Domination and Popularity

[desert_dweller5]

Does a DJ have to dominate his peers in order to get pvssy and popularity? Do you have to instill fear into your enemies? is it possible to be popular just having people respect you. I have a Learning Difference and that puts me at the bottom of the pack because my LD makes it difficult for me to read body language, because i've failed in so many social situations I'm very afraid and usually submissive because i dont want to be teased. I know this is not a good way to go through life and i'm trying to work it out but its very slow. I hear from this forum, you have to fight to get respect. what about ghandi? what about Jesus? How did they get so much respect and recognition by being NICE??? they were not being the biggest bullies on the block. Do people need to be told through violence that they shouldn't mess with me? that they shouldn't tease me? I dont know what else to do, I'm nice to everyone, 95% of the timie and all i get in return is **** for it. it doesnt make any sense. I hope I'm getting through to some of you.
in essence what i want to know is,
1. do i have to be "hot" to get pvssy?
2. Do i have to beat the sh!t out of every one to get respect?
3. Do i need to be buff or ripped to be a "true" DJ?
4. How do I get girls to come on to me without me promting them in anyway?
5. how important is hygene?
6. How important is hight?
7. How important is status, aka money, percieved power, good car?
8. How can i relax so that I can talk to girls? (I dont think the bible covers this)
9. How do i become self assured about my abilities to talk to people i dont know, especially people I find attractive?
10. how do i get rid of my fear of rejection without getting rejected a million times over? I can't do that. I retreat into my shell after each rejection and hide for a while.
11. I seem to care a lot about what other people think. I dont want to anymore, how can I change that? I think people are judging me, whenever i do ANYTHING. Especially when I piss someone off.
12. I'm a perfectionist, how do i fix that?
13 How do i lower my standards without letting myself down?

These are all the impeding factors to me being a hot sexy pimp a down right DJ! if i think of more i'll post them later.

Please help
DW

 

[aBAzLLnA]

do you have msn or aim? theres a lot to explain about that and i dont wanna post but those who do i am sure they will tell you a lot too!

~ivan

 

[PiHiPlaya]

1. No
2. No
3. You should strive to look your best to a point that YOU are happy with yourself
4.That aint gonna happen magically, or overnight, don't expect immediate results cuz that's not gonna happen. Girls don't approach guys most of the time anyway
5. Hygeine is everything, take care of yourself man!
6.Not Important at all as long as your not a midget
7. It's important, but the power WILL come to you. Money doesn't really matter
8.The bible DOES cover it, i reccomend reading every single post
9. read the bible
10. Also in the bible
11. there was a post recently, the bible also covers it... try a search
12. What's wrong with being a perfectionist?
13. Go for who you want, don't settle for anything lower than you want

Talk to me on AIM also, i want to help you

 

[Jester]

Ok dude, first off, you need to be committed. If you are a poser, or a wishy washy little sh1t, you will never overcome all your obstacles. There are so many people like that in this world that it disgusts me, they dont really want to be happy, they just say they do and ask for help because it fills a self-serving need for attention and pity.

I dont care if you have a learning disorder
I dont care if youve had a hard life
I dont care if you are afraid
I dont care if youre poor

And guess what else, no one does.

Realise that and youre on your way.

I know you havent read the entire bible, which is exactly the first thing you should have done once you came here, youre not stupid enough to not know that, but you chose not to anyway. That was your first step in the absolute wrong direction. Even though you should not have posted in the first place without reading the ENTIRE bible, i will respond to your questions nonetheless. Keep in mind if it is again obvious to me that you have not read the *ENTIRE* bible and you post again, i will flame you and instruct everyone not to help you, because if you do that, you dont deserve help.

Originally posted by desert_dweller5

1. do i have to be "hot" to get pvssy?

what dumbass told you that?

2. Do i have to beat the sh!t out of every one to get respect?

Same as above

3. Do i need to be buff or ripped to be a "true" DJ?

Buff and ripped guys are really gay cause they like to look at themselves.(if weightlifting existed back in the days of freud i would be really interested in what he would have to say about the guys that did it. haha)

4. How do I get girls to come on to me without me promting them in anyway?

Uh, you dont pvssy, you do it yourself. Check youre crotch area, if theres something hanging there, even if its small, that means youre most likely male and you do the approaching.

