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Why not? Aren't you purporting yourself to be a man?

You want to get with beautiful women or one special woman in particular and you can't figure out why you aren't successful. Could it have anything to do with the fact that you are not dominate?

Confidence is a less specific term that is much more popular in conversations about things can should embrace in order to attract women. And confidence is good. But dominance is the expression of masculine confidence.

A dominate man is not afraid to touch a woman. A dominate man is not afraid to lead a woman, verbally or physically. When he's with a girl, he doesn't shy away from placing his hands on her, taking her hand and physically moving her, or anything like that.

A dominate man possesses his woman.

When a dominate man is kissing his woman (and she is his woman if he is actually dominant), he isn't just kissing her. He is immersed in her and providing an experience for her. A dominant man adds value to his interactions with women through his dominant character. He is in touch with his primal urges and realizes that sometimes a woman just wants a man that can and will treat her like his property and selfishly f*ck the living sh*t out of her.

When a dominant man is sexual with his woman, he's definitely getting something out of it, but he's also cognizant of what she is getting out of it and makes an effort to give her what she wants. And he does not ask her what that is. He knows. How does he know? Because he's a f*cking man and knows how to handle a woman. This is not a catch 22. Are we humans the only species of animals born to this earth WITHOUT a knowledge of how to sexually please the opposite sex??????

Are males really so sexually naive that they don't know how to listen to the way his woman breathes, the sounds she makes, the way she moves her body, that he can't feel the sweat falling off her head as he swoons her away in to sexual bliss? Women are pure sexuality and somehow this escapes men. They are probably hornier than you are. You do realize that it's okay for you and your bros to get together and talk about the expression of your sexuality without anyone thinking anything socially unusual about it... but what of a woman? If she opens her mouth about anything sexual, she's automatically a slut. Repressed sexual desire = f*cking psycho in bed!

Let me close with this. Who do you want to be? Do you want to leave a lasting impression on your women? Do you want to acquire some women??? Do you want to be one of the nameless faces she may remember 10 years from now, or do you want to be "the one that got away"? If you can't dominate a woman physically and sexually, you will never be that man. We all want to feel what it feels like to have a woman gasping for air underneath of us, melting in to our bodies as we penetrate their bodies and their hearts.

How about we start to f*cking do it?
 

Kenny Powers

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yes this is so painfully true and one of the biggest things i've learned since pursuing a DJ lifestyle. So many men, especially young men fail because they are weak beta's and not dominate alphas.

The vast majority of girls want a man who leads. This is why nice guys and in experienced guys struggle to get girls, they're overly conditioned to respect a woman and her space. This is all well and good when it comes to equality in society, but when trying to get with a girl you need to be dominant sometimes.

Girls love it when you get right up in their face when talking to them during night game. Shows you dont give a fvck and are a dominant man. I hooked up with a girl recently who was pretty much a dead fish until i lead. We sat on her couch for 30 minutes at 2 a.m. just talking. I kept waiting for her to look over at me so we could make eye contact and kiss but she just stared at the tv.

Even when we got into her bed together she just laid there on her back. I had to tell her she looked cold and then grab her just to cuddle with her. Finally we kissed for a bit, but things didn't really heat up until i got on top of her. She actually smiled when i mounted her and seemed to get the most pleasure out of that. We didn't have sex because of her "period" (i didn't push it because she texted me to come over and i knew she was slut proofing herself and Ill have another chance). I can tell though the only way we are is if I just grab her, kiss her, throw her on the bed, and have my way with her. Honestly I'd prefer a more sensual and laid back experience (cause im classy like that) but she clearly just wants me to dominate her
 

Tortendieb

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Hell yeah! I used to dominate but after going through some troubling times I seem to have lost all the edge and courage.

I seem to do really well with slutty bimbos though. Sometimes they're so stupid I almost despise them, and I just lose all inhibitions. Typical situation:
Her: "HEY where the hell do you think you're touching???"
(1min later)
Her: "Okay but don't do it again"
(3min later)
Her: "I'm still mad, you know?"
(5min later)
Her: "I'm cold, can I sit on your lap?"

All that by fondling boobs and not apologizing! Sadly I'm never that awesome when I really find the woman interesting. Then I seem to revert straight back to loserland.
 

Twist of Cain

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This is what I've mastered by increasing testosterone through lifting weights.

It oozes from me.

I dominate, because I don't give a sh!t.

Just ask the blonde 19yr old bartender I'm plowing.
 
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