
-) Keep doing whatever you were doing before you met her.
-) Don't give up something for her.
-) SHE isn't YOUR priority.
-) Never beg, never give in out of fear of losing her; there's more where she came from.
-) The DJ quest is for you and you alone, you MUST resist falling back into old habits.
-)Persistence always prevails in meeting women- DO NOT let temporary setbacks defeat you.
-) Practice talking to any girl, even ones you are aren't interested in.
-)Be the host, go socialize with everyone.
On Dating
-)Her schedule should not dictate yours.
-) Don't be afraid to stand up to her from time to time and say no.
-) DJs know not every girl is worth dating.
-) Make yourself more unavailable. Limit yourself as an available choice.
-) Don't ask to become exclusive with her first.
-) Pay attention to what a woman does, not what she says.
Initiating Conversation
-) Establish eye contact.
-) Smile.
-) Approach & start a conversation.
-) Apply subtle kino as necessary
-) Observe/Comment on something she has/wearing/doing, broaden the topic after.
-) Give unique complements.
-) Start observing to see if she is a fast/slow paced mover, then use to your advantage.
-) Make eye contact, smile, wave, if she smiles and waves back, than approach.
General
-) Motioning for her to come to you is demonstration of extreme confidence.( Clubs, etc )
-) Keep her guessing! When she asks you to give/tell her something, tell her to guess.
-) Being a challenge and mysterious will wield benefits.
-) Never go with her and her friends alone. Unless you have a good relationship with them.
-) Forget about all the girls in your past - they will forever see you as what you were.
-) People don't know you the way you know yourself; your actions and appearance speak volumes.
-) When you feel good about yourself, the world will notice.
Go out and improve yourself!
Go out and take action, for God's sake!!
Get up and start taking action, it's not really that bad!
Chapter C
(Step 4: Field Practice in New DJ Bible. )
Benefits of Pursuing/Dating More Than one Woman
-) You don't become obsessed with one girl, she will not become overly important to you.
-) You can gauge which girl is more fun to be around.
-) If a girl bails on you, you have a backup.
-) It's great practice.
-) It makes it easier to approach new girls; if she rejects you, so what? You're seeing someone.
-) Forget the AFC approach of being exclusive with one woman.
Make Her Friend Love You
-) Don't ignore the friend, give her some attention and she will love you for it.
-) Treat them both with respect, the friend is watching you like a hawk.
-) Become friends with her friends, esp. if attempting a LTR with her.
Tips for Conversation
-) Listen - listen to what she's telling you!
-)When talking to girls, talk to them about them.
-) Go for the number, go for the date.
-) Don't talk about yourself, focus the conversation on her interests. Exception: "I hate that too."
-) Don't be afraid to disagree, but certainly don't look for disagreements.
-) When you get their name, use it constantly - they think their name is important.
-) Kino quickly changes a conversation that is going o.k. to a hot flirtation.
-) Give unique complements.
Patience and Self-Control (LTR)
-) Come on too strong, you'll scare her off.
-) Don't rush things; don't rush for commitment or kiss too soon.
-) Don't fall in love too soon, don't let her know where she stands with you; make her wonder.
Get the Mindset
-) You're the prize, make a list of all your good qualities and soon you'll see why.
-) "I don't care what happens, she is just practice for the next girl."
-) Lose any expectations you have.
-) Consider yourself a prize and you're only worthy of the best.
-) If you have an image in your head - stick to it-, you will become it.
-) Women are never the priority. They take the backseat to you.
-) Think on your feet and don't care too much how you look.
You..
-) ..Make it happen! DO NOT wait for something to happen for you to meet women.
-) ..Must take chances when approaching women, don't let the fear hold you back.
-) ..Need to have the right attitude, attained by confidence.
-) ..Will fail at first, but in the end you will be a better man and have better life
On Interest
-) If a girl seems unwilling to give you her number or go on a date, MOVE ON.
-) If a woman likes you, she will usually make it clear she does!
-) Once you know she is interested, play hard to get.
-) Don't ignore signs that she's not into you; you'll end up getting hurt.
Avoiding Falling Back into AFC'hood
-) Keep doing whatever you were doing before you met her.
-) Don't give up something for her.
-) SHE isn't YOUR priority.
-) Never beg, never give in out of fear of losing her; there's more where she came from.
-) The DJ quest is for you and you alone, you MUST resist falling back into old habits.
-)Persistence always prevails in meeting women- DO NOT let temporary setbacks defeat you.
-) Practice talking to any girl, even ones you are aren't interested in.
-)Be the host, go socialize with everyone.
On Dating
-)Her schedule should not dictate yours.
-) Don't be afraid to stand up to her from time to time and say no.
-) DJs know not every girl is worth dating.
-) Make yourself more unavailable. Limit yourself as an available choice.
-) Don't ask to become exclusive with her first.
-) Pay attention to what a woman does, not what she says.
Initiating Conversation
-) Establish eye contact.
-) Smile.
-) Approach & start a conversation.
-) Apply subtle kino as necessary
-) Observe/Comment on something she has/wearing/doing, broaden the topic after.
-) Give unique complements.
-) Start observing to see if she is a fast/slow paced mover, then use to your advantage.
-) Make eye contact, smile, wave, if she smiles and waves back, than approach.
General
-) Motioning for her to come to you is demonstration of extreme confidence.( Clubs, etc )
-) Keep her guessing! When she asks you to give/tell her something, tell her to guess.
-) Being a challenge and mysterious will wield benefits.
-) Never go with her and her friends alone. Unless you have a good relationship with them.
-) Forget about all the girls in your past - they will forever see you as what you were.
-) People don't know you the way you know yourself; your actions and appearance speak volumes.
-) When you feel good about yourself, the world will notice.
Go out and improve yourself!
Go out and take action, for God's sake!!
Get up and start taking action, it's not really that bad!
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