5. how important is hygene?

hygiene is extremely important, shave, get a haircut(or learn to do it yourself like i did), pluck ur eyebrows, put on deorderant, good cologne if you can get it, dont use cheap sh1t unless its a copycat cologne. youre better off without any cologne unless you can get real good stuff. shower and wear nice clothes, no baggy lame bullsh1t.

6. How important is hight?

height is negligible

7. How important is status, aka money, percieved power, good car?

again negiligible

8. How can i relax so that I can talk to girls? (I dont think the bible covers this)

you havent read the whole bible so how would you know? It does cover it.

9. How do i become self assured about my abilities to talk to people i dont know, especially people I find attractive?

Why wouldnt you be? (its a very profound question if you can figure the meaning out)

10. how do i get rid of my fear of rejection without getting rejected a million times over? I can't do that. I retreat into my shell after each rejection and hide for a while.

You can't do that? BULLSH1T pvssy, you either DO IT, or you NEVER COME BACK HERE. Ill tell you the other ways after you overcome your fear the best way.


11. I seem to care a lot about what other people think. I dont want to anymore, how can I change that? I think people are judging me, whenever i do ANYTHING. Especially when I piss someone off.

When you start to care, tell yourself not to. Pretty simple huh?


12. I'm a perfectionist, how do i fix that?

Uhh, shutup and tell yourself to shutup when you start to be a fag about things because nothing really matters, and if you think things do, then you dont matter either.

13 How do i lower my standards without letting myself down?

Not sure what youre saying here..You mean go for ugly chicks? You dont have to, if you go for fvckable chicks(and everybody has their own definition of what fvckable is) Then you never "let yourself down" because they are in fact fvckable.

read the bible kook.

 

[mikel]

1. No, you dont have to be hot to get *****. But if you are "hott" then the type of girls you attract are probably going to be alot more appealing.

2. No, do get everyones respect you just need to be yourself. Dont be a pushover though.

3. No, but most people get buff or ripped to increase there level of physicall attraction if they are not pleased with it.

4. Again if you are "hott" then girls will approach you sometimes, but girls usually dont do it. And even when they do, its one of their friends mentioning it to you.

5.Hygiene is very important, Why? Would you want a girlfriend that reeked? I doubt it.

6.Guys sometimes disregard how important height is to women, They do take this into HEAVY consideration when choosing a mate. Whether everyone wants to accept it or not.

7.This really doesn't have that much to do with it unless your loaded.

8.This is just a social phobia that all guys have. Some people get over it sooner some later. For instance, this site uses the illusion that the men can have any women they want as it's core. So, in return the guy has increased confidence and goes and talks to more girls. He will get shot down, but he will be getting alot more ***** than he did get because he is actually talking to girls.

The rest donot need to be answered.

 

[Jester]

Originally posted by mikel
6.Guys sometimes disregard how important height is to women, They do take this into HEAVY consideration when choosing a mate. Whether everyone wants to accept it or not.

8.This is just a social phobia that all guys have. Some people get over it sooner some later. For instance, this site uses the illusion that the men can have any women they want as it's core. So, in return the guy has increased confidence and goes and talks to more girls. He will get shot down, but he will be getting alot more ***** than he did get because he is actually talking to girls.

First off, how the hell would you know height is taken into heavy consideration? u dun know **** bruddah. Im 5'8 and i could genuinely bag girls taller than i am without any sort of abnormal difficultly because i KNOW how to friggin do it.

Now if youre 5'0 and the girl ur after is approaching 6ft i can see how you would have some trouble there But im not saying it couldnt be done. lol that would look damn funny tho hehe, especially if you had ur arm around her shoulder.


And guess what else bro? ITS NOT AN ILLUSION, YOU JUST ARENT THAT GOOD YET. So u dun know what ur talking bout so keep youre pessimistic opinions to yourself.

 

[aBAzLLnA]

yo jester, lol chill bro....

i must admit this post is kinda retarded but still...hes comin for help and lets help eh? (im still waiting to talk to you desert )
mikel...i do think that you have some of your concepts a little off...but you'll figure that **** out.

peace
~ivan

 

[Jester]

Originally posted by aBAzLLnA
yo jester, lol chill bro....

i must admit this post is kinda retarded but still...hes comin for help and lets help eh? (im still waiting to talk to you desert )
mikel...i do think that you have some of your concepts a little off...but you'll figure that **** out.

peace
~ivan

i am helping him, you just dont see it dude.

 

[mikel]

...

bruddah. Im 5'8 and i could genuinely bag girls taller than i am without any sort of abnormal difficultly because i KNOW how to friggin do it

Jester, YOU AREN'T going to convince some girl to sleep with you if you "friggin" know how to do it. That choice is completely out of your hands. Of course how you act does depends on if that attraction will be sustained till intercourse.


Heh...Jester just can't see the big picture.

 

[MrBond007]

Originally posted by desert_dweller5
Does a DJ have to dominate his peers in order to get pvssy and popularity?

No, but then again, if it works for you...



Do you have to instill fear into your enemies?

Yes, that should be a must




is it possible to be popular just having people respect you.

yes



I have a Learning Difference and that puts me at the bottom of the pack because my LD makes it difficult for me to read body language, because i've failed in so many social situations I'm very afraid and usually submissive because i dont want to be teased. I know this is not a good way to go through life and i'm trying to work it out but its very slow. I hear from this forum, you have to fight to get respect. what about ghandi? what about Jesus? How did they get so much respect and recognition by being NICE??? they were not being the biggest bullies on the block.

Do people need to be told through violence that they shouldn't mess with me? that they shouldn't tease me?

Not really. Look at my first 2 answers though. These people found a way that worked for them to get some type of respect and it is to make you feel bad about yourself.Its time retaliate.




I dont know what else to do, I'm nice to everyone, 95% of the timie and all i get in return is **** for it. it doesnt make any sense. I hope I'm getting through to some of you.
in essence what i want to know is,


1. do i have to be "hot" to get pvssy?

The better you look,the more chances you get to get an "interview".



2. Do i have to beat the sh!t out of every one to get respect?

Only the ones that dont respect you



3. Do i need to be buff or ripped to be a "true" DJ?

No.The again....it depends on where you sarge and who.I am 18 and look 25.I wear neat clothes and I look stylish and classy.I found I also had a better time with women around age 25.They are "more talk".


4. How do I get girls to come on to me without me promting them in anyway?

Com`on now!You coward!999 times out of 1000,they wont come to you



5. how important is hygene?

As important as your balls



6. How important is hight?

Average.Just dont be a midget


7. How important is status, aka money, percieved power, good car?


I do beleive that sources of power are important: money,charisma, social status, physical power.Know that you dont ahve to actually have these powers.You must make sure people that meet you at a club for example will beleive you actually possess one or more of those powers.Noteont fake physical power.




8. How can i relax so that I can talk to girls? (I dont think the bible covers this)


The thing is not about being relaxed, its about the whole thrill you get



9. How do i become self assured about my abilities to talk to people i dont know, especially people I find attractive?



Acheive things by yourself, work on projects.Know that you are better than others and youll be more self assured.



10. how do i get rid of my fear of rejection without getting rejected a million times over? I can't do that. I retreat into my shell after each rejection and hide for a while.



You cant get rid of it without going out.Youre looking for a quick fix and its no good.



11. I seem to care a lot about what other people think. I dont want to anymore, how can I change that? I think people are judging me, whenever i do ANYTHING. Especially when I piss someone off.



Know that most people are also self conscious themselves and most of them are asking these questions to themselves.Do you care about others as much as you thuink they do about you?No.Well they dont care about you either.If theym do, they are losers.



12. I'm a perfectionist, how do i fix that?



Do not.Make sure you are better than anyone else.



13 How do i lower my standards without letting myself down?


Do not.Make sure you are better than anyone else



These are all the impeding factors to me being a hot sexy pimp a down right DJ! if i think of more i'll post them later.



Trust me,theres more to it than this.You are like a cripled toy someone(yourself) tries to fix with paint.



Please help
DW

 

[Jester]

Re: ...

Originally posted by mikel
Jester, YOU AREN'T going to convince some girl to sleep with you if you "friggin" know how to do it. That choice is completely out of your hands. Of course how you act does depends on if that attraction will be sustained till intercourse.


Heh...Jester just can't see the big picture.

what are you talking about dude, dealing with a tall girl is no different than dealing with a short girl even if you are short yourself. It is only different if your perception is that she is taller than you and she wont like you. if you know how to handle a short girl, you know how to handle a tall girl, period.